gggrrr Posted April 14, 2007 Report Share Posted April 14, 2007 what do u think about long distance relationship? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anenglishman Posted April 14, 2007 Report Share Posted April 14, 2007 what do u think about long distance relationship? Tried it. Won't again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zleepy Posted April 14, 2007 Report Share Posted April 14, 2007 Never done it, don't think I'd want to try it.. I'd imagine it sucks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyoiy Posted April 14, 2007 Report Share Posted April 14, 2007 if we can plan when exactly to meet and apart from that we got internet and cell... which can connect us together anytime then Im fine.. i mean if i can talk to my guy everyday in any way then im satisfied. Maybe becoz i love my privacy so im ok with this. you know u will feel it when u doing it, with someone u just have no doubt in him even hes far away and thats the most matter. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr_Sassy Posted April 14, 2007 Report Share Posted April 14, 2007 intolerable unendurable insufferable . . . . . . . yet challenging Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dannyboy Posted April 14, 2007 Report Share Posted April 14, 2007 Very difficult, Hard to understand , Tough ! but it's worth .... bonehead Bonerhead Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dannyboy Posted April 14, 2007 Report Share Posted April 14, 2007 Very difficult, Hard to understand , Tough ! but it's worth .... bonehead Bonerhead shut up midget...she's with me Great smackdown, love it. Midget......... ( If that's all you can come up with you better leave these shark infested waters,you will get eaten alive. ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dannyboy Posted April 14, 2007 Report Share Posted April 14, 2007 Very difficult, Hard to understand , Tough ! but it's worth .... bonehead Bonerhead shut up midget...she's with me Great smackdown, love it. Midget......... ( If that's all you can come up with you better leave these shark infested waters,you will get eaten alive. ) hey...i'll take my ball and go home... Ok , because it's Thai new year i feel charitable, Sir i concede. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dannyboy Posted April 14, 2007 Report Share Posted April 14, 2007 In answer to the author's original question, I think that a long distance relationship is a tall order but if true love and commitment is shown by both parties then distance is only in the mind and love will find a way. On the other hand, if one of the parties has numerous boyfriends/sponsors and is on first name terms with the teller at the Western Union Office and has her own private account, then it turns out she is the biggest hussy going this side of Patpong while her "beloved" has gone back to Farangland to work 7 days a week , 14 hours a day to provide a better life for her and her children. Then NO, i don't think a long distance relationship can work. (I'm not bitter and twisted really) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shopaholic Posted April 14, 2007 Report Share Posted April 14, 2007 believe me it doesn't work. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
macca_tirana Posted April 14, 2007 Report Share Posted April 14, 2007 believe me it doesn't work. Sometimes it can if there is a strong possibility that it can lead to something more permanent. But generally i really dont see the point in a relationship that only allows you to be with your partner occassionally. Call me old fashioned but isnt a relationship about always being there for each other. Surely one ot the other if not both are just fooling themselves Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yvr_in_Bkk Posted April 14, 2007 Report Share Posted April 14, 2007 Hell Yes and No, depends on whom you date with and how much u trust him/her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeAussieGuy Posted April 14, 2007 Report Share Posted April 14, 2007 I think iit depends on how long the distance stays an issue, more than anything else. Let's face it of it's longer than a year or so, it either isn't going to happen because either one or both are happy with the arrangement so it will just become a lingering death or circumstances are such that it just cannot be. In the latter case the sooner both people realize it the better. Anyone here in TF committed to another longer than a year, if so then good luck, you will probably live happily ever after together. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stegee Posted April 14, 2007 Report Share Posted April 14, 2007 how long a distance?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
garyrr Posted April 14, 2007 Report Share Posted April 14, 2007 Strength, trust and a healthy jealousy!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibel Posted April 14, 2007 Report Share Posted April 14, 2007 I think iit depends on how long the distance stays an issue, more than anything else.Let's face it of it's longer than a year or so, it either isn't going to happen because either one or both are happy with the arrangement so it will just become a lingering death or circumstances are such that it just cannot be. In the latter case the sooner both people realize it the better. Anyone here in TF committed to another longer than a year, if so then good luck, you will probably live happily ever after together. I agree with u, Mike. U'll never learn eachother really. Probably u r on holiday. Ur mood is different than in real life. U like to enjoy and meet friends and drink some beer together. U'll always sleep in hotelrooms, go out eating and drinking (hey, it's holiday for me, isn't it!!!). Even if u call or chat every day, it's still different. U r not the same person on the phone or internet, at least that's my experience. If u r like 3 to 4 weeks together in 1 year, u don't see the same person. And at once u see something in the other person that u don't like at all. And it'll collapse. I had two LDR. One ended after 2 (two) days, the other ended in the second year. Let's face the truth. To really knowing each other u hv to meet more regulary than 1 month a year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stegee Posted April 14, 2007 Report Share Posted April 14, 2007 I had two LDR. One ended after 2 (two) days, the other ended in the second year. i don't think 2 days qualifys as a relationship- more like a long goodbye!! :roll: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yvr_in_Bkk Posted April 14, 2007 Report Share Posted April 14, 2007 I agree with u, Mike. U'll never learn eachother really. Probably u r on holiday. Ur mood is different than in real life. U like to enjoy and meet friends and drink some beer together. U'll always sleep in hotelrooms, go out eating and drinking (hey, it's holiday for me, isn't it!!!). Even if u call or chat every day, it's still different. U r not the same person on the phone or internet, at least that's my experience. If u r like 3 to 4 weeks together in 1 year, u don't see the same person. And at once u see something in the other person that u don't like at all. And it'll collapse. I had two LDR. One ended after 2 (two) days, the other ended in the second year. Let's face the truth. To really knowing each other u hv to meet more regulary than 1 month a year. I 150% agree w/ you, Thaibel. talk to each other in person is different than on the phone or msn. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Horizonte Posted April 14, 2007 Report Share Posted April 14, 2007 I tended to always have long distance cause in my country, I am considered second class due to my disability and not attractive to local girls. So I had no choice but meet girls online and yet they were not local. The long distance can hurt especially it can take just 1 visit or even 5 visits till you realize she didnt have any love for you but wanted other things like sex or money etc. I have been in some nasty situations where I was a girls man on the side in long distance relationships without knowing it till it was too late. I thought I was developing a relationship, but actually she had a bf who was also on long distance... and my flight benefits were too easy to abuse (thus visiting more often). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stegee Posted April 15, 2007 Report Share Posted April 15, 2007 had them in the past and they tend not to work for me- however horses for courses!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibel Posted April 15, 2007 Report Share Posted April 15, 2007 I had two LDR. One ended after 2 (two) days, the other ended in the second year. i don't think 2 days qualifys as a relationship- more like a long goodbye!! :roll: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RYU666 Posted April 15, 2007 Report Share Posted April 15, 2007 long distance relationship mai dee! no, that's nothing for me. either you have a gf and see her regular, or u don't have a gf. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
condotown Posted April 15, 2007 Report Share Posted April 15, 2007 As long as she sends me money every month to be a good boy, I swear I can be a good boy and think only of her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jevnam Posted April 15, 2007 Report Share Posted April 15, 2007 its all about your heart and fate i think, for a few people i known, it worked Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted April 15, 2007 Report Share Posted April 15, 2007 I tended to always have long distance cause in my country, I am considered second class due to my disability and not attractive to local girls being American is now considered as a disability !!! :shock: :shock: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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