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fact or fiction: all other things being equal, a man will always choose the girl that he thinks is more physically attractive? truth or lie?

Hi there ! I would like to meet thai girlfriend in Paris where I am living. I used to go often to Thailand but I miss that now so much now ! So wish to find a little part of Thailand in Paris. Hope to read from you soon. xx

Baht reaches 16-year high By 0 Coconuts : Bangkok : Howard Wang freaks his girlfriend out with bloody ‘I Love You’ message

So, during his recent visit how many girls did Jimba bone? Have you personally been a "victim" of Jimbas "pork-sword".... There has been speculation, however I am interested in learning the opinions of TF Female Members.

Do you have this problem, always falling for guys/girls who have similar looks / personalities with the ex bf/gf??

Apparently, women are attracted to men who smell sort of (but not too much) like their fathers! http://www.ananova.com/news/story/sm_499700.html I'll have to ask S.'s dad what cologne he uses --Ling

There are two type/brand condoms that I have chosen. The first is Crown, which has claimed to be the best (thinnest), but there is also another brand with claims the same thing and is twice as much, Kimono. I know the easiest and more enjoyable way to find out which one is better is just to go and try them. I will eventually, but before I do I wanna know if anyone has used these before and which one do they prefer.

Wondering about something. I just had my first weekend in BKK, and that was in the Nana area, so i know it cannot be compared with most of you guys here (thai & farangs). But the deal there is that its pretty easy to find a girl that instantly loves you - alot. I met a very very nice girl, probably the most beautiful girl ive seen with the biggest smile and the greatest personality, and i came around that bar everyday and we had great fun together with her and her friends. Actually her personality was more attractive than her body in that sense. You probably dont believe me but i didnt take her home, we partied together until she finished work and then we split, ofcourse we bought the drinks and thats alright. In hinsight i probably didnt do her a favour by doing this as she could have earned money on somebody else as thats what they do. But it has made me wonder - how am i looked at as a farang by a thai girl if i met her on the street ? not a bargirl but a normal girl ? Dont thaigirls in general have a bad impression about farangs ? that if we show interest that they think that we think they are like bargirls and distance themselves from us ? you understand what i mean ? dont farangs have a bad reputation ?

I thought that I finally started to figure out this conundrum but once again I am completely wrong. When I first got to Thailand I thought that the only women that approached single men at a bar were girls looking for a client. I am not interested in sex tourism, so I generally politely excused myself. After a while I realized that there are girls that are genuinely interested in talking to me and tried to make some friends. Perhaps my biggest mistake is that I meet girls at a bar... Well, I really can't say I meet them: I dance, they come up to me and start a conversation. Otherwise I continue dancing and when the music stops I go home. I've met a few female friends that way, and as friends they are awesome. The second that relationship crosses the line into the sexual territory that is when the troubles begin. Dealing with mainly American Girls I find that most of them appreciate honesty and guys that are very straight forward. So generally, I'm very open on my views on sex. I don't push the subject because that is not my main objective here, but if the conversation comes up, I like to be clear so that there is no misconception. What I tell a girl that is trying to go in that direction is: "I just got out of a 6 years relationship that went really bad toward the end. I don't feel emotionally capable of engaging in another one. If you want to have sex, it's for fun. If you can't deal with that I much rather be your friend." In other words I tend to ruin a potentially romantic moment in order to safeguard my sanity. For me, drama and confusing sexual situations are worse than not getting laid. In any case... I can't seem to avoid it anyway. I met several crazy girls. I don't know if I should go into the details of each encounter... that's up to you my reader... but each one left me more and more confused. How do I keep making this so complicated? Or maybe Thai girls are really crazy!!! I don't know, you tell me. Your soon to be monk friend. V

and.... Whats the best way to make up to your partner or someone you really care about when you have upset them, after an argument or pissed them off?

There always seems to be a hard luck story or a broken heart just around the corner.... Is it because people are looking for love in all the wrong places? Or just because people are looking for love and picking the wrong faces? Is it where you met the person that defines where the relationship will go or end..... or is it because sometimes we judge the book by its cover and later discover the inside aint as sweet as the dish served on the plate? Im no expert, if i was my profile wouldnt say single.! Im not particularly looking for tips for me personally either..! So no pot shots GENTS.! Would just like to openly discuss some of the issues in one place that we all talk round and round about in other forums or journals.... Where is the best place to meet a suitable partner, at work? Through friends? In a bar or night club? or on the internet? pro's and con's in all i would imagine.... any experts want to take a shot at giving some advice........?

mine are 1. treat others as you expect to be treated (though they don't ever seem to reciprocate in kind) 2. Forget it.... :roll:

what kind of Reasons Guys Prefer to Be Single??? - Should I ransom my freedom? Should I embark on the great search for my soul mate and willingly kiss my single days good forever? hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh find, feel, ****, forget the reason from my best friend Condotown hehehe cheeeeeeeeeer him

There are two types of people in this world, those who believe in soulmates and those who do not. The soulmate believers believe in soulmate theory while people from the other group believe in work-it-out theory. The table below illustrates the difference in beliefs. Soulmate Theory - There is one (or very few) right person(s) for me. - Love is discovered. - The right person is ideal or close to perfect for me. - Finding the right person is the most important factor in a successful relationship. - Passion is of great importance. - People are hard to change. Work-It-Out Theory - There are many people with whom I can be happy with. - Love is built over time. - Person is not expected to be a perfect fit. - Effort is the most important factor. - Passion is relatively unimportant. - People can change. If a soulmate believer believes he/she is with the right person, he/she is more satisfied with the relationship than a work-it-out believer. Soulmate believers who do not think they are with the right one are less satisfied than work-it-out believers. Insights and Predictions - Perfectionists, overachievers, idealists, dreamers will more likely be soulmate believers, while realists are more likely to be work-it-out believers. - Soulmate believers have fewer and shorter relationships than work-it-out believers. - Soulmate believers will more likely prefer romantic movies or love songs. -------- So....which one is YOU?

A kept man is a man who is financially supported by a wealthy, usually older, person who is neither the man's spouse or close relative. Men may be kept by either a woman or by another man. Being "kept" could be seen as a form of prostitution, especially if the relationship has a sexual dimension. from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kept_man I watched TV about kept men last night... wow their life were so great. One night not so long time ago, I went to Starbuck in Soi Thong lor... a start buck young boy told me that I was so sexy, beautiful.. etc. Don't wanna tell you more cuz it makes me sick. He asked me out if I didn't have any plan that night... My thought "Gosh!! he goes to wrong person" I'm not that rich to have any "Kept Men" in my control. Ok here are the questions, what if you have chance to be a kept man, will you? and for a women if you rich enough to have guy in control, will you? For me I was that wealthy, i might try... i like to take control but for now... I wanna try to be a kept woman :wink:

Is there a way to get "butterfly" boys to care for you? When a guy says he just wanna have fun or doesn't wanna have a gf, does he mean that or it's just that he doesn't like the girl enough? Even if you're not ready for a relationship for whatever reason, does it really matter if you run into a girl you really really like? I always believe a girl have the power to change a guys mind if the right button is pushed??

Your Boyfriends. sleep with Bar gal.. or any.. you,, Forgive? Forget Give him one more chance.... F**K Him Off Ect....

I am preparing to be shot down in flames here.. I'm back in the UK and she would like one..anybody know how i can get her one...apart from the obvious buying it here and mailing it..can i not order it direct for her? thankyou in advance for the helpful answers..lol Regards Peter

I hear so many TG's complaining that Thai men are such butterflies, farang men are so much more preferable cos they are a lot more faithful to their gals. Well, you will be surprised to know how many girls have Thai boyfriends. This should not be surprising simply because a Thai girl can relate a lot better to a Thai man than with a male farang (often short, fat bald, midgets, etc.,) from the west.

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I'm stupid to be fooled again...now it's from a TF member. I found out because he's not wiser or maybe he did that on purpose so I know that I'm not the chosen one. If you were fooled by a TF member, what would u do? Will u tell other members? Or just leave him / her around for his/her fun? How many girls would be sad and have broken heart from this guy??? Same dialogues were given to different girls and he has enjoyed pxxxy he longs for.. Congratulations and Best Wishes to you!

I'm wondering what other TF members would do if they had a bf/gf who talked about killing themselves or you whenever they got upset about something. Is it worth trying to keep the relationship going?

I recently had an proposal for this, which i turned down. i mean, if i really cared about the person and had known them a long time, it would've been different. but obviously she cared for me a lot more than me for her. a viginity is not something you can just take and walk away from, in my opinion. besides, i think it would've been physically impossible. good to be back, i promise not to make any more threats to queer pansies. t

Ok, you've been on a couple of dates wth this hot girl or guy, whichever tickles your fancy, and now it's time for your first kiss. What kind of kiss do you give out, or allow to receive? Sniff kiss? Kiss on cheeks, maybe neck? Little pecks on the lips, with mouth closed? Mouth open but only lips touching. Go for the full monty, probing tongues, lip- biting and all? How do I handle a first kiss with Thai girl?

In the west, it seems so straightforward, you are either dating, cheating or just friends. Amongst the Thais, it seems so complicated that I cannot figure it out, inspite of being around TF for a while: Lets start: Teerak vs Lover - is there a difference? Where does a gik fit in? If I had a gf and she had a gik, in my narrow western view that would probably be called cheating (but I hope to be taught here to expand this narrow western view into something much more appropriate) Please help me through this minefield that the Thais call relationships