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Chuck out the vows! What marriage needs is a cheating philanderer of a husband whose bed-hopping will turn out to be 'very liberating' for his wife. 

Or so says Maryse Vaillant, a French psychologist, who claims infidelity - by men - is unavoidable and any promise to behave otherwise is simply 'unnatural'. 

She is not the only woman giving straying men the nod. Only last week, Angelina Jolie was sharing her wisdom on the subject. As long as both partners agree, she said: 'I doubt fidelity is absolutely essential. Neither Brad nor I have ever claimed that living together means to be chained together.' 

In Maryse's new book she aims to 'rehabilitate infidelity' and has caused a storm by saying French men should not be punished for keeping mistresses and women may find infidelity 'liberating'.

According to figures in her book 'Men, Love, Fidelity'  four in ten French men cheat on their wives and therefore she claims infidelity is 'unavoidable'.

She writes: 'Most don't do it [cheat] because they no longer love their wives. On the contrary they simply need breathing space. 

'For such men, who are in fact profoundly monogamous, infidelity is almost unavoidable.'

Miss Vaillant claims cheating is down to the 'psychic functioning' of certain men who are still very much in love with their spouse. 

And the divorcee who split with her husband 20 years ago after a  'faithful' relationship suggests that men who dot not cheat may lack strength of character.

 

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Chuck out the vows! What marriage needs is a cheating philanderer of a husband whose bed-hopping will turn out to be 'very liberating' for his wife. 

Or so says Maryse Vaillant, a French psychologist, who claims infidelity - by men - is unavoidable and any promise to behave otherwise is simply 'unnatural'. 

She is not the only woman giving straying men the nod. Only last week, Angelina Jolie was sharing her wisdom on the subject. As long as both partners agree, she said: 'I doubt fidelity is absolutely essential. Neither Brad nor I have ever claimed that living together means to be chained together.' 

In Maryse's new book she aims to 'rehabilitate infidelity' and has caused a storm by saying French men should not be punished for keeping mistresses and women may find infidelity 'liberating'.

According to figures in her book 'Men, Love, Fidelity'  four in ten French men cheat on their wives and therefore she claims infidelity is 'unavoidable'.

She writes: 'Most don't do it [cheat] because they no longer love their wives. On the contrary they simply need breathing space. 

'For such men, who are in fact profoundly monogamous, infidelity is almost unavoidable.'

Miss Vaillant claims cheating is down to the 'psychic functioning' of certain men who are still very much in love with their spouse. 

And the divorcee who split with her husband 20 years ago after a  'faithful' relationship suggests that men who dot not cheat may lack strength of character.

 

 From The Daily Mail
 
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skomaladat

We soon realized that though humans claimed to be the most intelligent creation on earth. Yet, humans do not understand love and sincerity.

Animals nudge and gloom their mates constantly to foster their love for each other.

Human, when dating, knows how to call Darling, Honey, Sweetheart and all the high loving sounding calls. After marriage, they call each other by the name. Few years down the road, they called each other "Hey, or Eh..." When a person is busy, he/she would tell the spouse "...go to sleep first, I have work to do...." , yet could not spend 5 minutes to hug and kiss. Soon, love is forgotten.

When a new lady (in the case of man) comes along, and hold the hands a little tighter, the magnetic shock starts all over again, and, the man may feel that this new lady is better than his wife. The same may apply for woman.

Then the story goes on and on. The may be true for spouse working abroad/overseas.

Let us remember to give a minutes of your time in the evening (before bed) and early in the morning when we wake up.

Sorry, I am not a philosopher of Love. Just understanding from mistake, and drawing some reasons behind breakups.

But, I guess there is no hope and help for any spouse who wants to be drunk monkey! Also, there is no hope for any man/woman who is always trying to look for better mates (greener pastures)!

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Geee

Sue, I did not say it was MY opinion, I just throw it in the group to check out the reactions :P

There is indeed something to say for the 2 viewpoints.

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skomaladat

Yep, Mr Geee

Maybe I also stated my viewpoint, as a person in my position (personal) .... very bad experience.

I thought I wanted to share my sad story and hope that life goes better in the future.

No offence meant to everyone and anyone. (Hope no one gives me a Yellow Card!)

Best Regards

Sue

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kaunitz

Would be interesting to see some research on women/wife infidelity. Guess that there would not be much difference! And what would a Ms. Vaillant resp. her male counterpart have to say on that then?

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condotown

That's why I'M staying single forever.

This is not mainstream thinking and women will never accept the truth.

And many men can't accept the truth about their own nature...

wimps!

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