My beloved cyber....

As from AF last jrl ........ she said she doenst like herself anymore.....(but i still like you na.....)

"Love and relationship do to common ppl ....... become dependent and sucky..." (hell i dont know abt. sucky) but dependent plays big role already........

I hate when i feel emotionally attached to someone... i lost track that way.. and its so frustrated....anyway this is another issue to talk about...

Today am talking about friendship ....i have true feeling for someone whom i cherish as "Friend" ..... what to do when your friend tend to over react over silly issues.... and go out of the way they used to be.....

Your friend dont even give you a chance to explain... why? i have no idea ..... even tho i dont care much about how ppl think ....but hey you are my friend.......or you might not feel the same?

.......but why dont you just talk to me... ask me ... dont assume....i can explain... there is always reason for many things and even tho i cant give you any good reason... i would still want to know how you feel anyway....... i think friends can talk to each other and work things out.....talk like grown up ppl talk, would you?

if you arent good friend........ i dont give a second to be bothered..... and please just dont be fretful over me......am "seng"

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Hmmm, I thnk I know what you are refering too. Ya know I just wrote you this BIG-Ass e-mail and then I accidently deleted it! AGH! I was pretty pissed! So I will just call you and tell you later in the evening.

These friend(s) that are over reacting- I think you said it- if they are close enough to have your number they should call and ask or expalin what it is that is bothering them. Not freak out like a child and blame you for something that is not of your making. You are not their only friend, surely they have other friends. They can also take some initiative themselves and Do Something- correct? Don't get down. True friends meet up. Real people meet up. Tell them to get off their ass and do something themself. Hey wanna go to Starbucks Lang Suan tonight?

Nice new pic byt he way. Did you check out my new pics?

I would normally make some comment on your journal but this really seem like it is something between you and this friend of yours. Think you two should communicate and work things out.

Good Luck :-)

As for AF not liking herself. I used to have that feeling too. But not anymore. Cause nowadays I hire people for that now. They do a better job at not liking me (a real professional) than I can of not liking myself and they can do if for cheaper.

Sometimes, I get lucky and have some people not liking me for free. But I don't like that, cause it is not right for someone to work for free.

So, what am I trying to say? I don't know. I can't believe you are still reading this..

Oh I think I am trying to say. Life is too short to not like yourself. It is the only one you have.

True friends are always there for you. True friends will always except you as you are. When over reaction occurs, I think that it's mainly due to misunderstanding because a true friend never wants to hurt you in any way. A true friend wants to understand you the best way possible and be able to help you figure out the reasons for which you can not explain. If a true friend sometimes acts as thought they are not, you should know deep down this is not true, because what it has taken to develope that strong bond is too much to waste.

To ask a True friend not to be fretful over you, seems contradictory; because a true friend is always concerned about your welfare. Good or Bad.

Kitty, I think you just proved what kind of friend you are khrup!! Very nice!!

hbkbkk, hahaha!! That was a great post!!

i dunno wah, banana... : (

coz i dunno the story...and even if i know, i don't think i can give a fair comment anyway coz there are always two sides of s story.

if i know the story, then i can give you my opinion but only based on what i know, doesn't prove it's true.

you might accidentally hurt that person so bad or s/he might misunderstand or over react...mai roo dii.

but i hope everything work out well,

again..anything, anything at all as usual na ; )

ps. thank you for your couragement hbkbkk and bobby!

HBKBKK- That was funny!

Myabe the person isn't comfortable, or doesn't like, being talked about in a public forum. Maybe they're not even sure they're the one being talked about because their name isn't used, so they're not sure how to react. Could end up looking foolish. HBKBKK is right. Should be worked out between the two of you.

Thks Loburt.... not my way to work things out ... if ppl got prob. with me... ask me... i wont go to them and ask... i just leave it at that but of course with a little of wonder... but if they dont take it seriously or see the worthiness so why would i?

This is all so confusing. Kitty can you just make a new journal topic for us to discuss so we at least sound like we know what we are talking about. Otherwise I'd like to get a part time job with HBK and have him pay me to not like him or something like that. How bout just not work and spend time on TF. Can you pay me for that HBK? ****, I get paid to do that now and apparently so do all of you. Life is great.