Here comes part II..

He has been playing very loud music almost every evening for more than a week now. My husband and I were trying our best to stay calm as we know that he was trying to provoke us. Lucky for my husband as he again was on his business trip since 2 days ago. My husband didn't have to put up with this ****.

Yesterday’s evening his bass sound came through our living room and I thought something was wrong with my dishwasher. This evening again, he played very loud music. I reported him to the police.

And just about an hour ago, he came knocking at our front door. Shouting at me, he wanted to talk to my husband. I told him that my husband wasn’t home and don’t come knocking on my door again. He is not welcome to my property. If he did it again, I will call police. Then all hell brakes loose, he was swearing, pointing the finger at me. After that he walked across that broken fence like nothing happened. I was shocked then I called the police and then I called my husband.

When I got upset or panic attack, my language has gone terrible, I hardly get right words out (even if it’s in Thai). The policeman can’t really understand what I was trying to tell him. He told me to calm down. I did manage to report the issue to the police, but the police won’t do anything… so typical of them!!!!!

My husband was worried (as any good husband should be). He told me that he could get a security company send someone to come just to comfort me for DKK 6000/8 hours. Well, that was very nice offer, but for DKK6000, I think I can comfort myself.

The moral of this story : If your strange neighbour comes knock on your door, before you open the door don’t forget to bring a VDO camera with you, or even better bring a kitchen knife… and you can say to the police ..â€I was just chopping some onion when the doorbell rings!!!â€

To be continued.

bloody hell Nicky ... be careful .... that guy sounds like he is unstable and could turn nasty !!

Oh P'Nicky - That's so bad to have such a madman as your neighbour. Well I like your idea for using VDO Camera and a kitchen knife. Hmmm you can protect yourself without any weapons ^^ Enjoy watching and learning ka hehe.

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That's so scary na p'Nicky. My family had trouble with a neighbor when we live in Ratchada, he hit my grandfather, my grandfather was 70 years old and him was 40 something... after my grandfather die, when that guy got drunk, he came in front of our door and shout with rude words with a big sword. We always called the police to take him away. It always happened like this for years til he moved out.

After we moved to Bangbuathong, we have seen a neighbor got drunk and knock every doors to get attention included my house. The guy next door said... just you just give him a smile and don't say a word, cuz it will make things go ugly. It happen every Sunday night.

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@bCool & P'Nicky - It's a Thai proverb 'คับที่อยู่ได้คับใจอยู่ยาก ' (It is possible to live in a small residence if you're happy, but it is difficult to live in a big residence if you're unhappy).

This is terrible .P'Niky be careful he knew now your husband wasn't home,bring the camera to video him it's not worth i can guess like this behave first he will broke your camera and second he might hurt you or anything worse.I hope you can solve this problem soon.

how about CCTV lah kha?

The police woke me up this morning. He called and I told him that my husband will call him I have nothing more about the case to talk with the police (since they didn't do anything yesterday and leaved me with worry and panic, so I don't want to talk with them just yet). My husband contacted our lawyer and hopefully that can stop him from coming knocking our door.

I agree this is a very strange dude..be very careful..hey maybe you should take some slapping techniques from my journal post...LOL

but seriously keep an eye open for this character he doesn't sound normal..

how about CCTV lah kha?

CCTV is a good evidence

Try and record evidence with a video camera. Maybe from an upstairs window. That way, you will have ammunition for the lawyer.

Maybe he's mentally ill

never open ur door when u r alone. call the police first and let the phone on so they can listen to the conversation. Stay safe na ka!

P' Nicky .. You have to be very careful with this one specially when you are often alone in the house. I don't know if you have the same home security system as what we have here in the US that if someone break into the house it will automatically alert the security company and they will call you at that moment and if no one answer they will send over the police. Hopefully you will be able to sort this out without making the matter worse ... Crazy people do crazy things ..

Call the police, and ask them where you can buy pepper spray, being legal about having it, and if they have an officer that can teach you how to use it, because you are afraid for your safety because they can not do anything to help you protect yourself. Be very firm with them about your need for this weapon, and that an officer teach you how to use it.

It will allow you to get away from your neighbor if he tries to do anything to you personally. After you get it, anytime you see him, or he enters your property, you have it in your hand ready to use.

Your safety comes first, and pepper spray can give you the time you need to get away from him if he tries to hurt you, or approach you in any way.

remember a sawn off shotgun is legal in Denmark! Buy one! (and stay safe)

@ Posh : Yes, we do have the same home security system but the alarm will ring only when someone broke into the house. But that's good system and keep me calm at nights.

@koolbreez : Pepper spray is illegal in DK, but we can buy it in Germany and I might get one. (or maybe that sawn off shotgun)

This issue makes my husband and I restless. We had a good long talk via telephone today and we both didn't sleep much last night and I have had headache all day. Unhealthy situation.

Anyway, we can't go on living like this. As it is now 11.30 pm and he's still playing very loud music.

The other thing is I went to the local government office today and got a "intranet webkort" (a digital pic. showing our property line) and I will get "landinspektør" to come and check if our fence is really overlap his property but from the "intranet webkort" the fence wasn't overlap. The officer said, he CAN NOT just come and say that our fence is overlap his property, he needs to have prove for it.

The fence thing was just an excuse for him to come and knock our door. I can't find any reason beside of he is unstable and possibly need some professional help.

He is dangerous. Call the police, and find out what the noise ordinance is. There has to be laws about how loud noise can be, and how late loud music can be played.

Find out from your lawyer about a restraining order against him coming on your property. Also find out what is the legal way to shoot him. Ask your lawyer what does it take to justify you feeling in serious enough danger from him to justify you shooting him, and killing him.

Find out from the police what you can legally have to protect yourself, and what they will train you to use.

It is important that you have protection for yourself when your husband is out of town. That is a very dangerous individual, and you need immediate protection from him. Protection that will disable, or kill him if he tries to hurt you. Ask the police, and your lawyer what is legal for you to use, and be trained to use.

Do not underestimate how dangerous he really is. He is crazy (Bah). He could do anything. He has already shown he gets angry easily. What is next? You need lethal protection from him.

Yes, there was the law about how loud/late people can play music. I already reported that to the police. I even recorded the noise from his house last night.

There was no law in DK that allows the house owner to shoot intruders.