h3LLgAL Posted October 25, 2004 Report Share Posted October 25, 2004 What if you or your girlfriend get pregnant but you two are not ready for it? What should you do? This stuff came across my mind before getting to bed tonight. I am worried if I am one.... :roll: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ahpuiahsan Posted October 25, 2004 Report Share Posted October 25, 2004 what i can say is the child is innocent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyoiy Posted October 25, 2004 Report Share Posted October 25, 2004 Sorry to say ... one way I think about is abortion ... I cant handle but what can I do for now is safe sex!!! I dont think my idea is good, its so cruel ... sorry to say my mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aphrodite Posted October 26, 2004 Report Share Posted October 26, 2004 - firstly make sure that ur REALLY pregnant. but how do u know if ur really pregnant, i dont know (but I wanna know too) u gotta find out urself. Maybe u can take a pregnancy test available at most phamacy shop just in case ur too ashamed/shy to go and see a doctor. - secondly consult with ur partner, whether he is ready or wants the baby or not. Try to find the final decision like if ur OK to keep the baby, but he doesnt want it. Would u two still be together? Would u be able to take care of the baby all alone? - my last suggestion but not recommend, have an abortion. there're many legally hospitals in town now. tell one of ur best friends or ur partner to go with u. I think u need someone who understand you the most to be by ur side. just remember that pregnancy requires a lot of money (during and after) I dont have any experience yet but Ive seen a lot. U have to prepare and buy some baby stuffs such as baby clothes, baby bed, milk etc. if this happened to me, I would never ever have an abortion. I cant kill my own blood and half of the person I love the most. I'd rather be a single mum cos im sure i can take care of myself and of the baby.It doesnt mean that my family is broken. it just means i would have a chance to be both mother and father. the truth is there're millions of children out there growing up perfectly without staying with their parents; i mean they would stay with either the mother or the father. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnno Posted October 26, 2004 Report Share Posted October 26, 2004 well said may 8) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neillyperrfekt Posted October 26, 2004 Report Share Posted October 26, 2004 my girlfriend got pregnant, she had an abortion without telling me. I was never angry about it. I always want a child. There is a time and place for it. You have to make sure that the child is going to come into a stable background because as soon as the child is born that should be your own priority. You have to give y0ou child the best life you can. If you arent sure then i dont think it should go ahead Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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