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University degree - bar girl behaviour


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I was in a relationship with xoxoxoxoxoxo, who I spent over a year with in Bangkok before she told me she had a scholarship to do her Phd. at Auckland University in NZ. I'd been thinking that long distance relationships are hard, avoiding establishing a relationship with anyone else. Communicating with her by email and telephone for over a year, in which she said she loved me and wanted to marry me when she returned to Thailand. I was doing what I could in my own bad financial situation to help her, with stories of scholarship money not arriving on time, needing money for hospital bills and so on. I was rather shocked not by the fact she finally, after over a year, added me as a friend on FB, only for me to find her listed as married to someone else. Even more shocked when I found out the scholarship and studying in NZ was all a lie. She never went to NZ, was never ill and needing money to pay doctors, had gotten married to an American and the whole time had continued to communicate with me, by telephone and email on an almost daily basis, telling me she loved me and we would get married when she returned to Thailand, to play on my genuine love for her to get me to send her money. Don't think for one minute that just because a girl has a university education she can't display qualities you might expect to find in a bar girl.
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I was in a relationship with xoxoxoxoxoxo, who I spent over a year with in Bangkok before she told me she had a scholarship to do her Phd. at Auckland University in NZ. I'd been thinking that long distance relationships are hard, avoiding establishing a relationship with anyone else. Communicating with her by email and telephone for over a year, in which she said she loved me and wanted to marry me when she returned to Thailand. I was doing what I could in my own bad financial situation to help her, with stories of scholarship money not arriving on time, needing money for hospital bills and so on. I was rather shocked not by the fact she finally, after over a year, added me as a friend on FB, only for me to find her listed as married to someone else. Even more shocked when I found out the scholarship and studying in NZ was all a lie. She never went to NZ, was never ill and needing money to pay doctors, had gotten married to an American and the whole time had continued to communicate with me, by telephone and email on an almost daily basis, telling me she loved me and we would get married when she returned to Thailand, to play on my genuine love for her to get me to send her money. Don't think for one minute that just because a girl has a university education she can't display qualities you might expect to find in a bar girl.
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John, your name shall be inscribed on the memorial to those who have fallen.

Really sorry to read about your experiences. No consolation that it is a well-trodden path; but don't lose hope; there are plenty of genuine people out there.

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With all the tons and tons of info and stories about all of this around and so readily available, I just cannot understand how normally intelligent guys continue to fall for this scam time and again.

Som nam nah.

Good luck with the next one.

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Sorry to hear..... Just wondering how she managed to speak to u on almost daily basis, while being married to someone else? O_O

Yet again... education normally makes bad ppl worse. They learn to think outside of the box and cheat in a more unexpected way!

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I think i know the girl your talking about........Is her name ***** or ********* or *** or it could be ******** wait no its *********** or is it that cow *****

Fu*k i give up i could be here all day!

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Being far away from a partner is not easy, you don't really know if he/she tells you the truth and/or if he/she is still a real deal. I'm in very similar situation with you, I just don't leave him for study but work. I told myself to prepare for whatever that gonna happen. I'm just a bit more lucky than you that it doesn't happen... yet.

Cheer up, mate. I might want your shoulder to cry on in the future so take care... lol...

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hope this experience helps u to find the right one...i know there are also a lot of good girls there! yes..love makes blind sometimes....r u sure that she had an university education??

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You're not the only one but that's hardly any consolation right now. She's not worthy of you so all I can suggest is that you put her behind you and find someone who will appreciate you in the way that she clearly didn't

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Lesson: While it sometimes makes sense to assist someone financially when you are with them, it seldom makes sense to help someone financially from a distance. When you are together, at least you have a chance of getting some benefits for your money.

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