Hello there!

I am glad I have my readers, and thank you all for any comments and compliments. I will try developing my journal. But this is all just my thoughts toward things. So it might be not 100% correct! Hahaha!

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Expectation..

When it comes to "relationship" we all have this thing I call "expectation" no matter males or females. In fact I can't say much in males term because obviously I am just a girl with very few experiences in term of LOVE. I love, loved and loving...every times I begin a relationship with someone, as a girl, I always EXPECT for something.

Will he gives me a rose? Where will he kiss me in the first time? Will we get on well? Will we have a good time together?

Darling, there are a lot of questions comes to my mind at the same time. And guess what, I never had real fun while am dating. It is just because I am busy with all these expectation things. And that doesn't help me to go through relationship AT ALL.

So girls, stop expecting! Wear an explorer mask and move forward. Good time is waiting! Just don't expect too much until you can't have fun with your life. Because the time we spent expecting good thing, that is what we waste really. Just chin up!

and explore the world, just let's see what will happen.

Because even it gonna fail, but at least you started the first step! Yay! Do the first move and let's go through the adventure!

Have a good day,

Suri!

But what about 'expecting the unexpected'?

The biggest problem seems to be from people who get their expectations from television and the movies.

Love is like the lottery, if you dont play, you cant win.

If expectations is about sharing minimum of life philosophy, kindness, ability to return tenderness or "the magic touch" (cfr the Platters song), easy dialog use in case of problems, stable character, and so on, in one word about the "tools" necessary to get "stable" couple happyness, it is OK. If the are about materials (such as flowers...), pls accept that your expected symbols can be different, and take the time to build a common culture and history. mmmh: not easy to balance the words to share deep feelings...

http://youtu.be/9fsF56HvAsc

this song is old but the words are so true... Let's share it !

The point always is what you want. If you are going to have a relationship with full commitment, you will not think about the issues you posted here. If you are looking for a more casual "relationship", you would. Commitment always includes accepting faults, being patient and adapt expectations to the reality. Believe me, it was like this for me - and I still (and always will) love my wife mak mak and she also loves me (probably she also had to go through the same things concerning me like I did with her)!

Thanks for every comments naka it's great to share ideas and see others' perspective

Agreed...when people start expecting things, they either end up unhappy that they never got it, or they don't appreciate it when they do get it.

Cool journal so far...I'll subscribe!

Thank you Japamerican