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How an EX can ruin the life ..


surismiley

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I dumped my ex-boyfriend

Actually it is not because I dumped him though. The relationship ended in very

Weird Way!!!

After dated this English professor for 6 months...I found out that he was not single

Yes...he was married for another woman for 7 years!! I never know that.

I walked away from that relationship, it never crossed my mind to ****** anybody's husband. I consider myself as a valuable person and I don't think I deserve the position of being .."Second best thing"..

The point is...he keeps calling/texting/mailing and everything possible to be involved to my life while I really want to move on. And it is not gonna be easy if he still being around and saying "you are the cutest/lovliest/most generous ..."and any rubbish that try to convince me to go back to him.

All I am curious is that...why he still want to talk if everything ended because of his fault?? As a 22 years old girl who had been in very few relationships, I can't understand this!!

My days was going round and round without him, life is kinda better. But at the end of the day he always call and just try to convince me to go back...be the second best! So one day I said, "you know what, I start dating other guy, hotter and smarter than you". Evil, I know, actually am not dating anyone yet and it was a big lie! But again he didn't stop distracting!

So someone tell me that...I gotta use stronger word so today when he called and try to make drama, i said, "you know what, a guy am dating now is a lot bigger than you!" hahahahahahaha that was totally mean but it worked! Hopefully he is not calling tomorrow!

Suri :)

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I dumped my ex-boyfriend

Actually it is not because I dumped him though. The relationship ended in very

Weird Way!!!

After dated this English professor for 6 months...I found out that he was not single

Yes...he was married for another woman for 7 years!! I never know that.

I walked away from that relationship, it never crossed my mind to ****** anybody's husband. I consider myself as a valuable person and I don't think I deserve the position of being .."Second best thing"..

The point is...he keeps calling/texting/mailing and everything possible to be involved to my life while I really want to move on. And it is not gonna be easy if he still being around and saying "you are the cutest/lovliest/most generous ..."and any rubbish that try to convince me to go back to him.

All I am curious is that...why he still want to talk if everything ended because of his fault?? As a 22 years old girl who had been in very few relationships, I can't understand this!!

My days was going round and round without him, life is kinda better. But at the end of the day he always call and just try to convince me to go back...be the second best! So one day I said, "you know what, I start dating other guy, hotter and smarter than you". Evil, I know, actually am not dating anyone yet and it was a big lie! But again he didn't stop distracting!

So someone tell me that...I gotta use stronger word so today when he called and try to make drama, i said, "you know what, a guy am dating now is a lot bigger than you!" hahahahahahaha that was totally mean but it worked! Hopefully he is not calling tomorrow!

Suri :)

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Maybe change your number? I know it's a pain in the ass but you have to take steps to get rid of jackasses in life. Some people just don't get when the other has had enough.

Block him from your e-mail, it's easy enough.

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I support Moo Noy's comment ... tell him to stop annoying you...otherwise he will get in trouble .. (tell him this is a first warning but no more second warning) or just ignore his call... or change your number for a few weeks ... I think he will get tried and stop soon..

I like Nalee's comment ^^

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Call his wife, and tell her to leave him because you want him all for yourself. Then tell him the same thing, but make sure you do call his wife first.

That should stop him from calling you, and stop him from going after some other girl while he is married.

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^____^

thanks for every comments and suggestions naka :)

Surely it is a painful situation, am not pretending to be strong at all.

All I trying now is not to leave with mean and evil image. But try my best

to explain my decision. But probably if he still being stupid like this.

I might follow the advice to change my number! Even it is going to effect my job.

(which i have to make and receive almost 100 calls everyday!)

Call his wife ... scary >___< she's not Thai but Korean!! and barely understand English

PLUS! she is SCARY! I means once she sent an email to me to

"get the f_ck out of her husband" ... and many other strong words which is far too rude for me.

and I really don't want to talk with her ... plus even I am angry and sad ... but I just can't

be that mad or evil to any person!! hahahaha

Anyway thanks for all comments again naka :) I am really glad that I joined this website.

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well ... i guess most wives r gonna be angry/pissed/mad if they find out someone has been messing about with their husband !!

time to put the past behind U and get on with the present and the future !!

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He is a married man and i wouldn't consider myself dating someone who's in such obligation! :D

I didn't know that before though...just know the truth LATER after we dated for months :)

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I used to call my thai wife of ex boyfriend before...sure,she called me back 22 times and more...

we talk about him more 1 hour and a result than we found our guy he lied, she asked me for divorced she give me to marriy him but i dont want to broked other family, family is a beutiful life of mine and other too! sure ... i dont want to live with lied guy:(

I cheer her to live with him ...she promised she will ....if she not find him had other gf again

so ...why he love me, call me gf if he have real wife and through married with him already!

i can't believed that story about me last year...too bored!!!!

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dear Khanomkrok :)

Life sometimes is not easy and I think I understand your situation pretty much. There are many reasons why one person cheated on their partner ... boredom, attitudes, miscommunication or even sexual problem ... we can't find it out really, just mixing of many stuff. Good thing is that we still stick on MORALLITY and move on with pride and dignity. Of course it hurt, it hurt like hell. But life is life, and just comes to us with new surprise everyday.

:)

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