I write this journal with my bitchy mood, seriously. While I've got some messages said, "I would like to know you" While I put my pictures on my profile in public and there were nothing in the guys who said they wanted to know me.

Not only on this website, there are some on FB. They have nothing in their profile and sent me a friend request. I think only psycho like to do this.

The end.

fair --- yes (no contract in place)

satisfying --- no (why would it be)

psycho--- maybe (oh-oh!)

I actually had some TF member send me a very angry PM awhile back because he was mad that he received a message saying that he could no longer send PM's until he uploaded a picture. The guy was out of his head crazy telling me that he didn't appreciate the tone of the message and that it was rude and insulting.

Of course, he had been a member for over four years. Never posted a blog, never commented on a blog, never posted in the forums, never uploaded a photo, etc.

I'm considering whether or not to just build that into the software. It would help cut down on spam bots that hit the blogs too. Requiring everyone who wants to post anything or send a PM to have uploaded a photo or filled out a minimal amount of information in their profiles. Obviously, it's going to make some people angry but I think, as DANNO would say, it would make for a more satisfying experience. :-)

True true...but what about those poor souls who write a blog asking how to upload a pic?! eh? eh?!!

True true...but what about those poor souls who write a blog asking how to upload a pic?! eh? eh?!!

I'm going into another round of updates for TF. Nothing I think to be too radical but many things to address issues like you're talking about. Making things easier to find, easier to use. In some cases hiding options from people since they aren't frequently used. Hopefully, it'll make everything smoother :-)