bobbyboy112003 Posted February 18, 2007 Report Share Posted February 18, 2007 May I ask a question? how many of you have ever tried it? to make you qualify to answer the subject matter?You except a woman into your life that has kids the same as she does with you,but it does cause difficulties and great ones at that. I can say it takes two very sensible,loving,sharing and good thinkers to unit not only themselves but create a place in their lives for their kids as well. And above all kids do adapt better some times than adults and there is the problem of culture and the society you are taking them or trying to get them to adapt to. If a guy is loving and caring enough time will be the potion to excepting her kids and loving them. I'm not too sure that any of us need to be qualified to answer the question, "Are Guys Turned Off If A Woman Has A Child?" Some people are turned off by blonds, short hair etc. It seems more a matter of how one feels about it I think. I do however like your input and agree with it, thank you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i_love_som_tam Posted February 18, 2007 Report Share Posted February 18, 2007 i wont mind if my guy's got a kid - that would be great! - i wont have to breed my own and totally hold no responsibility looking after it!! Even so, if i ever got knocked up by a bloke, I'm just gonna wrap the baby up and leave it at his door. If he wont take it, I'll just call his mother. wow... if you get knocked up by a bloke... hmmm. it takes two to tango. you helped create the child and yet you would refuse to share in the responsibility of raising him/her (not "IT") or getting the chlild into a loving home. yikes :shock: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beej Posted February 18, 2007 Report Share Posted February 18, 2007 More importantly, since most of you fly around the world knocking chicks up....ARE WOMEN PUT OFF IF A MAN HAS A CHILD????????????? very good question :wink: and i agree with venus that if you love the person, you will love his/her kids. There you go, I agree with Venus and Cherryberry, same for men: If you love a woman, you will love her kids! Of course, and her parents-in law too. And the great-uncle and the grandmother, and the dogs too! All so easy to love! ... bitter are we? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaithai123 Posted February 18, 2007 Report Share Posted February 18, 2007 If I had a child I would be very very careful to get a bf or new husband..Not many people want to share this quite a big responsibility I would think. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
afook06 Posted February 18, 2007 Report Share Posted February 18, 2007 If you love the lady, then you have to offer the same love to her child, however this means more responsibility and it takes money also, it's a bit more than just than meeting someone that is single. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beej Posted February 18, 2007 Report Share Posted February 18, 2007 More importantly, since most of you fly around the world knocking chicks up....ARE WOMEN PUT OFF IF A MAN HAS A CHILD????????????? very good question :wink: and i agree with venus that if you love the person, you will love his/her kids. There you go, I agree with Venus and Cherryberry, same for men: If you love a woman, you will love her kids! Of course, and her parents-in law too. And the great-uncle and the grandmother, and the dogs too! All so easy to love! ... bitter are we? Some would call it experience. Promise me you'll try it too one day ;-) Its ok I'll miss out on that one and learn from you lot! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cerberus1264 Posted February 18, 2007 Report Share Posted February 18, 2007 :twisted: I'm not at all turned off if a woman has a child.......I think it would hurt too much if men started having babies..... :twisted: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OutOfOrder Posted February 20, 2007 Report Share Posted February 20, 2007 i wont mind if my guy's got a kid - that would be great! - i wont have to breed my own and totally hold no responsibility looking after it!! Even so, if i ever got knocked up by a bloke, I'm just gonna wrap the baby up and leave it at his door. If he wont take it, I'll just call his mother. And you would probably also accept that if that was the other way around, sure you must be a caring and loving mum / step mum :roll: i think i got my message fairly clear. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted February 20, 2007 Report Share Posted February 20, 2007 More importantly, since most of you fly around the world knocking chicks up....ARE WOMEN PUT OFF IF A MAN HAS A CHILD????????????? more importantly, ARE WOMEN PUT OFF IF A MAN HAS A HAREM?????????????????? um... just askin. AHEM. <<hides>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cerberus1264 Posted February 20, 2007 Report Share Posted February 20, 2007 i wont mind if my guy's got a kid - that would be great! - i wont have to breed my own and totally hold no responsibility looking after it!! Even so, if i ever got knocked up by a bloke, I'm just gonna wrap the baby up and leave it at his door. If he wont take it, I'll just call his mother. And you would probably also accept that if that was the other way around, sure you must be a caring and loving mum / step mum :roll: i think i got my message fairly clear. Pam.......I want my child support... :twisted: :twisted: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
macca_tirana Posted February 20, 2007 Report Share Posted February 20, 2007 I would have absolutely no problem with a lady who has a child nad no problem caring for the child. The problem and concern would be the situation. The fear being the father coming back and wanting his former gf / wife and child back. It wouldnt be the 1st time old flames have re-ignited. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bryanwhat Posted February 20, 2007 Report Share Posted February 20, 2007 I've been in that kind of situation and I was completely turned off by it. I am sure the kid was great, but I think it would depend on the woman. I wasn't that interested, if I would have been more interested I could have lived with the fact that it is a package deal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beej Posted February 20, 2007 Report Share Posted February 20, 2007 ahhhhhhhh the package! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted February 22, 2007 Report Share Posted February 22, 2007 More importantly, since most of you fly around the world knocking chicks up....ARE WOMEN PUT OFF IF A MAN HAS A CHILD????????????? very good question :wink: and i agree with venus that if you love the person, you will love his/her kids. There you go, I agree with Venus and Cherryberry, same for men: If you love a woman, you will love her kids! Of course, and her parents-in law too. And the great-uncle and the grandmother, and the dogs too! All so easy to love! sorry but i only put out (up to) one time a night. the family dog et al will have to take a number... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i_love_som_tam Posted February 22, 2007 Report Share Posted February 22, 2007 More importantly, since most of you fly around the world knocking chicks up....ARE WOMEN PUT OFF IF A MAN HAS A CHILD????????????? very good question :wink: and i agree with venus that if you love the person, you will love his/her kids. There you go, I agree with Venus and Cherryberry, same for men: If you love a woman, you will love her kids! Of course, and her parents-in law too. And the great-uncle and the grandmother, and the dogs too! All so easy to love! sorry but i only put out (up to) one time a night. the family dog et al will have to take a number... woof woof Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted February 23, 2007 Report Share Posted February 23, 2007 sorry but i only put out (up to) one time a night. the family dog et al will have to take a number... woof woof mental image number 87 that i did NOT need !!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i_love_som_tam Posted February 23, 2007 Report Share Posted February 23, 2007 sorry but i only put out (up to) one time a night. the family dog et al will have to take a number... woof woof mental image number 87 that i did NOT need !!! i got a million of fer ya :wink: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lizardo Posted February 23, 2007 Report Share Posted February 23, 2007 i don't mind if a woman has a child as long as she is a virgin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
apasra Posted February 23, 2007 Report Share Posted February 23, 2007 ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OutOfOrder Posted February 23, 2007 Report Share Posted February 23, 2007 ... here she goes again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i_love_som_tam Posted February 23, 2007 Report Share Posted February 23, 2007 For years men have been intrigued by the beauty and wisdom of Thai women................ here she goes again. she's banned now :wink: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yeahrightdennis Posted February 23, 2007 Report Share Posted February 23, 2007 I won't say turned on... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stegee Posted February 23, 2007 Report Share Posted February 23, 2007 no problem with a woman having a baby as long as she doesn't do it during sex!! :shock: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stegee Posted February 23, 2007 Report Share Posted February 23, 2007 More importantly, since most of you fly around the world knocking chicks up....ARE WOMEN PUT OFF IF A MAN HAS A CHILD????????????? very good question :wink: and i agree with venus that if you love the person, you will love his/her kids. There you go, I agree with Venus and Cherryberry, same for men: If you love a woman, you will love her kids! Of course, and her parents-in law too. And the great-uncle and the grandmother, and the dogs too! All so easy to love! and don't forget the sick buffalo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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