Well today is my day off work and I have been enjoying my computer again. Until I get to Bangkok in July the computer is the only way I have communicating to people. Its funny because I will meet new people that say they are looking for a relationship. However when I see them online they never say hello or message me after we have talked before. Also days will go by and I will not get any messages from them but yet they say to me that they are serious about having a relationship with me.

I remember when I met my ex thai girlfriend online. Every day I would get a message from her and I looked forward to reading my email just so I could see if I received a message from her. Now it does not seem that way. I will be lucky if I get one message every few days, or weeks from some of my friends. Whats ironic however is my ex even though she wrote me every day turned out to be not so good. She never had pictures of me any where on her profile and her profile always said single. So I guess you can't always judge a book by its cover. I know that when I come to Thailand in July I will meet some of the friends that I talk to online. Then I will see who is serious and who is not. Maybe I have high expectations on what I want. I really don't know but I do know that if someone likes you, then you should see some kind of effort in order to know you. A lot of times I will tend to look at things in a romtantic sense. What I mean by that is I sometimes dream about meeting someone and then everything falling into place. I guess I am a hopeless romantic in that sense! However reality tends to be very different then what I dream about coming true in my life.

Let's not talk about finding love here. It is not easy like that.

In is such an inane expectation. Just enjoy your holiday.

well, you seem have analyzed the matter pretty well. That damn reality. lol...now what to do about it??

Most of all Just enjoy your trip and don't expect too much from online encounters/friendships and meet as many as you can in July. It's about you and your holiday, so don't let feelings or emotions ruin it or bring you down! And like you said, you'll have a better feel for them when you meet them in person.......Good Luck bud!

'Most of all Just enjoy your trip and don't expect too much from online encounters/friendships and meet as many as you can in July. It's about you and your holiday, so don't let feelings or emotions ruin it or bring you down! And like you said, you'll have a better feel for them when you meet them in person.......Good Luck bud!'

So true........

Poor you..

Fact always hurt!!!

Think it's this way...there're someone for everyone.

Sometime when you less expect...it's come. Eventhough...it's not!!!

On one could hurt you most ... but yourself.

Hope you'll have a wonderful trip here and good luck to you

It's better to live by the old adage: Expect nothing and you will never be disappointed.

Best to lower your expectations. If something happens, be grateful for it.