What kind of a Thai lady is she?
I recently was told a rather sad story about a farang who went to Thailand and while it seemed to have all the usual well worn tell tale signs of the typical negative Thai lady with Farang sort of stuff.
The main differnce about this whole thing that struck me was that it seemd to have a qualitive difference.
Basically this Farang guy meets Thai woman in BKK at some nightclub/hotel and becomes very interested and friendly with this woman, but he cant decide what sort of a girl she is?
He ends up sleeping with this girl and they hang out together all the time. It all has the familar pattern of a rich farang with a girl who is with him for money? So in the eyes of many reading this she is like a "bar girl" or "freeelancer" But here is the thing, and Id love to see what Thai women and farangs think about this [it has got to be very unusual}
THEY NEVER HAVE HAD SEX [EVER!] - NEVER KISS ON THE LIPS- NO SEXUAL ACTIVITY BETWEEN THEM.
So while they sleep, eat, drink, wine, dine, together and have lots of affection for each other in all sorts of ways [they embrace and cuddle in bed] they seem like a couple in every respect except maybe just the sex thing?
Do people think this girl is like some sort of prostitute? [she receives money and presents as gifts regularly] if so why? and what about the farang? Is he a sex tourist? Like it seems he is just lonely and like the company of a nice woman [who doesnt?] So what is wrong with this situation.
Key point im told is that the guy is very sensitive to the experience in Thailand that many Farang guy have when they feel that just being with a Thai lady makes her somehow suspect?
He is in his early 30s she late 20s he is not ugly or some big ogre either, she is quite beautiful.
I never heard that kind of a story before but it mad eme wonder about all our attitudes and prejudices?
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