:-)  when two different people are in loved, Love is not mere giving and taking. Just mutual trusting, understanding and supporting each other.. In a relationship ,No one own  anyone's life  cos u own urself, i own myself.. just 2 people share  and exchange their time, knowledge , passion to each other and more importantly, sex.. ..in a relationship. no one owes anyone, in a relationship , and both parties just agree to grant good time together as it is taken for granted...    

No more jiggy jiggy

I agree with you to an extent. In the initial phase of a r/ship no one owes anyone anything. But what happens when that relationship progresses into more, e.g marriage. Does that change the POV? What happens when there are children?

agreed and more and more....factors....and more....

Into deeper relationship, it becomes commitment to the family you love, you owe to your commitment, dedication , responsibilities and passion that you have to your family.. ..We are born to be taking care ourself,, owing ourself .. and contributing effort and drives to parent's duty when you have kids..

Well said Nola

I think for successful relationships which lead to marriage need many more things than sharing feelings. For example, basically you two should have something in common for what to talk to and discuss about ,and more importantly when it comes to future time you have familiar idea about finance thing,same dream direction perhapes.For myself ,yet, ideally , if I have the feeling towards one person ,besides romantic feeling of course,like when I feel towards my family and towards myself, then I will know for sure that he will be the one for me

good but it doesnt work well with a jealous type lol

Good relationship...many try to explain, but - when u saw perfect couple, u simply know - that is IT...and dont need to xplain...I know, I had a perfect...IT )