hbkbkk Posted September 3, 2004 Report Share Posted September 3, 2004 I noticed the posting of Why Thai girl like farang guy? is gettin popular. I think it would be more interesting if the girls would mention some of the things they don't like about farang. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lazybaby_julia Posted September 3, 2004 Report Share Posted September 3, 2004 for me, as a foreign GIRL in Bangkok i think most of the Thai girls would like to have a farang boyfriend you see, nearly every farang has a very young and pretty Thai girlfriend, even the farang is not good looking at all, or old enough to be the father of the girl actually, i just want to tell the girls, it's ok to have a farang bf if you really love him and he loves you, BUT if you are looking for something else from him, then be careful, they are not as stupid as you think... but if you don't care, then fine by me have fun Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Indman Posted September 3, 2004 Report Share Posted September 3, 2004 Will you be my sugar mommy then Tammy??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
friends Posted September 3, 2004 Report Share Posted September 3, 2004 i think most of the Thai girls would like to have a farang boyfriend I don't think so....I see most of Thai girls have Thai bf more than farang BF.. actually, i just want to tell the girls, it's ok to have a farang bf if you really love him and he loves you, BUT if you are looking for something else from him, then be careful, they are not as stupid as you think... I just wanna tell the farang guy as well.. If u think almost of Thai girl are same.. u are wrong.. I am not looking for something else from farang.. if i have a farang bf.. thats mean I really love him and he is loves me also.. back to the topic: -- I don't like farang who lives in Thailand because of SEX.. I mean looking for sex with a Thai girls and think they are all stupid girls -- I don't like farang who proud cuz they are have too much money than Thai ppl.. and think about all of Thai girl will get along with them.. because money -- I don't like farang who looking at me like wanna get me..like to eat me.. something like that..I hate the kind of that eyes.. -- I don't like farang who lives in Thailand but damage my country... such as do something is illegal.. etc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cerberus1264 Posted September 3, 2004 Report Share Posted September 3, 2004 i think most of the Thai girls would like to have a farang boyfriend I don't think so....I see most of Thai girls have Thai bf more than farang BF.. actually, i just want to tell the girls, it's ok to have a farang bf if you really love him and he loves you, BUT if you are looking for something else from him, then be careful, they are not as stupid as you think... I just wanna tell the farang guy as well.. If u think almost of Thai girl are same.. u are wrong.. I am not looking for something else from farang.. if i have a farang bf.. thats mean I really love him and he is loves me also.. back to the topic: -- I don't like farang who lives in Thailand because of SEX.. I mean looking for sex with a Thai girls and think they are all stupid girls -- I don't like farang who proud cuz they are have too much money than Thai ppl.. and think about all of Thai girl will get along with them.. because money -- I don't like farang who looking at me like wanna get me..like to eat me.. something like that..I hate the kind of that eyes.. -- I don't like farang who lives in Thailand but damage my country... such as do something is illegal.. etc Friends.....Excellent points.....Good for you :wink: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maggie_babegirlo Posted September 3, 2004 Report Share Posted September 3, 2004 thats reasonable..lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyoiy Posted September 3, 2004 Report Share Posted September 3, 2004 I dont like drunken farang f***ing around .. pood thai dai nid noi,etc ... some of them jerkking off ... some of them are polite and good as usual but also I dont like drunken thai guys too ... not only farang I prefer farang than Thai anyway ... cant help that I feel nothing with thai guys ... cheers !!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aphrodite Posted September 3, 2004 Report Share Posted September 3, 2004 personally Im a farangaholic lol I really am hver, for some reasons many thai girls dont like farang : - they think its different to communicate with farang cos they could probably interpret wrong meaning or misunderstand what her farang says. - they think all farangs need sex for all the time. i mean some of them might go out with farang but then they gotta break up cos some girls dont wanna have sex. - its easier to understand thai guyz cos we speak same language based on same culture. - some considers are ugly lol like too white or too blonde - some farangs are really difficult to understand what they think or why the hack they do such a thing. (never happen to me tho : P) I dunno thats all i can think of at the moment. and I absolutely dont agree that i think most of the Thai girls would like to have a farang boyfriend its not truth, 95% of my friends dont wanna have a farang bf : p kaunitz 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Venne Posted September 3, 2004 Report Share Posted September 3, 2004 casi casi me caso con tigo:lolI dated a norwegion for a few times and he said, 'gf in his opinion is a girl whom he can have sex with.' then, bye! That kind of morons should be castrated...! If that Norwegian guy say that same to norwegian girl, that girl would rip off this guys nuts and feed them to dogs. I think many Thai girls want to have farang friends, but not necessarily bf. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lazybaby_julia Posted September 3, 2004 Report Share Posted September 3, 2004 firstly, i should say that i was wrong about saying "most thai girls like farang" secondly, i didnt mean anything for that, that's just my own opinion but i do wonder why i saw all the farang from street are all have a young pretty thai girls with them, even he's fat, ugly and topless Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lazybaby_julia Posted September 3, 2004 Report Share Posted September 3, 2004 I dont like drunken farang f***ing around .. pood thai dai nid noi,etc ... some of them jerkking off ... some of them are polite and good as usual but also I dont like drunken thai guys too ... not only farang I prefer farang than Thai anyway ... cant help that I feel nothing with thai guys ... cheers !!! hey, i like you a lot, both your opinions and your pic for your opinions, most of them i agreed, and i think i like your personality as well, just go straight to the point... for your pic, cuz you looked like one of my favorite HK singer, her name is Mo Wenwei, in English should be Karean Mok, not so sure but she has a poster which looked like you very much Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrinceofCalifornia Posted September 3, 2004 Report Share Posted September 3, 2004 Slurms, Priceless post ! Couldn't have said it better myself. Lets just say the farangs in Thailand are not a fair representation of reality. Bob Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
farangnbkk Posted September 4, 2004 Report Share Posted September 4, 2004 ha ha haundoubtably one of the ugliest groups of people alive... Hey! I resemble that remark! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoiBKK Posted September 4, 2004 Report Share Posted September 4, 2004 I think it would be more interesting if the girls would mention some of the things they don't like about farang. Some are cultural insensitive, esp. those whoremongers... See, when you are in the entertainment area like Nana, Soi Cowboy or Patpong. You can see them fondleing their ***** of the day on the street with out care, kissing and touching everywhere. You get the picture , right ? Yes, it's their holiday. But they should behave 'civil' in public a bit, ok ? They should respect the locals a bit more. Am I asking too much ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loburt Posted September 4, 2004 Report Share Posted September 4, 2004 [quote name="NoiBKK Some are cultural insensitive' date=' esp. those whoremongers... See, when you are in the entertainment area like Nana, Soi Cowboy or Patpong. You can see them fondleing their ***** of the day on the street with out care, kissing and touching everywhere. You get the picture , right ? Yes, it's their holiday. But they should behave 'civil' in public a bit, ok ? They should respect the locals a bit more. Am I asking too much ? Yes, you are. A falang guy can't walk in those areas without being accosted every three steps by some tout, male or female, asking if they want a lady, or want to see f*cking show, or having some katoey reaching out and grabbing them. The whole of Sukhumvit from Nana to Soi 23 is lined with hookers at night and more touts grabbing guys and trying to get them to go to massage parlors. You can't even walk on the third floor of Panthip Plaza without being grabbed by a Thai guy every two steps who says "Mister, sex video, mister." And how many taxi drivers taking falang guys into Bangkok from the airport start the conversation with offers to take them to a massage parlor. So, some falang guys gets off a plane, walks into the middle of all this and you expect him to act like he's attending a society ball? And what happens if he brings a hooker to his hotel? Does the hotel object? No way. They just put a surcharge on for the extra person so they make money off of it too. So with all these signals and messages, why do you expect the falang guy to understand he's doing anything wrong? If you act like a ***** you'll attract whoremongers. Respect the locals? How are the locals acting? They're trying to get you to go with a girl. When you clean up all these "entertainment" areas, you won't get these types of falangs. So why don't you ask the government to do that instead of blaming the falang guys? But then you'll still have all the other massage parlors, karaoke bars, etc., that cater to Thai men, and that's 95% of the business. To be frank, a lot of what I see on Sukhumvit between Nana and Soi 23 I also find pretty revolting, but simply blaming the falang male tourists is pretty disingenuous. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carlinho Posted September 4, 2004 Report Share Posted September 4, 2004 well can you blame the girls..?? The farangs who frequent bangkok are undoubtably one of the ugliest groups of people alive...lol...and pissed 99 percent of their time.....culturally insensitive..***** mongers etc... i agree. we have a joke here about single males travelling to thailand..loses much of its effect when it is translated into english...but let me try anyhow ...it is something like "come with the bonk bomber and leave with the tripper clipper". if you just look at some of the ppl when getting into a flight going to bkk you will find that this is not just an ironic slogan but sad reality. i don't have a problem with the red light districts in bkk, i don't even have a problem with the galz there and with guys coming to thailand just to f*** around ... that is just about offer and demand..same ol' story as ever. but what i really regret is that many ppl believe that this what is thailand is about. and indeed, the reputation of thailand being just a big gogo-bar is caused by the ignorance of the silly b@stards going to pattaya and then telling everybody afterwards how beautiful thailand is. they are so dumb that they don't even know that they haven't really been to thailand. and that reputational thing is the real problem. but it is not caused by the pure existence of gogo-bars. you can find those all over the world (maybe the bargirls in other countries are just not that pretty :wink: :evil: ) bg-pich 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loburt Posted September 4, 2004 Report Share Posted September 4, 2004 the world is not made of thais and farangs, it is made of good and bad people. the bad can be either thai or farang. or.....stupid :?: LOVE, PEACE & STILL ENJOYING THAILAND I agree. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cedric Posted September 4, 2004 Report Share Posted September 4, 2004 well can you blame the girls..?? The farangs who frequent bangkok are undoubtably one of the ugliest groups of people alive...lol...and pissed 99 percent of their time.....culturally insensitive..***** mongers etc... I agree, even if cant make so strong generalities But, for what I saw, farang guys dont behave the same when they come to Thailand as they do in Europe or US... :evil: They act really more "decent" or "moral" in western countries! But hopefully, not all!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoiBKK Posted September 5, 2004 Report Share Posted September 5, 2004 Yes, you are. A falang guy can't walk in those areas without being accosted every three steps by some tout, male or female, asking if they want a lady, or want to see f*cking show, or having some katoey reaching out and grabbing them. The whole of Sukhumvit from Nana to Soi 23 is lined with hookers at night and more touts grabbing guys and trying to get them to go to massage parlors. You can't even walk on the third floor of Panthip Plaza without being grabbed by a Thai guy every two steps who says "Mister, sex video, mister." And how many taxi drivers taking falang guys into Bangkok from the airport start the conversation with offers to take them to a massage parlor. It is called 'marketing', I guess. They are trying to sell their product or services. Sex sells, right ? Hehehe Not to be confused with custom/good manners. So, some falang guys gets off a plane, walks into the middle of all this and you expect him to act like he's attending a society ball? Nope, but a little sensitive to the locals would be nice since they come from a 'civilised' countries after all. Civilised country should have civilised people ? And what happens if he brings a hooker to his hotel? Does the hotel object? No way. They just put a surcharge on for the extra person so they make money off of it too. So with all these signals and messages, why do you expect the falang guy to understand he's doing anything wrong? It's business but we're talking about customs, ok ? What they do with the business is not all customs. Showing off they have a ***** and parading on the street to the broad day light to the world is one thing. But fondling them all over is another thing. A decent people won't do that in their own country. Would it make it decent to do it in a third world country ? If you act like a ***** you'll attract whoremongers. Respect the locals? How are the locals acting? They're trying to get you to go with a girl. Not everyone of us is trying to get you to go with the girls, I'm sure. Like any sales man, if you don't want their product, you don't buy them. You buy their product coz you want them. It's their job to sell, it's business. Like you guys use sex to sell music , clothes, shoes, whatever. Is it your custom ? I don't think so. When you clean up all these "entertainment" areas, you won't get these types of falangs. So why don't you ask the government to do that instead of blaming the falang guys? Blaming ? All I'm asking is please behave. How do you know I don't ask my goven't to do this and that ? You seems to know what I think and do ??? But then you'll still have all the other massage parlors, karaoke bars, etc., that cater to Thai men, and that's 95% of the business. So ? what's your point ? They do it in a private place. We're taliking about why Thai girls don't like farang guys. I'm telling you because of their indecent sexual behaviour in public places. We know there are entertainment complex for guys in those big buildings. It doesn't make it go away. We're not that stupid. To be frank, a lot of what I see on Sukhumvit between Nana and Soi 23 I also find pretty revolting, but simply blaming the falang male tourists is pretty disingenuous. As I said, I don't blame them. But you seem to blame Thai government. I agree it is the government to blame. It is also about the purchasing power of the richer country and the poor country. The rich think their money make indecent behavior acceptable in Third would country. That is also revolting too. But then again not all sex torutists fondle their ***** of the day in public places. Some are well-dressed and well-mannered. Well, maybe they just finished their business dinner and sneaked their farang wife to those places. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loburt Posted September 5, 2004 Report Share Posted September 5, 2004 Your responses aren't very convincing. You say, just for an example, don't confuse marketing with customs/bad manners, and that the falang guys should behave better. But when I walk down Sukhumvit Road and it's lined with hookers out on the street and a Thai guy grabs me and tries to get me to go a massage parlor, I don't see that as marketing. I see that as bad manners/customs/behavior on the part of the locals. You can't excuse seedy, lowlife behavior by simply saying sex sells and it's marketing. If that's what the locals are doing in that particular area, then some falang tourists will respond to it with seedy behavior of their own. I'm not endorsing the bad behavior of the falangs, but it's a clear response to what's going on around them/on offer from the locals. You're telling them it's okay. Why should a falang tourist be sensitive to the locals when the locals are sending him all the signals that it's okay to do whatever you want here? And that's the signal you get when you're in those areas. There is also a difference between using a sexy model to sell a product (and we see that at every auto show in Thailand) and someone selling you a woman on the street. I also don't tend to see this type of behavior on the part of falangs outside these red light areas. They respond to the signals of the environment they are in, and in those red light areas all the signals say, go ahead, do whatever you like, this is Thailand and anything goes. You say I'm talking about business when you're talking about customs. There is no difference between business and customs, as you say, because if a business violates the customs of the place it is in, it will fail. People who are offended will make sure that it does. But the sex business here is booming. It just seems to offend you that in certain parts of town, which are obvious red light districts, it's more out in the open than behind closed doors. Well, see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil. Pretendng it's not there doesn't make the evil go away. As for this rich tourists in a poor country thing, well, I've been to other countries in the region and they have red light stuff going on also. But it's nowhere near as "in your face" as it is here, and so the foreign tourists don't act as badly. You reap what you sow. You you're all not tryng to sell me a girl. You're right. And that I don't have to buy it if I don't want it. True, and I don't. But you also don't have to go into red light districts, where it's likely you'll see this kind of thing that disturbs you. Yes, the forum is why thai girls don't like falang guys, but if you're reasons for not liking them are based on a premise that is full of holes and fallacies, then you'll get responses that disagree. We are allowed to disagree, even if you don't like it. Once again, I don't like a lot of what I see in those areas either, but only blaming the falangs for it is frankly, bullsh*t. Local people are running those areas. Locals are setting the rules there. Once again, you reap what you sow. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loburt Posted September 5, 2004 Report Share Posted September 5, 2004 I don't subscribe to the view that most people in Thailand can be bought, or that all women here are up for it. There are plenty of people here who have ethics, principles, morals or whatever you would like to call them. There are some incredibly honorable people here for whom I have the greatest respect. Sadly, however, there are also a lot who worship money over anything else. You will find that anyplace, but I think Slurm's comments earlier in this thread represent a fair slice of some of that reality here. I also think NoiBKK IS typical of many Thai women in that they are rightfully offended by this behavior. I just don't agree with where she is placing all the blame. I also don't think you should make assumptions or characterizations about her as 1. you don't know her, and 2. this is not a personal attack. It is a difference of opinion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest david_bkk Posted September 5, 2004 Report Share Posted September 5, 2004 get real. Most people (adults) wouldn't tolerate a partner who refused to have sex within a committed relationship, male or female. From what your ex wrote, I think he actually tried to explain this very nicely to you. And what does the fact that he was Norwegian have to do with it? casi casi me caso con tigo:loli was no longer attracted to the guy when he started asking for sex. I dated a norwegion for a few times and he said, 'gf in his opinion is a girl whom he can have sex with.' then, bye! just a big difference in the idea of physical intimacy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoiBKK Posted September 8, 2004 Report Share Posted September 8, 2004 You say, just for an example, don't confuse marketing with customs/bad manners, and that the falang guys should behave better. But when I walk down Sukhumvit Road and it's lined with hookers out on the street and a Thai guy grabs me and tries to get me to go a massage parlor, I don't see that as marketing. I see that as bad manners/customs/behavior on the part of the locals. You can't excuse seedy, lowlife behavior by simply saying sex sells and it's marketing. If that's what the locals are doing in that particular area, then some falang tourists will respond to it with seedy behavior of their own. I'm not endorsing the bad behavior of the falangs, but it's a clear response to what's going on around them/on offer from the locals. You're telling them it's okay. Why should a falang tourist be sensitive to the locals when the locals are sending him all the signals that it's okay to do whatever you want here? And that's the signal you get when you're in those areas. ... I also don't tend to see this type of behavior on the part of falangs outside these red light areas. They respond to the signals of the environment they are in, and in those red light areas all the signals say, go ahead, do whatever you like, this is Thailand and anything goes. I've been to several red-light districts in other countries including Amsterdam and Sydney (Kings Cross). We (Thai guys and Thai girls) were grabbed or even dragged by the local touts to get into their bars. They were very aggressive in getting their customers. Stragely enough, I didn't have the urge or even assume to show any indecent public affection in those areas. We didn't respond to the local seedy behavior the same way they did to us. We didn't have to lower ourselves to the same level as them. I guess it is because we (Thais - at least our group) are raised in a different ways than, say, Westerners. Naturally,we react differently in the same situation. You, Westerners, as you said, will respond to it with seedy behavior of their own. But we don't. OK ? Now, what does this tell us ? :-) Well, see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil. Pretendng it's not there doesn't make the evil go away. I'm not pretending. We know that it is there. But isn't it 'polite' to keep it 'private' ? A little more discreet ? You you're all not tryng to sell me a girl. You're right. And that I don't have to buy it if I don't want it. True, and I don't. But you also don't have to go into red light districts, where it's likely you'll see this kind of thing that disturbs you. Hey, I don't have to go to the red-light districts to see this kind of behvior. Many of them do it in regular restaurants, shopping center, etc. Maybe we are too polite to tell them to 'get the fcuk out off this place and do it in your fcuking room'. May be we are too tolerate. Yeah, maybe we should speak up - just like what I'm doing now. :idea: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest david_bkk Posted September 8, 2004 Report Share Posted September 8, 2004 Yeah, the farang in Thailand most be so messed up. I mean, c'mon, only losers would actually _chose_ to stay here, right? What an astute point. eddie_b ...... You're so right I like farang guys, my ex-bf is swedish ....... I'm always fall for swede boys only ,not all "Farang". Well ,not "Farang" in Thailand also ,no thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steel Posted September 8, 2004 Report Share Posted September 8, 2004 Since I am a Norwegian, I just HAVE to comment on this.. Sorry guys! *S* -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- da2day wrote: casi casi me caso con tigo:lol I dated a norwegion for a few times and he said, 'gf in his opinion is a girl whom he can have sex with.' then, bye! Venne writes: That kind of morons should be castrated...! If that Norwegian guy say that same to norwegian girl, that girl would rip off this guys nuts and feed them to dogs. I think many Thai girls want to have farang friends, but not necessarily bf. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well, many Norwegians go to Thailand, to drink and get laid... in the sun.. IF that is the case, I think the man who told you this was very honest.. Would you prefere someone who told you he loved you.. When that is not the case? I think that the men who deserve to get castrated, is the kind of man who tell all kinds of lies to get laid.. Many Norwegian ladies would not mind talk like that at all, a large number of them is just looking for sex, and only that.. What is wrong about being honest? To hard to handle?! Just to put a little love into this.. My experience is that any farang guy who comes to Thailand for the first time just fall in love with it all.. and most of all the ladies.. deeply.. There is a lot of lonely Norwegian guys who is out looking for love in Thailand.. So girls, run out too the airport and grab one! :-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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