Aphrodite Posted September 25, 2004 Report Share Posted September 25, 2004 im now a bird with a broken wing and i dont know how to fly... im ******* broken heart from the one i love so much and i dont think i can live without him. its just not me he chooses i dont know what to do cos im going nut i feel like ****, empty, lifeless no matter how long i 'll wait for him i dont know if that day would come help me :cry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lipp Posted September 25, 2004 Report Share Posted September 25, 2004 Keep moving girl, life goes on... Best for u, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loburt Posted September 25, 2004 Report Share Posted September 25, 2004 "Toss his stuff which you will remind you of him away. No phone calls, no emails. Keep busy, go with friends... party!! and remember that, you deserve someone better than that Move on.. !! " True, about tossing the stuff, but partying may not help at a time like this. Maybe it will. See what happens. If it doesn't, another approach is to do something for those less fortunate than you. You could volunteer at Father Joe's Mercy Center in Klong Toey, or something like that. I know that may sound sappy right now, but if you can see others in situations more desperate than yours (and I'm not trying to belittle your pain or heartbreak in any way), it will help put things in perspective. If you can reach out and help those people, it will raise your self esteem, which is low right now because the one you love has left you. Maybe you're not ready for this kind of thing. And maybe youu're stronger than you think and you'll get over this sooner than you think. I hope so. But if you don't, and it gets really bad, then try this or something like I suggested. In any case, you'll make some merit, and that's never a bad thing. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aphrodite Posted September 25, 2004 Author Report Share Posted September 25, 2004 I know that you can hear the rhythm of the rain Although we're miles apart I know you feel my pain I try to be so strong, I try to carry on But since you left the sun don't seem to shine My tears are falling on the words you wrote to me I wish that somehow they could take me where I wanna be It seems so long ago, you held me when I cried For now I just pretend you're by my side, oh-oh yeah Everything that I touch turns to blue When I'm living in a world without you I'm going crazy baby, I am missing you Can't imagine all I go through When I'm living in a world without you I'm not alone I know that you can feel it too I try to watch a movie but you're all that I can see (all that I can see) In my dreams I know I always see you constantly But then a dream comes to an end and I'm alone And I can't seem to let this feeling go, whoa-oh baby Everything that I touch turns to blue When I'm living in a world without you I'm going crazy baby, I am missing you Can't imagine all I go through When I'm living in a world without you(can't live without you) I'm not alone I know that you can feel it too I try to be so strong, I try to carry on But since you left the sun don't seem to shine, whoa-oh-ooh Everything that I touch turns to blue When I'm living in a world without you(I'm going crazy, missing you baby) I'm going crazy baby, I am missing you Can't imagine all I go through When I'm living in a world without you (a world without you) I'm not alone I know that you can feel it too (what can I do without you baby) Can't imagine all I go through When I'm living in a world without you (living without you) I'm not alone I know that you can feel it too I'm going crazy missing you baby Living without you (living without you)" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyoiy Posted September 25, 2004 Report Share Posted September 25, 2004 what's happend ??? No I dont think he can live without you also. Believe the best. I dont know what's wroung with you two but I hope it's just a temporary nightmare of you. And will be fine soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted September 25, 2004 Report Share Posted September 25, 2004 be strong girl... a few months ago (may) my heart was broken, trampled, stomped, crushed, chopped into little bits and stomped on again. and what makes it worse, was that it was my own fault. i felt terrible. i generally would never consider suicide but (never told anyone) i did then. there are lots of things that will help a little, getting rid of his stuff is spot on. or if you cannot bring yourself to actually get rid of it, put it away and stay away from it. you have to put any thought of EVER getting back with him out of your mind, this is the hardest thing in the world to do.. those little "what if" will creep into your mind... DONT LET THEM. talk to your friends a lot about it, your best friends, teh ones you know will be patient with you. this helps. like i said my broken heart was my own fault, and my really good friends were able to be supportive without judging. find things u like to do that keep u busy, but be careful, dont partyi too hard. what i did was party too hard, drink too much, and i went home with self destructive girl who was a bad influence. that is what NOT to do. now i am just chillin and keeping busy by work, school, and little diversions like answering these kinds of questions. i do things i enjoy but nothing where i can get too crazy. also, and this is difficult to do... i am not dating for 6 months minimum. what happens is when you have a broken heart and date right away you can become too attached to somoeone who is not right for you, so is best to treat a broken heart like a broken bone and stay off it for a while.**** it isnt easy girl, it's been a few months now and i still cry sometimes. there will be good days and bad days, but overall you will feel better and better. take it slow before you meet someone new, get strong first. PROTECT YOURSELF WHEN U ARE HURTING AND DONT START A NEW RELATIONSHIP. VERY IMPORTANT. for instance there's a very beautiful, smart girl here in new york who is flirting with me but i am just not ready yet. ya gotta be strong, and wait unti u r ready. when the time is right there will still be someone to meet, even if it is not the ppl who are around now... hey if a funny looking guy with a shaved head and big ears can, a beautiful girl like u will have no problem when the time cones. i also end up finding a sad song that fits the breakup. i tend to one ones with simple, not too sentimental lyrics. one i like is called "feeling relatively good" by a bband called "tindersticks" the words are: "i pretend to understand, choose explanations to suit myself but you know, i get it wrong in the end "now i only laugh with people who have no reason to care feel good about things that don't mean nothin' hang in there girl. it will get better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ttesta Posted September 25, 2004 Report Share Posted September 25, 2004 P'May ka sorry to hear this. If he cannot see good qualities in you then he's not worth it. I want to tell you that I've been there before and I was so devastated that I thought I could never love anyone again (though i still miss him now and then but not in that way anymore). Focus on your life not 'your lives' (yours and his) I know this might sound difficult and I used to think like that, trust me we can pass that stage together. Hope everything will be ok, I'll be here if ever you need anything. Noochy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zach Posted September 26, 2004 Report Share Posted September 26, 2004 also, and this is difficult to do... i am not dating for 6 months minimum. what happens is when you have a broken heart and date right away you can become too attached to somoeone who is not right for you, so is best to treat a broken heart like a broken bone and stay off it for a while.**** it isnt easy girl, it's been a few months now and i still cry sometimes. there will be good days and bad days, but overall you will feel better and better. well said whoever you are...cause i'm the schmuck that has left her feeling like this. I think that it was cause i didn't take this advice...I went from being with a girl that is and will always be a ***** to me...to this minute she still hurts me...last night for example she feels she has to get back at me for all the good times i've had with ms. filurina...singapore, concerts, and just plain fun. Well she sits n flirts with this guy cause she knows it makes me crazy, ugh. But i let it happen cause I know that deep down she loves me more then anything on this planet and I feel the same(most of the time), I truly thought that when i was with filurina I was happy but the moment i heard sea's voice or read her message she would try to make me so angry but it just made me more n more foolish...so what can i do, give up someone i've known for over a year had some of the best times of my life with? Or go with what I know is going to be a more perfect thing??? Filurina you know that in my heart I know you are the best thing for me and always will be....unfortunatly i'm a fool or how i can say quixotic. You have always been a sweet angel, never argued or fought with me, always been on my side, and just made sure everything was smooth...what more could someone ask for? Is it that you are too good for me and i need a ***** for a gf? I don't know but I'm goin crazy cause its like your the angel on one shoulder and shes the lil red devil on the other...what the **** can I DOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOo :roll: :cry: :cry: :? :x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
music Posted September 26, 2004 Report Share Posted September 26, 2004 first, my heart goes out to you. i don't know if this is of any comfort to you but i can tell you that the pain will subside eventually. you WILL make it. and i've also found from experience that the sooner one person leaves your life, a more suitable one (not better) will come to you - when you're ready. take care, jo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aphrodite Posted September 26, 2004 Author Report Share Posted September 26, 2004 well said whoever you are...cause i'm the schmuck that has left her feeling like this. I think that it was cause i didn't take this advice...I went from being with a girl that is and will always be a ***** to me...to this minute she still hurts me...last night for example she feels she has to get back at me for all the good times i've had with ms. filurina...singapore, concerts, and just plain fun. Well she sits n flirts with this guy cause she knows it makes me crazy, ugh. But i let it happen cause I know that deep down she loves me more then anything on this planet and I feel the same(most of the time), I truly thought that when i was with filurina I was happy but the moment i heard sea's voice or read her message she would try to make me so angry but it just made me more n more foolish...so what can i do, give up someone i've known for over a year had some of the best times of my life with? Or go with what I know is going to be a more perfect thing??? Filurina you know that in my heart I know you are the best thing for me and always will be....unfortunatly i'm a fool or how i can say quixotic. You have always been a sweet angel, never argued or fought with me, always been on my side, and just made sure everything was smooth...what more could someone ask for? Is it that you are too good for me and i need a ***** for a gf? I don't know but I'm goin crazy cause its like your the angel on one shoulder and shes the lil red devil on the other...what the **** can I DOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOo :roll: :cry: :cry: :? :x I cant read u babe! I dont know what to do. what am I supposed to do but nothing when u chose to be with her ok? u know what I woke up every morning crying cos ur the first thing on my mind. my friend told me to stop thinking about but I cant. I cant sleep I cant eat. I guess how it feels like cos u were wearing my shoes. I guess I should just wait for u i dont know. I dont know why she wants you to get back with her. Like I said, we were so happy from the start. then that girl knew ur with me. she kept sending u tonz of nasty msg , wishing u die, go and **** urself blar blar.. , to confuse you for what .. i barely know. I know Im stupid for the fact I still wanna get back with you. But would that really happen, I doubt it. I guess i should give u time and space to realize what is really what u want. u know im always here for u to support in any circumstances. this is so ******* crazy, u cant get over her, i cant over you.. maybe I should run away to other world??? sweetheart i know its impossible for me asking you to forget her cos u could never forget the one u loved. my friend said sometimes u can love two persons at the same time. i guess that is right but i also remember that u can only be with one person. i dont know zach like i said i'll wait i dont know if what im doing is right. but i just follow my heart cos whatever i see is only you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aphrodite Posted September 27, 2004 Author Report Share Posted September 27, 2004 what's happend ??? No I dont think he can live without you also. Believe the best. I dont know what's wroung with you two but I hope it's just a temporary nightmare of you. And will be fine soon. thank for the msg you sent to me na. I'll try to cheer me up but i cant. esp now hes mad at me and probably hates me more. my ex's being nasty sending his 'current' gf some nasty msg. he thought i gave that guy her no which i didnt mean to. i mean i was deperate to call him the other night but I know she wouldnt allow me to call him so i went to see my ex asking for some help by calling her from my ex's mobile. unexpectedly, i didnt know that my ex would save her no and send her many bad msg. I felt so sorry for that. now im trying to ask him to forgive me for my stupidity. ppl make a mistake, and so did I. I dont know its hurting me more when I know hes gonna hate me. I dont know what to do really. my life is so blue. I cant see anything but him. help me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aphrodite Posted September 27, 2004 Author Report Share Posted September 27, 2004 be strong girl... there are lots of things that will help a little, getting rid of his stuff is spot on. or if you cannot bring yourself to actually get rid of it, put it away and stay away from it. you have to put any thought of EVER getting back with him out of your mind, this is the hardest thing in the world to do.. those little "what if" will creep into your mind... DONT LET THEM. talk to your friends a lot about it, your best friends, teh ones you know will be patient with you. this helps. like i said my broken heart was my own fault, and my really good friends were able to be supportive without judging. find things u like to do that keep u busy, but be careful, dont partyi too hard. what i did was party too hard, drink too much, and i went home with self destructive girl who was a bad influence. that is what NOT to do. now i am just chillin and keeping busy by work, school, and little diversions like answering these kinds of questions. i do things i enjoy but nothing where i can get too crazy. also, and this is difficult to do... i am not dating for 6 months minimum. what happens is when you have a broken heart and date right away you can become too attached to somoeone who is not right for you, so is best to treat a broken heart like a broken bone and stay off it for a while.**** it isnt easy girl, it's been a few months now and i still cry sometimes. there will be good days and bad days, but overall you will feel better and better. take it slow before you meet someone new, get strong first. PROTECT YOURSELF WHEN U ARE HURTING AND DONT START A NEW RELATIONSHIP. VERY IMPORTANT. for instance there's a very beautiful, smart girl here in new york who is flirting with me but i am just not ready yet. ya gotta be strong, and wait unti u r ready. when the time is right there will still be someone to meet, even if it is not the ppl who are around now... hey if a funny looking guy with a shaved head and big ears can, a beautiful girl like u will have no problem when the time cones. i also end up finding a sad song that fits the breakup. i tend to one ones with simple, not too sentimental lyrics. one i like is called "feeling relatively good" by a bband called "tindersticks" the words are: "i pretend to understand, choose explanations to suit myself but you know, i get it wrong in the end "now i only laugh with people who have no reason to care feel good about things that don't mean nothin' hang in there girl. it will get better. the thing is I cant get rid of things reminding me of him. Our pictures are still hanging all over the wall. When I closed my eyes I think about him. Whatever I do wherever I go I think about him. This is really bad but I dont really know what to do. Im not that strong. I thought I was stronger I was wrong. I know I've already tried to hang out with friends. I turned out that I think of him more. I wish he were there u know. I got drunk wondering where he was. then i realise he would be with her. Then i cry again and again thinking would there be any chance for him to come back to me. Im so hopeless and desperate. i cant think of anything good about myself cos I keep thinking im not good enough for him i cant make him love me..Im sure im not ready for anyone new cos hes walking all over my heart. my best friend told me it took 2 years to forget her ex. Mine would be forever cos I do believe there's some connection between us I do believe that our love could grow stronger if only he chose me .. if only he came back to me.. god I dont know im desperate wating for him to come back which I dont know if that day would come. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zach Posted September 29, 2004 Report Share Posted September 29, 2004 I think that i'm starting to realize why i left her in the first place...why i found that you are a better person then anyone...now i'm f**ked. f**ked f**ked f**ked. zjs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aphrodite Posted September 29, 2004 Author Report Share Posted September 29, 2004 I think that i'm starting to realize why i left her in the first place...why i found that you are a better person then anyone...now i'm f**ked. f**ked f**ked f**ked. sweetie.. maybe i have no right to call u this anymore. well maybe its time for u to be with urself and realize what u want cos its only u who know what u want, I cant tell u what to do can I? The most important is dont let anyone to make u feel bad about urself cos to me ur the best thing ever happen in my life. Im sure that every problem have a solution which u need to find out. take ur time as much as u want. i dont want you to rush or anything cos u know I can wait for u. I'll be standing here waiting for u. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cedric Posted September 29, 2004 Report Share Posted September 29, 2004 Wow... it's a nice declaration! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aphrodite Posted September 29, 2004 Author Report Share Posted September 29, 2004 Wow... it's a nice declaration! mine or his? :oops: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cedric Posted September 29, 2004 Report Share Posted September 29, 2004 Wow... it's a nice declaration! mine or his? :oops: Must say both, but above all yours Filurina, because it's longer! 555 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Easty Posted September 29, 2004 Report Share Posted September 29, 2004 May. You need to get a grip of yourself and realise two things. One - Life goes on and however you feel now, it is only a matter of time before you get over him and meet the right man for you. Someone who will show you the love and respect that you deserve. Two - You are still very young and beautiful and there are a million men out there who would jump at a chance of a relationship with you. There is so much time for settling down May. Dont worry. Have fun. Be young. Have flings. Do whatever you want to do and dont feel guilty about it because you have nothing to feel bad about. You are single again and be happy about it. Herman was not right for you. You know it in your heart and the fact that he has gone back to a girl that even he calls a ***** (not my words or judgement, I dont know her) and chooses her over you is just madness. But that is his life. Let him get on with it. Given a choice between bubbly beautiful thai girl over ***** that makes your life miserable.......em. em. .. . tough choice. let me think for a while... Well sometimes in life we do make the wrong choices but in this case May I think that fate has made the right choice for you... Tomorrow is Friday night. Get your best dress and shoes on and get down the town and do some flirting. After all, is pulling the best feeling in the world. Your heart is pumping. Your nerves are jangling. you start to breath different and meeting new people that you fancy is the only time you ever get that sensation. so get out there and show Bangkok how it's done......... Make him feel like you are when he sees the next picture of may published after the weekend with your new boyfriend.....snogging!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aphrodite Posted October 1, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 1, 2004 I hope that.. Zach will find his way back to you finally... LOVE will find a way ... Once again... please never ever forget how Wonderful you are ... hopefully one day he will but u know its his own choice only god knows what its going to be. and its him who makes feel so wonderful..thx for everything naka p'c Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zach Posted October 3, 2004 Report Share Posted October 3, 2004 Hukt on foniks werked fer mee.....hahaha yeah its in our genes...I'm american but half Irish and english go figure the worst of both worlds muahaha. Anyways yeah i may be an idiot some of the times but i'm pretty loaded with common sense for the rest of the time. Right now i have some obligations and some things to figure out and I need to know if this is what i want or am i just a fool, time will tell. Filurina thanks for your declaration and I know you'll be waiting I"m glad that your the most understanding girl on this planet. Till then keep your head up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aphrodite Posted October 3, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 3, 2004 yeah u always know how i feel. i know u cant promise me anything but nevertheless i do remember every single words u say to me, how u miss me and u know i feel the same most of the time. I just dont wanna be fool. Deep in my heart i know that no one does it better than u. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
music Posted October 4, 2004 Report Share Posted October 4, 2004 209873, i agree with what you wrote; i also know that this type of pain isn't something that can be brushed away quickly. i've been on both ends and neither is pleasant. my opinion is that it's a huge mistake to rely solely on another person for one's happiness. each relatonship is unique. they'll work it out. whatever the outcome, it's all good. for both people. jo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
music Posted October 5, 2004 Report Share Posted October 5, 2004 :shock: Men's perspective !!They trend to be able to forget someone in 5 secs... Women are deeper... deeper... and deeper... bkkbird, all of us men are deeper than most girls would like to admit. now, some of us have more boy on the surface than others. but when it comes to the crunch we step up, right guys? jo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OutOfOrder Posted October 5, 2004 Report Share Posted October 5, 2004 Do nothing and appreciate your misery. --- A tip form the Queen of Misery herself. LoL ... life bites, love sucks - whatelse?!?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loburt Posted October 5, 2004 Report Share Posted October 5, 2004 :shock: Men's perspective !! They trend to be able to forget someone in 5 secs... Women are deeper... deeper... and deeper... C You are so wrong, bkkbird. So, so wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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