This pretty much is a reminder for myself :

My brother repeated a big lesson to me when I was getting a ride with him.

Said

"Babe, my wife told me this and I think this is for you if you are in love"

He told me about his very tough moment with his wife and family, when he was only working and his family didn't count him in their democracy. He talked and apologised to his wife and she told him one thing very important and got his heart and that won him back to them.

His wife explained that she chose to marry him, and in front of God she said her vow that she would be by this man in sickness and in health. And that means whether he's good or bad ..she will be there.

"Now remember this" said my brother

"Once you have made your choice, stick to it because that means you will prepare yourself to welcome your man home even when he's not that lovely or when you don't want to. As much as you seek for his good part, prepare that his bad part will come or he will hurt you.So if you choose to love someone, make sure you stay even when he becomes the ugliest thing you have ever seen because thats what true love means"

I close my eyes, allow his words to speak themselves in my head over and over again. When I make that choice, I hope I'll be ready for it.. Come what may !!

i will remember this...

hope all men are thinking the same way ()