I have been advice numerous number of girls:
Don't think of getting a partner.Otherwise it won't come to you.
How does this psycologically works with men and women? I know a girl can sniff a desperate guy.
For many years, I've always wanted a partner, but until this day, I'm still available.
It kinda degrades my spirit most of the time.
Check out my previous forum also: ""I feel good and fortunate to be a girl" http://www.thailandfriends.com/index.php?name=DB_phpBB2&file=viewtopic&p=105028#105028