Down2Earth Posted February 22, 2005 Report Share Posted February 22, 2005 http://www.queendom.com/tests/minitests/fx/people_pleaser.html I got 30 :shock: You had a low score on the people-pleasing scale, which means you have your limits and are able to say "no" when others ask too much of you. You trust your own opinion and ability to make decisions, and don't rely on the views of others to guide your every-waking move. Although some people (those with the disease to please) would interpret this as selfishness, this doesn't mean that you only think of yourself. You probably still want to make others happy and care about their well-being, but you aren't willing to sacrifice your own needs for them. You've got a pretty high self-esteem and the assertiveness skills to stand up for yourself. Just be sure not to go to the other extreme of people pleasing, which would be a demanding, self-serving nature. As long as you still consider other people's feelings, you've got a healthy approach. Way to go! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted February 22, 2005 Report Share Posted February 22, 2005 apparently you get 10 points just for taking the test. that was my score. 10. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ttesta Posted February 22, 2005 Report Share Posted February 22, 2005 I got 25 points! :wink: :shock: :wink: Grab me that icecream, dude! :twisted: Noochy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khun_lung Posted February 22, 2005 Report Share Posted February 22, 2005 My score was 50. Got the same description as Liebe's. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
friends Posted March 9, 2005 Report Share Posted March 9, 2005 I got 25 You had a low score on the people-pleasing scale, which means you have your limits and are able to say "no" when others ask too much of you. You trust your own opinion and ability to make decisions, and don't rely on the views of others to guide your every-waking move. Although some people (those with the disease to please) would interpret this as selfishness, this doesn't mean that you only think of yourself. You probably still want to make others happy and care about their well-being, but you aren't willing to sacrifice your own needs for them. You've got a pretty high self-esteem and the assertiveness skills to stand up for yourself. Just be sure not to go to the other extreme of people pleasing, which would be a demanding, self-serving nature. As long as you still consider other people's feelings, you've got a healthy approach. Way to go! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibel Posted March 13, 2005 Report Share Posted March 13, 2005 I got 25 (but I cheated, should be zero ) You had a low score on the people-pleasing scale, which means you have your limits and are able to say "no" when others ask too much of you. You trust your own opinion and ability to make decisions, and don't rely on the views of others to guide your every-waking move. Although some people (those with the disease to please) would interpret this as selfishness, this doesn't mean that you only think of yourself. You probably still want to make others happy and care about their well-being, but you aren't willing to sacrifice your own needs for them. You've got a pretty high self-esteem and the assertiveness skills to stand up for yourself. Just be sure not to go to the other extreme of people pleasing, which would be a demanding, self-serving nature. As long as you still consider other people's feelings, you've got a healthy approach. Way to go! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TLOS4me Posted March 13, 2005 Report Share Posted March 13, 2005 After going to that link, and then reading the questions, I realized that these questions were similar, if not exactly the same, to a test that I had already taken before, most likely from another journal, or link, that I saw on TF.com. So.... This being (my) case already, I will opt out of this test and request a 'C' for 'Credit', or what ever y'all that teach school call it. Well then, back to my packing... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnno Posted March 14, 2005 Report Share Posted March 14, 2005 40Although you don't have a full-blown case yet, you've got some of the symptoms of the disease to please. In certain situations, or perhaps with certain people, you either put the opinion of others above your own, or do things that make you uncomfortable just to make them happy. At other times, however, you know yourself and don't compromise your integrity just to score points. While wanting to please is a healthy intention, sacrificing your own well-being for others is never a good thing. It will open the doors to people who might take advantage of your giving nature, and may even make you bitter. Keep being a generous person, but don't be afraid to put your foot down. same as dear acherry 8) :shock: that is scary to be the same as you :roll: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khun_lung Posted March 14, 2005 Report Share Posted March 14, 2005 I got 40. Nothing very special I guess. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OIC Posted March 14, 2005 Report Share Posted March 14, 2005 Score: 45 Although you don't have a full-blown case yet, you've got some of the symptoms of the disease to please. In certain situations, or perhaps with certain people, you either put the opinion of others above your own, or do things that make you uncomfortable just to make them happy. At other times, however, you know yourself and don't compromise your integrity just to score points. While wanting to please is a healthy intention, sacrificing your own well-being for others is never a good thing. It will open the doors to people who might take advantage of your giving nature, and may even make you bitter. Keep being a generous person, but don't be afraid to put your foot down. Yep yep yeah........ :roll: Cheers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PM Posted March 14, 2005 Report Share Posted March 14, 2005 My score is the worse possible one: 50! So i still don't know whether i am a pleaser or not. Guess it depends on whom i have to please (LOL) Although you don't have a full-blown case yet, you've got some of the symptoms of the disease to please. In certain situations, or perhaps with certain people, you either put the opinion of others above your own, or do things that make you uncomfortable just to make them happy. At other times, however, you know yourself and don't compromise your integrity just to score points. While wanting to please is a healthy intention, sacrificing your own well-being for others is never a good thing. It will open the doors to people who might take advantage of your giving nature, and may even make you bitter. Keep being a generous person, but don't be afraid to put your foot down. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Down2Earth Posted March 14, 2005 Author Report Share Posted March 14, 2005 I don't want to do this test, but if it makes you feel better... ok I got a 35... not to bad I'm happy! Hehe Thanks David.You really are keeping me smiling as you said b4.lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
unigue_me Posted March 14, 2005 Report Share Posted March 14, 2005 Mine was 40 Keep being a generous person, but don't be afraid to put your foot down. @ :wink: Hey I COULD BE MEAN! :twisted: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Down2Earth Posted March 14, 2005 Author Report Share Posted March 14, 2005 Guess it depends on whom i have to please (LOL) Danm right.Can't agree more!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyoiy Posted March 14, 2005 Report Share Posted March 14, 2005 40 - 40 - 40 i though i gonna got 100.. wow im not that too nice like i worried.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted March 14, 2005 Report Share Posted March 14, 2005 50.....a pleasantly ambiguous score i am well pleased with my pleasantly (to me) unambiguous 10... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angelie Posted March 14, 2005 Report Share Posted March 14, 2005 55 - a bit too low for me :shock: :roll: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arkon Posted March 14, 2005 Report Share Posted March 14, 2005 hey i got 25 points, at least a test where i got points, normally i am requested to send some points in as i ran into the negative. And you dont know how hard it is to get some points, especially when you are me. Arkon Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Down2Earth Posted March 14, 2005 Author Report Share Posted March 14, 2005 Mine was 40 Keep being a generous person, but don't be afraid to put your foot down. @ :wink: Hey I COULD BE MEAN! :twisted: I can be really mean as well. So...don't mess with me ya guys! :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Down2Earth Posted March 14, 2005 Author Report Share Posted March 14, 2005 hey i got 25 points,at least a test where i got points, normally i am requested to send some points in as i ran into the negative. And you dont know how hard it is to get some points, especially when you are me. Arkon Thanks for sharing Arkon and congratulations on your 25 points. Well done! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arkon Posted March 14, 2005 Report Share Posted March 14, 2005 hey i got 25 points,at least a test where i got points, normally i am requested to send some points in as i ran into the negative. And you dont know how hard it is to get some points, especially when you are me. Arkon Thanks for sharing Arkon and congratulations on your 25 points. Well done! Youre welcome, a compliment from such beauty is really great, you made my day. thanks any idea where i can collect these 25 points? they might come in handy int he next test. Arkon did someone just call me, oh yes, oops i am still here.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Down2Earth Posted March 14, 2005 Author Report Share Posted March 14, 2005 55 - a bit too low for me :shock: :roll: 55 is really nice i think. I only got 30 myself :roll: hehe Well....i think i don't please all the same,gotta be some special ones too :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted March 14, 2005 Report Share Posted March 14, 2005 50.....a pleasantly ambiguous score i am well pleased with my pleasantly (to me) unambiguous 10... Hmm evidently the *New York factor* is coming into play here. :wink: I look forward to the hospitality of the ZBH International Hotel and Tower on Columbus Circle zbh international hotel and grill... crack ho, no extra charge... reasonable (by new york standards) rates... we aim to please... well, at least we aim... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Down2Earth Posted March 14, 2005 Author Report Share Posted March 14, 2005 Far out i got 65......my godgotta start saying "NO" more WOW 65!! u really r Angel then. Thanks for sharing ka. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LAWMAN Posted March 14, 2005 Report Share Posted March 14, 2005 a 20....is that bad???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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