FUN - SERIOUS - THOUGTHFUL

Letter from my friend

Guys who have fun around only love themselves and the feeling that there is a girl loving him at home" Until that girl wants to break up, he will stop his behavior (if he didn't break up)


Honestly, I had my moment when I thought I just had good time in Singapore (not my place to settle down anyway) before meeting current boyfriend. I was serious with one or two guys but it didn't work out. So I just saw it as having fun.

That why it's easy for people who travel - they can have their fun time when they are in a different country because their life is not affected from that behavior anyway (expect he gets some disease)

Ask yourself. If it's you, won't you like some new experiences and fun? Especially, no string attached.

I think you should still love yourself by not loving him too deep na.

I know it is not easy to do AT ALL .

But he is not there for you when you need - he is living 'his life' in 'his country'

and he just comes and goes

Interesting words and well said.

I think that is the worry of many women in Thailand. The men they have relationships with are NOT in country. They have another life in the home country and come to visit a few times a year.

While some guys are honest with their relationship and are committed to the woman in Thailand, I know that many use their time in country as a fantasy. Have fun, and then go back to their Real Life.

I think that will always be a problem with different country relationships. Trust is hard to maintain.