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Does sex change everything?


anawatsiriwong

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Did your relationship change after sex? Did it change because you didn't have sex? It doesn't matter if you said yes or no, or if it made things weird or everything stayed the same. I just want to know how you feel about the consequences.Tell me what you think "sex changes everything" really means!Thank you! xx

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Did your relationship change after sex? Did it change because you didn't have sex? It doesn't matter if you said yes or no, or if it made things weird or everything stayed the same. I just want to know how you feel about the consequences.Tell me what you think "sex changes everything" really means!Thank you! xx

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If you have never had sex with that peron before, then of course that will change everything after doing it...but will the change be good or bad is another thing altogether.

Sex in a relationship does change things because it is impossible to consider the relationship as "just friends" any more.

The act of intimacy, because of the "mechanics" of what you are doing, must affect how we think of our partner after that. Nothing will really stay the same in reality - simply because as a man you have entered her body, or as a woman, you have allowed him to enter you...it means that you have put a huge amount of trust in that person, and as a woman for example, I am sure it is when she is at her most vulnerable.

Whether you see it this way or not is beside the point, but remember that it is the act that creates new life, so if you are simply wanting it for fun, thats fine, but BE SAFE...DONT trust your life and future (or that of a baby you may produce) to a chance bit of fun with someone that you dont want to marry.

Have fun and have great sex - but use condoms, be safe, and think about how you feel about it first...don't ever let anyone pressure you into it...

Sex can be great fun and leave you feeling fantastic, but not if you have niggling doubts or you are not really sure you want to do it at the time, or with that person.

It has to be an act of giving, not just a "hit in the guts with an icecream truck"!

Having said all this...enjoy it...

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Like he said it does change things because you have crossed a line that can never be uncrossed. Even if iit's a one time thing with a close for whatever reason you can NEVER go back to the same friendship because you have shared that level of intimacy. Weather it's just a one night stand, friends with benefits, or a serious relationship with true potential you are opening yourself up to that person more and your relationship.

If you decide to do always remember that in the end you could end completely hating this other person and if that did happen you would regret having slept with them? If you can answer 'yes' then don't do it.

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Well, yea I think it does even sometimes I pretend it doesnt. For women, we might not realize that we would become more clingy after we have had sex with the person and sometimes that makes men think they control us. But in a good way, sex helps you get closer to that person ... at least thats what I believe.

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a relationship is like a jigsaw puzzle; you need every part in order to see the whole picture. Some bits are bigger than others, some are more awkward shapes, but once you have all the pieces and you have them in the right place, then you can happily sit and look at and enjoy the completed picture... : )

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Yes it seriously does... Sex does bring emotions and intimacy to us women. It probably doesnt change much to men coz its their nature and they're driven by sex so they just view it as a normal act but for us girls to something very special. So keep in mind how men and women perceive sex differently and as the outcome of things either...

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