The big picture!
Well its been a long time since I last posted anything in my journal. The last time I was in Thailand was in the summer of 2006. I had a great time and met some nice people. One woman in particular I enjoyed spending time with. We went to the movies, dinner and enjoyed each others company. After I returned home I began to chat with her online on msn. She told me that she missed me and wanted to see me again. When I heard this I was happy because I thought she was just interested in being friends. Thats the impression that I got every time we hung out together in Thailand. So because of this I never made any moves on her. We chatted online and decided that we would have a serious relationship. She told me that she would not date anyone until I returned to Thailand. However after just a few weeks I would get emails saying please hurry and come see me. This kind of bothered me because it is not cheap to fly to Thailand from the USA. So unfortunately I cant' come there every month to see someone that I like. Eventually I asked her online - " After I come see you again then what?" Looking at the big picture what do you think will happen. Can you say to yourself that you would do whatever it takes to make this relationship last or only be with me if I keep coming to Thailand? Will you leave your country and come live with me in the USA? These are the questions that I ask before I get too serious with someone online. Because if these questions can't be answered then I don't see any reason to date someone from another country. I would love to move to Thailand and be with someone but right now I can't do that. I have student loans, a new car and soon a condo. So unless a woman is okay with moving here I really can't do anything but see her once in awhile when I come to Thailand. Unfortunately that is not enough for a relationship to work out. This is what I call the Big Picture!
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