If there is something called stuffing a shoe in one's mouth, this will be it. Late last night, I FOUND the hairbrush between my mattress and bed frame. I only found it when my mattress happened to slip off my bed frame cos I was sitting carelessly on it and my specs fell in between the gap so that I happened to reach in and feel around.

So my friend IS a good Christian gal after all...

As for me, I really felt soooo bad that I immediately had to go to one of our housemate's room and had a 2hr therapeutic talk. I told the two guys who were with me at the airport that it was all a misunderstanding and everything. But now, a big problem stood. After the comments from Koolbreeze which I took as criticizing (ok, probably he/she did not mean it that way but I do felt that it was said all too harsh), I begin to feel more and more that maybe I am emotionally weak after all, that I am being used and manipulated by people so often. So, in trying to prove to myself and her that I was no nice and soft mashmallow and a pushover, I deleted her from my Facebook. LOL. the fault was all mine (e.g. I'm not trying to blame anyone) cos at that time I had really tot she took it cos I could not find it at all the past few days.

I will be PMing her to apologize but the thing is, deleting her off FBK is really going to make it harder.

Actually, I think lately, I have been obssessed with the thoughts that people close to me are letting me down. Firstly, in the other post about missing my family and friends, I had thought that my sis is holidaying elsewhere instead of visiting me (she actually went on a work trip), and now this. Sure, my and another housemate's things had indeed been stolen previously. People I had tried to be nice to had betrayed me and lied to me and all. And through it all, I had slowly learnt to not trust people as much as I wanted to. But I think somehow, this adaptive function is kicking in too extremely lately. Sad. Disappointed. In my reactions.

so apoligize as best you can; don't forget to forgive youself...

keep your head about people in both the positive and negitive...

life is learning ...this will get you closer to the person you want to be

u need a good spanking as punishment for ur sins !!! ;-)

so apoligize as best you can; don't forget to forgive youself...

keep your head about people in both the positive and negitive...

life is learning ...this will get you closer to the person you want to be

*Sighz*.... I just PM her my sincerest aoplogies and re-sent the FBK frd invi, now up to her to accept them *sobz* =(

But one good thing came out of it - my faith in humanity's honesty is restoted

u need a good spanking as punishment for ur sins !!! ;-)

Hahha I doubt any spanking can equal the bad feelings in my heart anymore!

Hahha I doubt any spanking can equal the bad feelings in my heart anymore!

well .... it's worth trying anyway !!! ;-)

It is going to have to be a really grovelling apology. I hope that she forgives you.

The main thing is, nobody was hurt. Thankfully, we can put this whole debacle behind us.

Life always testing us,You never know what's gonna happen next.Next time think clearly again and again and again ..before you blamed some one.Give her some time,It's not easy for her to forgive you now,I hope you learnt some think from this situation.

Well it's good you can accept your falut. Nobody is perfect ^^

all over a hairbrush hazel we have all made mistakes you just have to learn from them and move on!!!! chok dee !!!!

Hahha I doubt any spanking can equal the bad feelings in my heart anymore!

Yes, but it would make Ciaran feel better!

We all make silly mistakes and you have been mature enough to admit yours.

Yes' date=' but it would make Ciaran feel better!

We all make silly mistakes and you have been mature enough to admit yours.[/quote']

make no mistake hazel...Iain wishes to be next in line after Ciaren! ( you see how evil men

take advantage of damsels in distress!0

hope you hear from your roomate ( maybe call her and talk ! ??) ...you're donig good!

Anyone want to buy a hairbrush? :-)

only if it comes from the Body Shop

@Stramash and Danno: Haha you guys' joking really cheers me up from this gloom, thx.

@Danno: She doesn't have a mobile number. I guess I should give her more time to make a decision as to whether to keep in touch or not. *Sigh*

Anyhow, an interesting thing happened last night. I have been missing a small kitchen knife lately and thought it's gone for good. Then one of my housemates happened to meet up with an ex housemate who had recently moved out (we had the same kitchen knives), who then surprisingly passed the former my kitchen knife to return to me; probably had taken both his and mine by mistake when he moved out. And on the night before I discovered the hairbrush, when I was searching for the small knife, I dragged out a chest of drawers from their holders and found a brand new packet of Chinese spices which expired in 2009 (meaning the owner must have been missing it for the past few years, never to know what really happened to it). I wonder if the spices had once been a loss of friendship many years ago too?

@Funky House and Danno: Hey, my hairbrush is not up for sale!

I also heard from one of our housemates that our housing manager once had to be called in to settle a quarrel between btw gals who used to b friends cos one of them put a $5 note on the kitchen table (duno why) and ended up saying the other gal took it when it was gone. The latter fervently denied and they ended up quarrelling. But our housing manager felt that maybe it was not even done by the other gal; could be taken by another person etc.

FH and I are not going to buy your hairbrush!!! If we want your hairbrush (speaking for FH here, I hope)

we will simply take it!!! ( unless you send us copies of those "art pictures" you are having taken) otherwise -- its a spanking with the hairbrush mind you!

BTW --- those are my spices... been looking for them for three years now...

Missing hairbrushes, spices from 2009...I think its time you did a spring clean. LOL

You never know what you might find. Maybe even the missing $5. :-)

@Danno: What art pictures keke ?

@FH: Hahaha I guess people in the house only do the least cleaning they can get away with!

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