I AM EVERY WOMAN 

I am writing this at home on this lazy Saturday doing nothing but taking afternoon naps over and over and over again. Being fed up with day dreaming, I finally got up and stole some of my girlfriend’s DVD to watch. Intended to kill time and to catch up with “Ugly Betty” that we started the other night.

 

Almost 10 episodes in a row, my eyes are now tired but somehow I cannot stop watching it, not because it’s that fun. But I was reminded of something. Something that I always speak to myself, something that always puts me up this far on this stage. And I just want to share it right here whether you take it or leave it, women.

 

But this is all..............FOR YOU ! 

 

Do you girls remember when was the last time that you check your boobs in front of the mirror? When was the last time that someone has commented about your weight, height  or bra size?

More than that …

When was the last time that you actually agreed with them and gave up on yourself?

 Giving up? I’m not talking about the extra minutes that you need to add for your exercise. But right here, I am talking about giving up on being

WHO YOU BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE ! 

I was a very skinny girl until I found out how much I love cooking and I decided not to follow the skinny trend.

My only one problem was probably the balance of cooking, eating and exercise. I must admit that I have been a lazy ass. My colleagues have always talked about it.

 

But instead of that my ‘self respect’ balances it all.

 

Why are we worried so much about how big or small we are.

 

Do you really believe in that word “a dumb blonde”? or do you really believe that the fat woman in the movie is always dumb and slow?

 

Answer me…. What do they really know about that?  Or what do you really know about that?

 Women… Doesn’t matter what size you are. Blonde or black. White or dark. Tall or short. You are ‘precious’. 

Remember what Bon Jovi sings?

 “Remember that you’re perfect. God makes no mistake.” 

Don’t let it eat you.

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I don’t believe in that word“Dumb blonde” ….some of my chubby chic friends say that skinny women carry no brain. I don’t think that it’s true.

Check out the Queen of Jordan. How gorgeous she is and how smart she is.

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I don’t believe that a woman at my size or even bigger are …dumb, slow, loves only eating or smelly.

Check out Oprah Winfrey or Queen Latifah

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We shouldn’t be worried about how do we look or what people’s critics . You could think about it but not to be worried about it.

I have come this far on my career to become the second person after my boss. That’s not because of my size either. Not because of the pressure how everyone looks at me. And I don’t believe that my Ms. Perfect body assistant has got this job because of how hot her body is either.

 

To big women, if you think that the guys don’t like you or fall in love with you because of your size..that’s wrong.  My ex loved me and we broke up not because of my size but because of the priorities in our lives.But now we’re friends again and  He just called me from Paris to let me know that he was doing ok and we talked on the phone for hours.Every time that I broke up with my ex boyfriends was never the reason that I gained weight.

 

To those who call yourself “flat screen”, you don’t need to have bigger…they’re not the way you’re created to be.

 

To those who are already “perfect”, this is my word..no one is perfect. But your brain only can tell you and your boss how far or how close you are from being the best staff.

 

Last but not least,

 

In “Ugly Betty”

 

You will find different types of women.

 One like “Betty”

She’s absolutely ugly. But she’s hard working and she’s proven that nobody’s perfect to be by Daniel’s side.

 One like “Hilda”

A 30 years old woman who thinks she’s disqualified because she was pregnant and not graduated. She never realizes that her son thinks she makes a great mother.

 One like “Wilhelmina”

Diva fashionista, who’s hard working. She fights till the end to get what she wants but also has a big failure raising up her only daughter. 

We all have our weaknesses and strengths but what do we choose to do with them? Of course, you better not ignore your weakness cuz one day it’s gonna do something to you. Rather than that if that can’t be your best then at least strengthen it. 

Be proud of yourselves, women….  

If you have called yourself or been called “a *****” then you shouldn’t be proud of it.

 But you’d better be a “shewolf.” And upgraded *****. Let people know who you are capable of at work, at home.

If you think that the Woman of the Year, has to work and be best outside only..then that’s wrong. My mother is the best leader that I have ever met. She’s doing great at work. Her company needs her. But at home, my father needs her also.

  If you have gossiped or been the back stabber, rather change it. You can do better than this…Confrontation makes a woman sexy and smart. Gossiping and Being the back stabber ..those are….excuse me…LAME and LOW ! 

  Because you do have one like “Alexis Meade” who was once big brother of Daniel Meade, but now became his “sister” instead. 

Which shows us something…. 

It’s the pride of being a woman. 

The pride of being “authentic”

And if any guy says that you are too big, too small, too tall, too short, too fat, too thin, your hair isn’t long enough or too short …to be with. 

Then he doesn’t deserve you AT ALL!! 

I’m every woman, it’s all in me! 

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Head Up and MOVE ON !!

 

  

Oh Wow! I thought you watched the documentary movie or sort of!

Why?

you just cant believe that someone can be a "REAL" feminist?

Honey,

you have just commented on a real feminist and a real NGO worker like me....

I do exist!

and that shouldnt be a surprise if you are a real woman who is proud to be!!!

nice to know that Ghee

next time wear a bra so that i know how feminist you are

lol

right.....

but i burned my undies instead