Why men are reluctant want to ask women out...

[Lace]

MEN: All of us have some fears about asking women out. To heal the pain, you must share your pain.

What was the most hurtful thing a woman has done to you or a friend when you asked her out?

[sabaisabai]

Whats the big deal if she says NO... its how u play the game..

i remember one time...i ask a girl out...and she said NO..
...i said to myself...this girl must be crazy ... so i said to her..im not asking u to marry me...just a date! Lets talk...go to a nice restaurant or something and eat.
Its just a date...dont look so serious...
after more bullshittin...she said well...since u seem to be seriously interested in me...yes..lets go on a date and get to know each other.

so...we exchanged numbers....

btw..we never went on a date...cause i lost interest in her..

but my point is... its not the END of the world if a girl says NO!

[zeusbheld]

What about girls say YES, just not want to hurt you... Is it like a game?

I think girls saying NO is better than say fake YES. You get hurt at first is better than getting more hurt in the end... :roll:

YES!!! exactly right.

also, i agree in that it shouldnt be that big a deal if the girl says no. odds are pretty godd she's not the only girl in your town let alone the planet.

[zeusbheld]

its that fear of rejection by the really pretty girl its a big hit on your eigo,so instead of taking that chance...you do nothing thinking you have no chance at all.

YES. i used to be that way... then i noticed that while i might find out i have no chance at all, if i did nothing i would guarantee i had no chance at all..

[Indman]

you gotta be in it to win it!
no guts no glory...

[farangnbkk]

Correct me if I'm wrong but don't we go through this in grade school? Maybe high school? If you were a really late bloomer, college?

[JCBoston]

It's only hard to ask a girl out when you're already in love with her and aren't sure how she feels about you.

I usually ask a girl out long before that point, so it's no problem for me.

[smartass]

Justcameacrossthispostandwantedtobringitbacktolifeabit...

What about girls say YES, just not want to hurt you... Is it like a game?

I think girls saying NO is better than say fake YES. You get hurt at first is better than getting more hurt in the end... :roll:

exactly...just not waste each other time.

[YES!!! exactly right.

also, i agree in that it shouldnt be that big a deal if the girl says no. odds are pretty godd she's not the only girl in your town let alone the planet.

and once again I agree with you.

keep on walking. Johnnie Walker.

[rubkordaikrab]

see you later smart arse

[smartass]

see you later smart arse

Im not quite sure how to respond this guy who is very straightforward making himself clear that he's joined here for sex. :wink: