There are some ?Ting tong? questions my farrang friends asked me

1. After I answered a friend that is true about thai wives killed their farrang husband for money. He said he loves her and want to marry her but he still worry about that (I will not go in to details but he seem to worry)

My advises?.

You should make her know that you are not alone you should introduce your relatives to her family find some friends who live here if it possible. If you really scare still you should buy life insurance (very good one) and let her know that if something happened to you this company would hire a detective or someone to find what happened before they pay (those companies always do that-they do not want to pay much).when you marry her you should say that you want a big party in your own style and want to bring your relatives with you (if she wants a small party with her close relative only or only marriage documents?. ..you have to think carefully what make she do not want anyone know about you. She married or she planned to killed you) you should visit her family often, if you cannot speak Thai .. bring other farrang friend with you but do not tell anyone that he can speak Thai

My view

I know it is negative thinking but just think bad before it happened???.I want to tell you something ?. Love without trust it is not love. if you love her you just love her with no doubt she will do the same.

My case

Russ said he wants to invite his friends and family here if I agree to marry him?.? ?I really want to meet this friends and family if we marry. I have nothing to hide.A small woman like me don?t know how to kill such a big and smart farrang like him.I could die if he squeezed me using only one hand.

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2. I buy everything here in her name someday she can kick me off ?..

My advises?.

Oh yes !! it happened here (as you have read on some websites) but I want to tell you something. you can talk to the lawyer about this but you have to prepare. Thing you have to do is don?t pay anything using cash (hose?s down payment, monthly payment) if you transfer some money via bank account you can say that is yours property. And you have to prove that your EX can not pay for that by herself (maybe you could find her bank statements)

Before married you should declare your properties. if you are really serious with that.

My view

Think about this if she is a woman you love and married.why you don?t give her those things if she wants to go.

Before marriage, don?t worries too much about think like that it will make you lose her, if you find a real love it will be only once in your life and your money can not buy.

My case

We decided to put everything in our children name (if we marry and have them) so we don?t have to be worry about that. Also Russ said he trust me and my love for him.

Once he asked if he could open a Thai bank account and put my name on then he could transfer some money here I can buy thing and set up thing here for him.I said you should not trust me that much there are a lot of bad girl here in Thailand and maybe I am that bad. He said this thing I said it proved I was not a bad girl and.... made him loves me even more

?..oh ..oh?he does not know that I am an evil. he gave me his credit card number ?.well ? now I have more than what he planned to put in my account (just a joke ,,, he is not that stupid and I am not an evil)

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3. When we walk on the street ,ppl stare at us or say something and my gf seem to be upset what wrong with us?

My advises?.

Nothing wrong with you ?.. maybe those ppl are wrong .Some of them just think bad about your gf such as thinking that she is bargirl or not a good woman try to get a farrang for sex or money (some thai think farrang are rich and good in bed)

I have seen a lot of farrang gf here, their appearance just beautiful as you can see but not something that most ppl here call ?beautiful? but they call ?bargirl look? ?.yes hot and sexy ?..but they don?t like it as it look like bargirl.(and in the past most of farrang gf were bargirl as it was only a way to meet farrang ? now we can meet farrang on dating websites and at work)

You,pls understand your gf that she is in trouble sometimes going out with you .You should please her very well don?t let others think that you buy her from a bar?. Make others see that you both are in relationship.

My view

You will never seen those ppl again. Only one thing you have to do is please your gf very well and heal her pain? she loves you so much that is why she still go out with you.Not all thai ppl think that bad?. Listen to me ? just SOME

My case

I got this problem before when I went out with my ex bf as he dress like tourist always and I also have bargirl look (as I always in sexy dress).but I think ?well ?.if you want to look at me that way it is ok ,we will never meet again and you are not my family .. I only care someone I love?

Sometimes I just wore clothes that look not too much sexy instead when I went out with him.

I always smile and talk nice to ppl(even one I don?t know) so when ppl talk to me they will never thought of me that way again.

With Russ something like that will not happen we planed to live in small nice area call " Thon bu ri " if I agree to marry him (maybe the answer is Yes NAKA)

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I put my view and my case on becuase i do not want anyone think that i am so bad and thinking negatively

I love farrang and I can speak english ( as my journal say above)

Farrang speak some thai are so cute !!!

love you jub jub

Very easy marry girls from your own status. If you are a drunk drug taking that could see your mother for a nice pair of shoes then you marry a bar girl.

Ask your self in your country would i marry a girl from this social status? NO

Would my mother approve me marring hooker? No

Is a girl in a bar always a bar girl and is she lie when she is telling me it is her first day? Yes

Will her family ask her for money now when she has a bank as a bf? Yes

Is money the number 1 topic you going to fight about? yes that and you want to do her friend as well.

holy christ!

baan nook, baaan nook!

eieiei...Farang always love baan nok gals to set up a new family, I have no idea why?

But how come, there're some villages in issan they have almost farang sons in law.

....Surprise!!! ·Óä´éä§¹à ·Ñé§ËÃÙèºéÒ¹ ;B

Wow! Trip out...I was in the embassy today to add more pages to my passport....man, I heard all kinds of stuff going on....

Yes there can be true love from different social classes, cultures, age gaps, education levels, financial levels, but it is best to try to minimize them. For example, for me, it is important to have a similar level of education, similar values, interests, and not too big of an age gap. I can approach the cultural issues, learn the language, etc. with an open mind if the other things are in place. Maybe it sounds harsh, but I think the educational, value, and excessive age differences are a bit much to overcome in my experience.

Relationships are somewhat a challenge to maintain for many people. If paranoid about getting killed won't break the relationship, nothing will