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CuTieGirL

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  • Birthday 10/12/1978
  1. I'm totally support revenge. But for the good cause. Revenge for me is to live well and happy. Become better than ever. Strive for a change and you can only gain by changing yourself. Let those who be mean to you see what you've become. At the end, it's you who will have the last laugh.
  2. Oh dear, I'm Thai. and I'm quite certain I've done everything you mention above and every other possibilities of things I can to make things better for my country. Truth is, it would need hundreds, thousands and millions of me to make a difference. And I'm sure a lot of generations before me also want to see corruption die off from Thailand. But the problem rooted in deep enough that it will take a lifetime or two to change it. It's not just one single problem to solve everything. There are far more problems than you think and they are all related. While I'm not planning be a politician or a troop leader against the unfair justice, this Zantika incident truly shakes everyone of us to think and see how injustice our country is. Honestly, without self-experience, many Thai would never understand how injustice effect their lives. They would learn the hard way to see how one can be effected by corrupted people. I hope others would care enough and take this incident to considerations when they find some ways to change the system, wisely choose who they vote for and always feel strongly about what's right and wrong thing to do.
  3. Sad but true. There might never be fair and pure justice in Thailand when the country is full of corruptions. I wish things will be different, but it doesn't seem to happen that soon.
  4. Once while on a date, the guy told me he once drown his friend's girlfriend just to teach her a lesson or two. That is a big warning sign for me. Lately, someone told me, " you are my retirement plan. " Should I be alarm on this one too?
  5. What if this person who hates you turn to be everything you are looking for in years? Your dream girl in real life or your dream guy? The only problem is - he/ she hates your guts even before you get your chance to talk or meet? You really just gonna walk away without trying?
  6. You can have a wrong perception of someone when you don't know anything about that person at all. Even though that person never talk to you or doing anything bad to you. Imagine if there's an accident and this person injured one of your family member, you already hate whoever that is, isn't it? This post sprung from the talk show I watched this morning. The guy in the talk show was in a fight with another guy who happen to be this girl's BF at that time. Years later, he meet this girl again and fell in love with her who hates him even though she broke up with her ex BF already. I just try to imagine if I was in his shoe and try to gain love from someone who hates me, what would I do? How can you overcome all the negative attitudes someone casted upon you even though that's not you at all?
  7. That seems like a good way of reducing stress. But I rather do kickboxing or punching....Something that really drain out the energy to relief stress.
  8. I have someone who hates me even before they know me. They have very bad image of me which I don't even know how they got that impression when it's not even what I am. It's getting close to Valentine's day and aren't we all TFers believe in "Make love not War"? So spill me some ideas please...so we can have more peace in this world.
  9. Thanks for all of your comments and input. It really helps me see things in the wider views. travelraven : I'm not jealous at all. I'm pretty confident about myself and I know it'll be hard for him to find some other woman who could get along with him and understand him. I just feel hurt that his mother treat me this way and insensitive to my feelings whereas she always been nice to me as much as I've been nice to her. So, I'm a little dazed and shock why this happen. My BF stands up for me against his mother. He told her that he doesn't feel right meeting new single ladies when he's still in a relationship with me. I'm glad he did that after I told him how I feel about this. I've been told by my best friend that men aren't mind readers. They can't foresee what's coming and don't know what women wants. So I have to push the button if I want things done. I guess that's right, guys? BreakofDawning, King Ling : I got to admit that I also think the way you both do - that's sending her any message might be stupid idea. That's why I re-read it many times and make sure every single words reflect what I am. I'm pretty sure that email will make her see me as a so much different girl than many out there. That's why I sent it out. It also doesn't show anything negatives or rude. It's a plain simple saying that "I understand there might be a lot of other women in this world. And my time is more valuable to wait around till he could seek out every corners and see if I'm better than everyone else." I never say who's right or who's wrong. And I also understand every mother wants the best for their child. I just hope she comes to senses whether what she does is the right thing or not. And I've remain calm through all these things that happen. I only share this to a few close ones and here in TF. I found comments here direct and honest. And it helps me think of the things I couldn't thought of by myself. Thanks you guys.
  10. I never believe in any craps they say about Mother in law can be your worst enemy. I'm still single, not married, but in a committed relationship for 2 years now. I first met my future mother in law one year ago. We took a few trips together along with my BF. She treats me nice. And I've always been treating her like she's a part of my own family. Sometime my bf even mention that his mom probably likes me a lot that's why she treats me that way. And I'm on my best behavior with her, always treat her with respects. We talk about things we like. Looks like 2 women who get along well with each other.Then a few months ago, I was shock to find out that she'll be coming to visit with her friend and a pretty single daughter. They all will be staying at my BF's place. There's a few hints here and there that his mom and her friend might try to match both of them together. I was not allowed to come by while they were there. The only time I get to meet the whole group is for a dinner for an hour on the last day before they left. I try to be rational about this. But I can't. So I shared this with my mom (who is roughly the same age as my FMIL), so I could understand what she's thinking. My mother doesn't give me much solution other than ask me to be calm. Time pass by and I just try to think there's nothing there. Her friend and the daughter just want a free stay in BKK. Funny that I become a good friend with the daughter after the 2 hours dinner we had, she even gave me her contact numbers and ask me to call her if I ever come by.Yesterday, my FMIL creates another episode. This time, I can't just act like there's probably nothing anymore when things are so clear. She has another friend whose daughter is single and doesn't seem to settle down. So she asked if my BF could meet up with this girl while she's in town for the weekend. She sent the girl's photograph along with the brief description and background. I found this disgusting, truly. And I won't tolerate this disrespect behavior. I also disbelief that she will be doing this to me after I've been more than nice to her. I don't deserve this. And I'm not such a bad person myself. I'm sure I'm a lot better than those girls she try to set up her son with. My bf is naive enough to think the girl is helpless in the city. (She travels in group...how can she be helpless??) So he thinks she need a guide to show things around. I stop him right there and tell him he can go and nurture the girl all that he wants. I just won't be around when he comes back. I also wrote a long 866 words email to his mom. Basically, I ask her honest opinion if she thinks I'm not a good enough woman for her son. I also stated how I feel proud of myself and the things I am. So I won't stand behind being a spare part while she's out shopping for (possibly) a better woman. I told her, I would step out, and she can put her son back in the market again and see if he can be any happier than when he was with me. But I won't bear this disrespect thing I don't deserve. And I wonder what takes her so long to reply me back.
  11. I never believe in any craps they say about Mother in law can be your worst enemy. I'm still single, not married, but in a committed relationship for 2 years now. I first met my future mother in law one year ago. We took a few trips together along with my BF. She treats me nice. And I've always been treating her like she's a part of my own family. Sometime my bf even mention that his mom probably likes me a lot that's why she treats me that way. And I'm on my best behavior with her, always treat her with respects. We talk about things we like. Looks like 2 women who get along well with each other.Then a few months ago, I was shock to find out that she'll be coming to visit with her friend and a pretty single daughter. They all will be staying at my BF's place. There's a few hints here and there that his mom and her friend might try to match both of them together. I was not allowed to come by while they were there. The only time I get to meet the whole group is for a dinner for an hour on the last day before they left. I try to be rational about this. But I can't. So I shared this with my mom (who is roughly the same age as my FMIL), so I could understand what she's thinking. My mother doesn't give me much solution other than ask me to be calm. Time pass by and I just try to think there's nothing there. Her friend and the daughter just want a free stay in BKK. Funny that I become a good friend with the daughter after the 2 hours dinner we had, she even gave me her contact numbers and ask me to call her if I ever come by.Yesterday, my FMIL creates another episode. This time, I can't just act like there's probably nothing anymore when things are so clear. She has another friend whose daughter is single and doesn't seem to settle down. So she asked if my BF could meet up with this girl while she's in town for the weekend. She sent the girl's photograph along with the brief description and background. I found this disgusting, truly. And I won't tolerate this disrespect behavior. I also disbelief that she will be doing this to me after I've been more than nice to her. I don't deserve this. And I'm not such a bad person myself. I'm sure I'm a lot better than those girls she try to set up her son with. My bf is naive enough to think the girl is helpless in the city. (She travels in group...how can she be helpless??) So he thinks she need a guide to show things around. I stop him right there and tell him he can go and nurture the girl all that he wants. I just won't be around when he comes back. I also wrote a long 866 words email to his mom. Basically, I ask her honest opinion if she thinks I'm not a good enough woman for her son. I also stated how I feel proud of myself and the things I am. So I won't stand behind being a spare part while she's out shopping for (possibly) a better woman. I told her, I would step out, and she can put her son back in the market again and see if he can be any happier than when he was with me. But I won't bear this disrespect thing I don't deserve. And I wonder what takes her so long to reply me back.
  12. Thanks...this might be the best advice I ever get. Most of my best friends think that I should just leave him. I still haven't make that decision yet.
  13. It has been a while since my last time in TF. I'm trying to be a mature woman who handle things in my own way. But the relationship I'm having is driving me insane. And I feel that I have no other way to express my feelings without TF. Sometime I just want to open the window and scream out on the top of my lung. The worst is I start doubting myself if it's me who is the crazy one? Is it right to feel the way I feel? Will normal people feel the same way I do if they were in my shoes? Is the real problem is just simply "Me"??It was my Birthday yesterday and I ended up fighting with my BF whom I've been dating for over a year. He said I'm not appreciate enough of his effort. He came up with the idea that we should invite my parents over to his place for a cake cutting on Sunday. Of which he claimed he is kind enough to asked me to organized, planned, invited and even paid for it. On top of food and drink at the restaurant, I even go and bought the cake myself. When the time comes, my mom asks me what exactly he did other than just 'provide the place for the event'. I gone blank not knowing what to say. The fact strikes me that I ended up being the one doing everything on my own Bday. I mentioned this to him that I was a little disturb by this and he told me that he would pick me up on Monday and we would go to some place nice for my birthday just me and him. On Monday, once I got in the car, I found out nothing has planned. No restaurant has been reserved or anything. We would 'just drive around Thonglor and stop by some place we feel like eating'. Again, I'm wordless and managed to surf online and find some place casual in Thonglor. He saw me a little upset when we got home and ask why. I told him I just feel a little upset. He turned mad and start saying I'm taking him for granted. He supposed to go out with his colleages for dinner but he opt out to go with me. And I should be appreaciated for his effort. Am I really the demanding *****? I was doing everything for him on his birthday. Was it too much to ask him to just treat me the same way I treat him? For the comments :Yes....I guess so. Now I know I was just being a real *****. I should just happy for anything he has done for me. Even though it's just a gesture. I start being sorry for him to have to stick with me. Actually, I've done many things for him. I helped him decorate his place, even paid for a few pieces of the furnitures (which he said I can have it after apartment contract expires in 2 years.) I clean all the dirty dishes for him when I saw they were left in the sink. I pay for half of his internet when I only be there on some weekends. I do laundry for him. Clean the house. And all these even when I don't feel like doing. Because when I stop, he starts to say I'm not being considerate and caring enough.
  14. It has been a while since my last time in TF. I'm trying to be a mature woman who handle things in my own way. But the relationship I'm having is driving me insane. And I feel that I have no other way to express my feelings without TF. Sometime I just want to open the window and scream out on the top of my lung. The worst is I start doubting myself if it's me who is the crazy one? Is it right to feel the way I feel? Will normal people feel the same way I do if they were in my shoes? Is the real problem is just simply "Me"??It was my Birthday yesterday and I ended up fighting with my BF whom I've been dating for over a year. He said I'm not appreciate enough of his effort. He came up with the idea that we should invite my parents over to his place for a cake cutting on Sunday. Of which he claimed he is kind enough to asked me to organized, planned, invited and even paid for it. On top of food and drink at the restaurant, I even go and bought the cake myself. When the time comes, my mom asks me what exactly he did other than just 'provide the place for the event'. I gone blank not knowing what to say. The fact strikes me that I ended up being the one doing everything on my own Bday. I mentioned this to him that I was a little disturb by this and he told me that he would pick me up on Monday and we would go to some place nice for my birthday just me and him. On Monday, once I got in the car, I found out nothing has planned. No restaurant has been reserved or anything. We would 'just drive around Thonglor and stop by some place we feel like eating'. Again, I'm wordless and managed to surf online and find some place casual in Thonglor. He saw me a little upset when we got home and ask why. I told him I just feel a little upset. He turned mad and start saying I'm taking him for granted. He supposed to go out with his colleages for dinner but he opt out to go with me. And I should be appreaciated for his effort. Am I really the demanding *****? I was doing everything for him on his birthday. Was it too much to ask him to just treat me the same way I treat him? For the comments :Yes....I guess so. Now I know I was just being a real *****. I should just happy for anything he has done for me. Even though it's just a gesture. I start being sorry for him to have to stick with me. Actually, I've done many things for him. I helped him decorate his place, even paid for a few pieces of the furnitures (which he said I can have it after apartment contract expires in 2 years.) I clean all the dirty dishes for him when I saw they were left in the sink. I pay for half of his internet when I only be there on some weekends. I do laundry for him. Clean the house. And all these even when I don't feel like doing. Because when I stop, he starts to say I'm not being considerate and caring enough.
  15. When the wound is infected, the doctor will use knife and scissor to cut infections and remove dead tissues around it. The process can be gruesome and painful. Worst of all, it can be repeated as many times as it takes until the infection is completely gone. And that's what I learnt first hand after my leg operation.These last 2 days has been the most painful days. In comparison, wound infection is even more painful than the operation itself. Every time it happens, it felt like the doctor is cutting out a part of my soul. It hurts like hell... I tried so hard not to moan and hardly make any sounds but the tears kept falling down. The only thing that get me through it is to imagining myself to be that heroine girl in TV who got shot by a villian and need to take out the bullet. It probably felt the same for what I've gone through. What happen next is that I come back home and start living in the germs-free environment. My room smells like a hospital ward. Everything has been wipe clean with disinfection agents. Even this laptop keyboard. The dirtiest thing in my room is probably be me. Since I'm not allow to shower until further notice. So I've been dry-cleaning myself and half shower myself. (Thanks for my prior experience that puts me in to long flights that taught me how to get clean up without a shower. Things does happen for a reason - it prepares you for what to come.) And i probably never survive this without barbershop. Best thing about staying at home is the food. Hospital food is so bland. I can't wait to get back to myself again.
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