I found a man from a website. He is really my type , nice , funny , clever, good attitude and caring. I have chatted with him for 6 months almost and he plans to fly to Thailand this June..so he has asked me few plan for his trip and he seems pay a lot of attention about the coming date. After I have chatted with him around 6 months, in my opinion , his life is quiet close to perfect. He has a good career and he has his community and he has his fab life style(outdoor, soccer club &his music). He can take care himself so well and he seems happy all the time and he seem needless any lover. I am wondering does it seems so mean or stupid if I asked him what he is looking for from the date? What is his purpose ?
Can I ask him if he really would like to have a date with me ..or he just looks for someone for fun (so he could date anyone) ? I don't know ............but I don't want wasting of the time of both of us.? I wonder it because he is above 40 yrs old but he is still single ... I would like to play in a safety game.......what I should do ? Thank you for your kind advices in advance.