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Trusting is the strength, power and confidence. What if you are loosing trust all of sudden as if you wake up from a nightmare? And you keep asking yourself is it because you listen to your friends too much over their relationship in a verge of failure or just purely your instinct?. You keep asking yourself why, how and when the trust is lost? You certain that it used to be 100% but now is in reclined. You hear your friends betting over your relationship said that “I bet they will never make it†but you ignored and thought it was nonsense but now you are wondering.........(what is going on?)

You’ve been asked the same question again and again by your friends and family and now you just can’t find the right answer to the unanswered question that you also keep asking yourself. Are you lying to others or to yourself? What is behind agenda that you’ve never known? Are you too blind? You are always a simple and direct even you are an introvert person but you have a feeling that there is something. Being kept in the dark is driving you crazy.

When you asked your friend what she thinks of age gap the answer is “same ages is not good because it is too balance and he/she too comfort or relax. You suited to someone older and he is suited to someone younger 5- 10 years so that she can keep pushing him activated.â€

You are a grown up and you must not blame others if things doesn’t turn out your favour. You built it, you have it, and you lost it. It’s just circle of life. And you are thinking what else you’ve never learnt yet..... How to regain trusting back?

All of sudden the answer of unanswered question is pop up in your mind, it is “distanceâ€. You started think of your dreams in each night is you have a lover, which someone that you never know or probably never exist, but when you wake up you keep telling yourself it is just a dream.

In a moment of confusion you are trying to go back to when you were a teen to bring that moment back and alive you listen to music in your old day, it is beautiful, it just like yesterday and i want to keep listen all day long.....I don’t say that this moment is sweet, more like bittersweet!

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Trusting is the strength, power and confidence. What if you are loosing trust all of sudden as if you wake up from a nightmare? And you keep asking yourself is it because you listen to your friends too much over their relationship in a verge of failure or just purely your instinct?. You keep asking yourself why, how and when the trust is lost? You certain that it used to be 100% but now is in reclined. You hear your friends betting over your relationship said that “I bet they will never make it†but you ignored and thought it was nonsense but now you are wondering.........(what is going on?)

You’ve been asked the same question again and again by your friends and family and now you just can’t find the right answer to the unanswered question that you also keep asking yourself. Are you lying to others or to yourself? What is behind agenda that you’ve never known? Are you too blind? You are always a simple and direct even you are an introvert person but you have a feeling that there is something. Being kept in the dark is driving you crazy.

When you asked your friend what she thinks of age gap the answer is “same ages is not good because it is too balance and he/she too comfort or relax. You suited to someone older and he is suited to someone younger 5- 10 years so that she can keep pushing him activated.â€

You are a grown up and you must not blame others if things doesn’t turn out your favour. You built it, you have it, and you lost it. It’s just circle of life. And you are thinking what else you’ve never learnt yet..... How to regain trusting back?

All of sudden the answer of unanswered question is pop up in your mind, it is “distanceâ€. You started think of your dreams in each night is you have a lover, which someone that you never know or probably never exist, but when you wake up you keep telling yourself it is just a dream.

In a moment of confusion you are trying to go back to when you were a teen to bring that moment back and alive you listen to music in your old day, it is beautiful, it just like yesterday and i want to keep listen all day long.....I don’t say that this moment is sweet, more like bittersweet!

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It is a meaningful story. Trust is a strong vocabulary to me. In my case, I lost believe in the person when he or she will not be with you helping your sorting things out when the real serious problem arises even if he can. It is not anyone's fault. It only shows that he or she doesn't take me as serious as he or she claimed. However, losing believe in the person doesn't mean that I will forget the good memories we used to share . Time will help us learn any persons surrounding us better.

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It is a meaningful story. Trust is a strong vocabulary to me. In my case, I lost believe in the person when he or she will not be with you helping your sorting things out when the real serious problem arises even if he can. It is not anyone's fault. It only shows that he or she doesn't take me as serious as he or she claimed. However, losing believe in the person doesn't mean that I will forget the good memories we used to share . Time will help us learn any persons surrounding us better.

You said you lost believe in the person when he or she will not be with you helping your sorting things out when the real serious problem arises even if he can. What about if he there all the time to help you out in what ever and all of your heart always believe in him , believe in his love then one day he turn to you and said I stopped loving you I dont love you anymore. What you think about the situation like this?

Believe, Trust,Love enough?

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it's not so productive Soda.

But it's better to living with respect the truth and reality. There are some rules of living we can't just say no ,accepted it and out enjoy the rain. Swimming in sadness sea like it's a fabulously hot bathtub.

Relationships are like climbing the ladder....

sometimes you go up one step just to slide down two more, but eventually there will be a point when you reach the summit.

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@failer, as per your question, I don't want to imagine if that situation happens so I better not to think about it.

@Exploring but it just happened and I need some opinion if you can give me some:(

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none of us willing to accept the negative unknow answers while finding the resolution during the situation. You wish that your love is hearing your inner voice ...speak up and clear it out before your heart rotten in there. Things may turn out surprise and that's a reward of patientness OR it's many not turn out your way but at least you know the new path is arise and you need to be ready for it.

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