had a date with a gal on Saturday night. She said she is bringing a friend to introduce me I usually agree to this, sine it's networking, meeting new people this would have been our 2nd dateher friend was absolutely hideous, so I feigned sickness to get out of there and went drinking alone   had a date last night with a cutie, it would have been our 3rd dateshe said she was going to bring a friend, so I said I was busy is it too much to ask that a gal doesn't ? : ask for perfume or cosmetics on the 1st or 2nd date   bring a friend to EVERY datewant to go out drinking instead of talking over dinner   good news is we now have Coyote dancers in CM, at least for a while, at Sai Lom Joy restaurant, near the entrance to CM Land on Chang Klahn road  

hehe..

If I remember correctly, i have been hearing this kind of story from time to time. (recently from you) It doesnt happen just in Chiangmai.

With your 'luck', you will be able to find the girl that doesnt have materialism attitude, paroxysm of greed. I hate this.

Hey what does your Id means???

Just curious...

I think there is a term for that. It's called "cockblocker".

Cockblocker: What fat and/or ugly girls do to guys who want to hook up with their cute girl friends.

Cockblocking is not nice. Fat girls do it because they can't get any so they get jealous and try to prevent other guys from giving the **** to their thinner, hotter girl friends. If you are a hot, horny girl and your ugly, fat friend tells you that that guy you want to bone is a player and/or has STD's, she's not really protecting you, she's just being a *****-ass cockblocker cause she don't want you to get laid and be all happy. Cockblockers are messed like that.

(cut and paste from urbandictionary.com)

Maybe if you didn't have such an offensive nickname, you would have more luck.

"It doesnt happen just in Chiangmai. "

yes, I know, bit it seems to be much more the way thing go in CM

I had much better luck in BKK

"cut and paste from urbandictionary.com"

very good definition of cock blocker, obviously written by a man, or a VERY understanding woman

"offensive nickname"

why is it offensive ?, because you couldn't choose buck hum noi ?

and these gals have no idea what my ID on TF is

"If i go to date with some guy who i never know in person, I will take my friend with me only the first time"

yes, only the first time, so when they bring a friend the second or 3rd time, what should I think ?

A - she want me to take her friend, because she is not interested in me

B - she wants to have a 3some, and her friend is bi-sexual

C - she wants her friend to cum along to drink and eat for free and then cock-block

All my friends have told me when dating a Thai girl they usually bring a friend along and I guess you are just going to have to accept that.

Make sure you impress the friend they bring along because that friend of the lady in question will influence the potential relationship a lot.

"Is he jai dee?"

"Is he a butterfly?"

"Was he friendly to you?"

Those are just some of the questions the girl in question will ask her friend at the end of the date. Making excuses and leaving also backing out to a date once the lady asks to bring her friend along will not make such a good impression for you.

I many a time have been that friend when my Thai girlfriends have been dating.

Goodluck.

I left my Heart in CM.........just like when I had to relocate from San Francisco to Honolulu. CM was where I met my 1st online friend from Thailand. She was the one that persuaded me to visit Thailand! She said "Eddie, if you come to Thailand, you will love it here". Well, I did love CM, and made a 2nd visit and met this beautiful lady and fell in love with her the 1st time........not my online friend, as it was only a plutonic relationship with her. I made 6 trips to CM after that, but after almost a 18 months, I had to give her up, because she was concerned about her daughter (9yrs), about having a new man in life? I treated well and was heart-broken....so I have focused on Bangkok, rather than going to CM with bad memories :-( Eddie

I have never heard of this bring friend on a date thing any place other than Thailand. What is up with these women? Maybe you need a wingman who is willing to take one for the team.

how about just "Buck" and leave the anatomical description out of your name? just a thought.

i had to go to pluto to have a plutonic relationship.

"they usually bring a friend along and I guess you are just going to have to accept that"

I did accept it, for the first date, and for the other gal on the 2nd date, but I will not continue to see her with a friend always along

"Making excuses and leaving also backing out to a date once the lady asks to bring her friend along will not make such a good impression for you"

that's ok, because I have no intention of seeing either of them again. If she wants to bring her cock-blocker friend, well I'm not interested, and I am not talking about the first date here...

"how about just "Buck" and leave the anatomical description out "

I don't think I could change my username w/o starting my membership all over again

It is the normal and accepted practice in Thailand (practiced by Thais) to bring a friend on a first, second, or even third date. The girls wants to explore and know you better before commiting themselves to a one-on-one situation. That is a CULTURAL difference and if you're going to date in Thailand, better get used to it.

I dated plenty of gals in BKK, Nonthaburi, Samutprakarn, etc. that didn't bring a friend even to the second date

yes, the would sometimes even bring their sister to the first date, but here in CM it seems they bring their friend or sister to EVERY date

so you are on permanent cock-block and sometimes they expect 3 friends to come along each time and they want to either go to a karaoke or go dancing after dinner and drinks

and no, I'm gonna get used to it