Is it strage that I dislike things which continuously unsatisfied me, even if these things/ persons used to be my

favorite ones?And how to relieve the feeling of frustration on that persons? indifferent? The core of the

problem is a mutual misunderstanding, I guess ,but both of us don't want to discuss it.And ,actually I want

but he doesn't seem to want to talk to( heck he is my boss:finally I come to the point) .If you guys have some

things interesting coming up to share for me to solve this kind of dilema, please.

why is it so complicated?

Everyone loves at least a little bit of drama in their life...Best thing to do is to try and talk about it with him whenever he has some free time. Get your point out, but don't sound frustrated. Once he knows what you're thinking, you should be able to work together to get it sorted out.

is it a romantic thing or purely business??

- ask yourself firstly what is your problems exactly?

- ask yourself whether you are the one of those problems or you (partly) make those problems.

- what are things that you don't like about him or that are unsatisfied you?

- when you know the cause of problem... ask yourself how can you make it better... how much you can compromise without changing youself or hurt yourself

- just do it!

- and waiting for feedback

it sounds like 'theory' but it works! just adapt to your case ja

good luck & cheers

Life theories learnt from Cosmopolitan and Cleo.... brilliant stuff

It is all about business.why is it so complicated because it is political issue. My boss , he knows the problem

in the office and even talked to me before, but when time passed, he need to remain his position too by

not taking the problem seriously and let my survive by my own.

thanks guys

Political situations are very difficult to deal with at work. Often a boss hopes the situation will correct itself.

Many supervisors worry about getting involved because they may hurt their own reputation, if they take one persons side versus the other person.

Its hard to know what to do in a case like this. Just keep working hard and get the benefits that come from being a good worker. In our industry, you will be rewarded for good work.

try thinking more about it

see if he comes to u first

and if he does or you do

talk slow n think about what u wanna say

Kirk... you got my point and thank you for giving me the good solution

Oo.Cloud.oO....thanks for remind me to talk slowly,plus without aggresive voice, I hope