I look the way I look, think the way I think, feel the way I feel, love the way I love! I am a whole complex package. Take me... or leave me. Accept me - or walk away! Do not try to make me feel like less of a person, just because I don't fit your idea of who I should be and don't try to change me to fit your mold. If I need to change, I alone will make that decision.
Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't you
Unlightened beings do not know or understand the true nature of worldly conditions and so they mindlessly rejoice and lament over them. Whenever they win they become indulgent and vaingrorious .............Whenever they lose they become sad and Despondent or even deranged.!!!
All right!
Break me down, you got a lovely face
We're going to your place
And now you got to freak me out
Scream so loud, getting fuckin' laid
You want me to stay, but I got to make my way
Hey
You're a crazy *****
But you **** so good, I'm on top of it
When I dream, I'm doing you all night
Scratches all down my back to keep me right on
Hey
You're a crazy *****
But you **** so good, I'm on top of it
When I dream, I'm doing you all night
Scratches all down my back to
Can you think of a time or experience with a man when you KNOW it was YOU who screwed up?
Maybe you got a little freaked out or jealous over something small? or maybe you became a little too dependent on your man for your happiness? and he began to notice? and it turned him off?
What's the WORST part about going through one of these situations?
Well, if you ask me, the most PAINFUL part of it is that as you look back on it, you always KNEW that it was YOU screwing things up!
It's not him.
I
"Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable."
**** Having a Secure Peaceful and Stable Mind Unshaken even when Effected by the ways of the world or Confronted with Vicissitudes or Changes...
**** Not being so Disstressed by Clinging or Attachment as to feel Disappointed or Sorrowful having a Mind that is Relieved,Cclear Buoyant and Free...
**** Being Refreshed Cheerful not Sullen or Depressed being Radiant and Free from Suffering Enjoying Genuine bliss....
**** Being Well Aware of Causes and Conditions and Acting Accordingly Leading
Don't care what others think of what you do,Care very much about what you think you do.
******
Put your future in good hand - your own.
******
Believe in something big Your life is worth a noble motive.
****** (^8^) *****
Failing to plan means planning to fail.
What are your goals ?
Change is the essence of life.
Be willing to surrender what you are for what you could become...(^&^)
Things aren't always what they seem.'
Sometimes that is exactly what happens when things
don't turn out the way they should. If you have
faith, you just need to trust that every outcome
is always to your advantage. You just might not
know it until some time later...
Oooo
Some people ( )
come into our lives ) /
and quickly go. (_ /
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( ) Some people
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I like to say that it is always NOW the right time to move forward. You are what you are and you will be what you want to be - keep it like that, strong and be yourself................
MONEY DOESN'T CREATE MAN BUT IT IS THE MAN WHO CREATED MONEY*****
***HE WHO LOSES MONEY , LOSES MUCH..HE WHO LOSES A FRIEND, LOSES MORE..HE WHO LOSES FAITH, LOSES ALL..****
*** DAMAGED PEOPLE ARE DANGEROUS BECAUSE THEY KNOW THEY CAN SURVIVE***
** IF SOMEONE BETRAYS YOU ONCE ,IT IS HIS FAULT.IF SOMEONE BETRAYS
One day a woman's husband died, and on that clear, cold morning,
in the
warmth of their bedroom, the wife was struck with the pain of
learning
that sometimes there isn't "anymore."
No more hugs, no more special moments to celebrate together, no
more
phone calls just to chat, no more "just one minute."
Sometimes, what we care about the most
gets all used up and goes away, never to return before we can
say
good-bye, say "I love you."
So while we have
