eagle Posted July 8, 2007 Report Share Posted July 8, 2007 yes sure why not... 8) but he will never get my love back I am good friends with my Xs. We loved each other once and still do but in a different way now. I say hello sometimes and I am friends with their familys and close to their children. NOthing wrong with that......... maybe your just nice girl Manee and some are not :wink: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyoiy Posted July 8, 2007 Report Share Posted July 8, 2007 Offcourse, I never hate one I used to love. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eagle Posted July 8, 2007 Report Share Posted July 8, 2007 yes sure why not... 8) but he will never get my love back I am good friends with my Xs. We loved each other once and still do but in a different way now. I say hello sometimes and I am friends with their familys and close to their children. NOthing wrong with that......... maybe your just nice girl Manee and some are not :wink: i know my ex not want to talk to me na hehe i dont know why i dont want to get his love back anyway.. Sometimes it hurts and takes a long time to be friends again. BUt can we be friends with an X was the question and I think we can if we wish....... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamsocute Posted July 9, 2007 Report Share Posted July 9, 2007 If i have new bf the ex can be friend but only for work (my work only) not for dinner one by one or anything cause if i have time like that better i take my bf to do that more fun,and for some ex i never even answer his phone....(just bored something call Nah Daan..) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LawrenceUk Posted January 6, 2008 Report Share Posted January 6, 2008 From my experience my ex's usually hate me but as a man we have a special process called ........ ah well! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bernie009 Posted January 6, 2008 Report Share Posted January 6, 2008 Yes X can b a gud frnd you can even go like this XX could be more good frnds XXX could be more and more so the number of X means the more better frnds they could be :idea: :arrow: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bernie009 Posted January 6, 2008 Report Share Posted January 6, 2008 sure why not my ex is my best friends now as i said :idea: Yes X can b a gud frnd you can even go like this XX could be more good frnds XXX could be more and more so the number of X means the more better frnds they could be :wink: :idea: :arrow: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samy5000 Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 the relationship end because meeting someone new.can you still be friend with your ex? NO !...couse Friendship often ends in love, but love NEVER in friendship... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2508 Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 NMF Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bernie009 Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 Which ex exactly are we referring to? Which ex are you thinking :idea: :arrow: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yoi Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 can you still be friend with your ex? Depends on circumstances but why not? Only sometimes it may be hard to avoid having sex because with your ex there are not real borders... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 can you still be friend with your ex? Depends on circumstances but why not? Only sometimes it may be hard to avoid having sex because with your ex there are not real borders... after the first few weeks i don't find it difficult at all to establish real borders. i tend to be friends with (most, but not all) exes, and i don't generally go back to any of 'em. and after the first few weeks i'm not interested in ex-sex, so it's a non-issue for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BloodySakura Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 depends on which ex i'm referring to lol but yeah i can still be friends with the nice ones Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yoi Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 after the first few weeks i don't find it difficult at all to establish real borders. i tend to be friends with (most, but not all) exes, and i don't generally go back to any of 'em. and after the first few weeks i'm not interested in ex-sex, so it's a non-issue for me. Yeah, good for you but I had this situation once. I used to hang out with a girl who then moved to the USA and we split apart because we felt it was not realistic to continue because of distance. Then she visited soon after and she had a boyfriend then while I was still on my own. As soon as we met we started behaving in the very same way as while we were together, same converstations and situations with all those feelings like warm feeling around the heart... We didn't have sex mostly because she didn't want but we came pretty close to that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigKus Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 ..i can easily being friend with anyone including the exes.. But pls except my apologies if i dont free being good friend much.. im busy seeking a new bf.. 8) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 after the first few weeks i don't find it difficult at all to establish real borders. i tend to be friends with (most, but not all) exes, and i don't generally go back to any of 'em. and after the first few weeks i'm not interested in ex-sex, so it's a non-issue for me. Yeah, good for you but I had this situation once. I used to hang out with a girl who then moved to the USA and we split apart because we felt it was not realistic to continue because of distance. Then she visited soon after and she had a boyfriend then while I was still on my own. As soon as we met we started behaving in the very same way as while we were together, same converstations and situations with all those feelings like warm feeling around the heart... We didn't have sex mostly because she didn't want but we came pretty close to that. It sounds like butterflying female style if you ask me. She's "pretty close" to using you and him, not your body but your mind. Women are pretty good at that. Of course if you do get used it's on your own responsibility. agree. one of the many reasons i find it easy to establish borders after breaking up with someone. the ex is almost certainly into it for the wrong reasons, and if i've not got someone else by then i'd most likely have a few dates lined up and not be interested in the ex "that way" anyway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bernie009 Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 after the first few weeks i don't find it difficult at all to establish real borders. i tend to be friends with (most, but not all) exes, and i don't generally go back to any of 'em. and after the first few weeks i'm not interested in ex-sex, so it's a non-issue for me. Yeah, good for you but I had this situation once. I used to hang out with a girl who then moved to the USA and we split apart because we felt it was not realistic to continue because of distance. Then she visited soon after and she had a boyfriend then while I was still on my own. As soon as we met we started behaving in the very same way as while we were together, same converstations and situations with all those feelings like warm feeling around the heart... We didn't have sex mostly because she didn't want but we came pretty close to that. It sounds like butterflying female style if you ask me. She's "pretty close" to using you and him, not your body but your mind. Women are pretty good at that. Of course if you do get used it's on your own responsibility. agree. one of the many reasons i find it easy to establish borders after breaking up with someone. the ex is almost certainly into it for the wrong reasons, and if i've not got someone else by then i'd most likely have a few dates lined up and not be interested in the ex "that way" anyway. I guess its not that ex is a dating frnd but a frnd after geting Axed or Axing you 8) :idea: :arrow: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bernie009 Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 Who said to Whom and When Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yoi Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 It sounds like butterflying female style if you ask me. She's "pretty close" to using you and him, not your body but your mind. Women are pretty good at that. Of course if you do get used it's on your own responsibility. Yes, some are and this one is a type that can take you to a ride to hell if you let her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
English_George Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 ...It must have been said before......but TF wouldn't be the same if people actually read what others wrote......so.... ....freinds with ex..? Can you still be....?? ....Surely everything in that question depends on how the prefix came to be.. ...If she was running around naked being chased by the local football team......then.... ...but if the split was amicable and her mum still sends you a birthday card, then why not..... ...why should people not be friends just because they spent 2 months convincing each other that they were going to spend the rest of their lives together??? ...that's like running out and buying a Ferrari when you have the first number in the lottery call..... ...you're still going to watch formula one after that aren't you? ...79 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PosH Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 ...It must have been said before......but TF wouldn't be the same if people actually read what others wrote......so.... True... Anyway .... Yes, I can still be friend ( or try to be ) with my exes. As long as they don't turn psycho and start stalking me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kennyke Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 sure can be friend with ex , as long she not try to control my life and that she not bother all the time then its ok Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 ...why should people not be friends just because they spent 2 months convincing each other that they were going to spend the rest of their lives together??? since when is two months enough to graduate as an ex? jesus! one month in my book... but it was an intense month. and i was 19 and foolish. and it was my birthday, and .... and... i liked it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 Ex-girlfriends can be the best friends of all. yeah coz you're already bored of doin' em. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
English_George Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 Ex-girlfriends can be the best friends of all. ...I think you got the words mixed up there Pi... ..let me de-discombobulate ..Ex-girlfriends.. = 'Sex'd girl finer'.......which most definitely are the best yes.. ...it's all about the apostophe's ...just helping on your heineken spewery..... ..79 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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