Stop Faking it.
Entry posted by CocoaBrotha ·
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Ya thought this was about sex, didn't you??? I've met a lot of people in my life time. And, being me, I've watched people, analyzed them and figured out what their lives and feelings and sentiments are, for all they're worth. So, I'm pretty convinced that I know a lot considering I have only 41 years' worth of life experience( I can only remember 15 of them). And what I've realized most often is that.. people are fake. It's true!. More than seventy percent of the people I've met are faking something or the other about them. You could say I'm cynical. I'm pretty sure I am. Also, I mostly only meet people who are drama-obsessed who're still trying to figure out who they are - if they've even thought that far. But I can sniff out the fakes from the genuines from a mile away now, and I know what I'm talking about.I think I can say with some conviction - a lot of conviction, actually - that people who fake things about themselves and their personalities are by far the most insecure. I don't mean people who lie. If you've told people things about your ‘wealth' and ‘status' to impress them, you're outright lame, I mean people who pretend they're a lot more confident than they truly are, or a lot smarter, or a lot ‘cooler'?. You could say it's a normal part of growing up, but I would beg to differ. I guess those reasons prove how insecure these pretenders really are. And guess what? Faking isn't getting them anywhere! Now they have appearances to keep up, and lies to balance. In the meantime they're getting more and more confused about who they are and who they want to be. They say things and mean other things and take really really long to grow up and grow out of it, losing any ‘friends' they had in the process. Of course, they never made any real friends, being far too busy making sure they were ‘popular'. Because, of course, that's how popularity works, doesn't it? Which is why being yourself is such a good idea. No pressure to maintain a façade, no unnecessary pains to take such as watching what you say, eat, wear, do, nothing. People like you for you, and that's the biggest self esteem boost there is! You get to actually air your real opinions, and that's always fun. Relationships work out, because to be true to somebody else, you have to be true to yourself, and to trust somebody else, you have to trust yourself. There's nothing cool about being insecure. When you accept yourself, all is well!.***SIDE NOTE***- (Rob/Admin)- My bad on losing my temper a few days ago. It's all good bro!
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