How can I stop being such a retard? I always fell for a boy who is such a terribly absolutely a**hole. Either one of them is a drug addict, or is a cheater, or is a liar, or is violent and like abusing a girlfriend. One of my ex boyfriends is multiple complex.

Last night I watched the latest MV of Eminem's for the first time. I was like 'Woah! that was exactly like my last relationship!'

I love the way my ex f**ked my life up. I loved the way he lied after suffocating and smacking me and then trying to tell how much he cared. I loved the way he kissed me while I was crying a river. It heated up our activities in bed. Of course I was in pain, depressed and sad but for some reason I didn't want to let him go. Just loved the way it hurt.

I know even if I met a good one, I would not fall in love with him. Good men are... boring.

Good Grief Charlie Brown. Don't know where to start. Loved your unique choice of words "boyfriend is a multiple complex' sorry I added an a in there----if you love and hate him----then maybe you should examine what you really want in life and work towards something positive. Other than that I can just say "good luck".

Good men are boring? Hmmmmmmmmmm

Thats it, Im off to smack some ***** up!!!!

how to stop being a retard???? re-evaluate you need for excitement ---and what is boring

Look for what is interesting about bad guys...

Is it the tattoos? The violence? The danger? The excitement? Do you want to be a bad girl to match him?

Then it's quite possible to find a guy who is 'bad'... but can direct his 'badness' away from his girlfriend.

Look for martial artists - they are usually fit and a bit dangerous... but if they study properly, they have respect.

Also, look at the age of the guys you are dating... Some of the characteristics you wrote about are immature... Maybe you need to move up one age bracket?

so sorry to hear that ja, hope you learnt by that....... na

so u r a self confessed retard who is attracted to f**ked up junkies, who lie to u, cheat on u and beat u up !!

now do u ever stop and think that good guys who r not boring can recognise a psycho nut job from 100 yards away and stay well away !!! did u ever stop and think it might be U who is boring !!!

have a good day !!! :-)

You are not the only one out there. Often times...the women that choose abusive relationships lack a certain amount of self confidence. For whatever reason they often have many insecurities and an abusive partner will feed off of these insecurities. There is a lot of hurt and pain involved. These relationships hardly ever survive and most of the time end in disaster or very bad terms. If you keep looking in the same places your going to find the same thing. I agree with English Bob, there are good guys out there that could have a bad boy edge.

the best advice I can give is...... When you are ready..... Strive first to be completely happy with yourself, without anyone, do the things you love, and the right person will be come around when you least expect it.

Hope this helps

Have no idea.

you said you don't like a good guy as you think it's boring but when you were with bad one you were hurt.so you like it? it makes you happy?

ask yourself and find out what make you happy without being hurt and boring.

Drama free....

good men are boring? hmmm i fear with that comment that your circle of life involves you getting involved with dickheads. if that is how you wish to continue then so be it.

what a drama queen..!