Marry with a TF-er Part II
Entry posted by kikkokgirl ·
277 views
this is part I :http://www.thailandfriends.com/index.php?name=Journal&view=journal&jid=39466&juid=3220No I did not see him while I was in Europe in febuary. Not when I was there again in April. We chatted more less, My feeling for him turned to be just friendship.In July 2005, I came back again to Belgium, this time I wanted to be serious with my future. I would love to know where I will be and what I wanna do. I decided to stay 3 months in Belgium learning languages and see if i could live my life there. But the hard time began at the same moment, I found out that my bf in Holland cheated on me with his colleague... plus a lot of messy **** in life. I was too crazy, I packed my stuffs, took holidays and headed to Germany, caught up with a stranger there, just to escape from reality that i gotta face. Just go there, spending time for myself figure it out what i supposed to do next.A week later I came back to Belgium with clearly mind, I gotta do what I had to do and enjoy my stay in Belgium. I did not wantt to have serious relation while i had not known yet where I belong. For sure, no more distance relation.I studied french in Leuven.I enjoyed my class, had good time with my classmates. I started to feel good of being single. But everytime I took the train to somewhere via Brussels, I thought about the date in september 2004.... It was 10 months before....there was nothing special, but i thought of it.We still chatted and he knew I was in Leuven, so he came from Brussels to see me. It was our second time seeing each other after 10 months.It was nice to see each other, we exchanged our stories. The funny thing was... we both just broke up:-)We saw each other almost everyday. But I told myself, no serious relation. I did not know if i will live in Belgium, so no no.I took holidays again to Marjorca (Spain) for 2 weeks. I could not stop thinking of him, of us...So after I came back to Belgium, I decided, I would like to stay in Belgium and gotta know him better. It took me a lot of energy to ask for permission to stay in Belgium. My case was exceptional, as I came with tourist visa and asked for student visa in Belgium. So it was a lil more complicated. But after 6 months running for those ****, finally I made it. U might doubt why we did not get married for my visa at first. But for us, wedding is something really special and important. We would be regret if it does not work out between us and we gotta divorce later. We both did not want to take the risk with that. Marriage was too important for us.However we have been together since september 2005 :-)July 2006 he came first time to Thailand and asked my parents to marry me:-)In 3 days we gonna get married. And I know all our efforts have been paid for:-)We know, we do love each other and that we will do our best to be together for the rest of our lives. He has got the most thing that I need from a guy. I know he is the best for me.I love you, Ruben and I can´t wait to say the word " JA" this coming saturday:-))
0 Comments
Recommended Comments