Sometimes hate the messenger. It is a good tools. Talk with the friends and you talk with the person that you love if she is far... .But also makes you remember bad moments. Yesterday, after 3 years, It appears in my messenger a friend that I don't want to see again. Intelligent girl, gf a ex-friend. After sharing good years, happiness and sadness, without word, her and her former ex-bf disappear of my life. As if in your life they had not existed 3 years. The last years I have been in the hell, I have looked to see if somebody helped me and I have been alone. Now She returns. How are you? What is of your life? ...Sincerily her presence inconveniences me. Friendship doesn?t exist and I cannot make another thing that to feel distrust. Of the group of friends ...now doesn?t exist contact... . friends called me asking if I said this or that. A very delicate situation... What does it look for now?...

I don't know why love hurts so bad for someone. My ex had a change of heart and dated another girl. I was hurt. But why should we forget the precious moment that we have shared together only becoz we are no longer in relationship? A change of heart is something that u can't predict nor control. I believe it's always better to keep the good things and leave the bad out.

I hope you find a way to feel more comfortable about ur situation. Best of luck!