You know  I often wonder what happened to being nice and polite and giving someone a compliment. I'm not refering to "hey nice butt" but the little nice things that make someone feel a little better about their day. This applies to both us men and women in general about giving them. Is it because of the legal pc craziness we face in the west and afraid of sexual harassment charges for simply tellnig someone "hey you look great in that outfit" or "hey that shirt really looks good on you".  I in my usual fashion love to flaunt the rules right on the borderline and love to give compliments all the time! If I think someone deserves one for whatever reason their look, their journal, or even how they are a friend to me ( or try to rub in how much the weather is better where they are... afook and trocks you know I'm talking about you! lol). I think this is what makes being a nice guy more difficult because often the only time peopel give compliments they want something or are some "butterfly/playboy(girl)" type. When you are a guy (since I am one) we are often called "pak wan" or sweet talker. When girls say it to us maybe we think she says it to everyguy. So everyone give some of friends on your tf lists a compliment. Just to improve their day and restart the simple act of giving someone a compliment because they deserve it.  

Nowadays, if you give someone a compliment, it's either caled sexual harrassment, or you're a pervert!!l

''I love to flaunt the rules right on the borderline''

Doing something really crazy like jay walking?

alex it's the left wing groups who have pushed the pc'ness to the extreme now everyone can claim they feel threatened or harrassed because of this or that. People can't even put up anything representative of their national pride (even if it's the country they live in), or things representative of their faith for fear or upsetting some nut. It's why office parties are not called "holiday" parties instead of Christmas or channukah parties depending on your job and time of year and sometimes not even held during either season but in january or later!