BangkokBob writes to me: "you obese, left wing skank."

That's it. One sentence. No smiley face or anything. Do you think he's kidding? I hope so. That's what I sent in the reply: "You must be kidding! I want what you're smoking!"

But the sad thing is, living in Bangkok I'm not really sure. I was like, this guy is so ridiculous! Obese! God knows I'm not skinny, but let's be real. Anyone can look at my pics.

Here's this forty-something guy who, at least judging by his picture, is not going to win any beauty contests anytime soon, and he's going out of his way to insult me.....If it was an insult. Still trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. But to go out of his way to say that to me--come on, I'm not skinny but I KNOW I'm decent-looking--he must have lots of anger issues. Here I am, just a nice 25 year-old girl in a foreign country trying to get laid. I'm not in his face. I just put my profile up. Nobody forced him to read it. Or to reply with such hate and stupidity.

Does wanting sex make me skanky? Wow! Join the 21st century, Bob!And when did "left-wing" become an insult! I'm left-wing and proud of it!!!

I believe in: freedom of speech, no religion in schools, taxpayer-funded education for all, universal healthcare, no discrimination based on anything, and the kind of diplomacy where my country, America, works hand-in-hand with other countries to solve the world's problems.

You don't want to hear about it, Bob? Then please don't come to my page!

Hi Nicole....Long time no see....I wrote this IDIOT BangkokBoob a comment in the journal about tattoos this morning....Trust me....He wasn't joking.....

Take care.....Cheers

Sorry....I meant Forum....Not Journal

This is not a comment about BkkBob who I don't know and I'm sure is a nice guy. But your profile shows you to be a smart confident self-assured lass who knows what she wants and has no problem asking for it. If a guy felt imtimidated by you he might try to make himself feel better by insulting you. Just a thought.

Cheers

td

don't worry nicole, he's just frustrated coz he didn't figure out until he was 40 that he could sex if he paid for it, and he's got a lot of residual anger from waiting so long to lose his virginity. i'm sure he'll figure out that i'm kidding.

YOU however, are defiitely not obese and look DAMN good girl.

Sure you need a 2nd opinion Nic?!.....Ciao Bellaaaaaaaa!!!

and well...your wing/s better be "left" where they are..lol

(but hey...don't you guys even dare to discriminate against 40-sth....ya know they come in all sizes ok na ja!

age ain't nothin' but a number! some people age like red wine or a good single malt and get better and more smooth and balanced, other people age like white wine and turn to vinegar.

after all, i'm hundreds of years old and i havent seen a teenager who could keep up with me. oh sure, there are problems with daylight, crosses, dr van helsing, etc., but i feel just as good as i did the day i turned 200 the blood supply ain't what it used to be though, must be all that junk food people eat... >

SERIOUSLY THOUGH the problem with certain ppl isnt that they got older, but that their brain didnt keep adapting and growing after the age of six.

you got nothing to worrry about bro.

Hey don't take it the wrong way, of course I was joking. I forgot to put up the smiley. Hey I'm a leftist myself

bangkokbob: um. oh. sorry. my bad. i dont know you at all, but i jumped in coz i though u were bustin' her chops. sorry about going smartass on ya before i had the details.

i'm a dumbass sometimes.

thanks for all the support! some really insightful comments here too. restores my faith in farang in BKK.

glad to hear Bob's got a sense of humor. whew!!!

--i must go warp the minds of small children now. --