Why does not your friend help her boyfriend rather then criticise him. Does it not make sense for her to guide him to the point where it feels good. Anyway clitoral stimulation needs to be activated first, then the G spot will engorge so they can find it together.This does not mean she will feel good about G Spot stimulation, as it can cause uncomfortable feelings for some women. The responsibility does not solely relay on the man, especially if you are going for G Spot stimulation, as Xao states she definitely needs to be relaxed and aroused enough before even considering going for G spot action, that does not sound the case here. Maybe some of you ladies can put some imput into this journal, rather then leaving it up to us men to sort it out all the time.