kungnoi Posted June 29, 2006 Report Share Posted June 29, 2006 I was thinking about write it on my journal. But The journal is on public not long enough as i wanted. The Manipulation is a key that i use when i have co workers in my control as well. Its not bad thing if you use it in the right way. But I just faced a guy who use this key for cheat on a woman. What did he do with me? Hm...He creeps and crawls around inside my head with words, with actions, with lack of words and actions, until He make sure I am under his control, until I am in his power (I do feel like him lots) He manipulates me with words and the power he has in my mind and if I don't play his game his way he brakes me with cruelty. now i am not in his control and i got a sh*t from him. It caused me cried, vomit. and i feel my mind was torn (like a destroy paper machine). Now everything done! I wrote it becuase i want your guys learn about this. Farang man here some . They are good in manipulation. You will never know yourself untill you leave him. Well, He is intelligent and manipulative. High eductated. Rich. Friendly. But he used it in the wrong way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeAussieGuy Posted June 29, 2006 Report Share Posted June 29, 2006 Move on my dear friend move on. Leave the past where it belongs, in the past. If he is as you say then he will enjoy reading your hurt, dont give him the satisfaction. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
venus Posted June 29, 2006 Report Share Posted June 29, 2006 if you don't let him - it can not happen. if i happened to be in the same situation, i would like to think that it's a good lesson which to remind me to not allow it to repeat. (human's nature - we always blame others.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kungnoi Posted June 29, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 29, 2006 Time to move on to your next trip Kung ... Those qualities you mentioned such as intelligent, highly educated, rich are nice but has nothing much to do with a good relationship ... so chokdee next time ... :wink: Hope this guy is not in TF, if he is member here, maybe you can give us some hints and let's f*ck his ass inside out ... :evil: He is on TF and I will give your guy a hint " ART". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kungnoi Posted June 29, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 29, 2006 if you don't let him - it can not happen.if i happened to be in the same situation, i would like to think that it's a good lesson which to remind me to not allow it to repeat. (human's nature - we always blame others.) I suggest you read all of my journal. Or let see in dictionary! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kungnoi Posted June 29, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 29, 2006 Move on my dear friend move on.Leave the past where it belongs, in the past. If he is as you say then he will enjoy reading your hurt, dont give him the satisfaction. I am not hurt anymore ka Khun Mike. He wil not get satisfy. what he will get is a sh*t.... We will see.!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miguksaram Posted June 29, 2006 Report Share Posted June 29, 2006 if you don't let him - it can not happen.if i happened to be in the same situation, i would like to think that it's a good lesson which to remind me to not allow it to repeat. (human's nature - we always blame others.) As Venus mentioned above people always like to "pass the buck" and yes its generally human nature to do so, how many religions allow "forgiveness" for breaking their rules (sins) and passes that blame onto religious figures instead??? The world is FULL of predators and if you are a victim of them while it is PARTLY their fault for preying on you in the first place is also partly YOUR fault for falling for their traps/manipulation. Take Venus' advice to heart, learn from it and try not to fall for it again but don't just assume that if you DO fall into the same situation (this is SO typical) that its EVERYONE elses fault you find yourself experiencing Deja Vu, its take TWO to tango and perhaps there is more than 1 common denominator in the equation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kungnoi Posted June 29, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 29, 2006 if you don't let him - it can not happen.if i happened to be in the same situation, i would like to think that it's a good lesson which to remind me to not allow it to repeat. (human's nature - we always blame others.) As Venus mentioned above people always like to "pass the buck" and yes its generally human nature to do so, how many religions allow "forgiveness" for breaking their rules (sins) and passes that blame onto religious figures instead??? The world is FULL of predators and if you are a victim of them while it is PARTLY their fault for preying on you in the first place is also partly YOUR fault for falling for their traps/manipulation. Take Venus' advice to heart, learn from it and try not to fall for it again but don't just assume that if you DO fall into the same situation (this is SO typical) that its EVERYONE elses fault you find yourself experiencing Deja Vu, its take TWO to tango and perhaps there is more than 1 common denominator in the equation. i give you same suggestion of Venus : read my journal! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kungnoi Posted June 29, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 29, 2006 Time to move on to your next trip Kung ... Those qualities you mentioned such as intelligent, highly educated, rich are nice but has nothing much to do with a good relationship ... so chokdee next time ... :wink: Hope this guy is not in TF, if he is member here, maybe you can give us some hints and let's f*ck his ass inside out ... :evil: He is on TF and I will give your guy a hint " ART". For clarity NOT TATTOO ART..... Nothing further to add other than when you next see him kick him in the balls. Well, Its not TATTOO ART really. Its gothic art. Ok more hint "Mai pen rai" :twisted: Kick his balls is not sastify me.......Any suggestion?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kungnoi Posted June 29, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 29, 2006 Well, Its not TATTOO ART really. Its gothic art. Ok more hint "Mai pen rai" :twisted: Kick his balls is not sastify me.......Any suggestion?? Duck ponds ... halogen balloons ... :twisted: ... a**hole Sausage :oops: :roll: :roll: :roll: which one hurt most? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anenglishman Posted June 29, 2006 Report Share Posted June 29, 2006 Ok guys....it's only a matter of time so i will hold my hand up. The individual in question is me. I take zero pleasure form reading the various posts made on this issue. I siincerely regret that someone got hurt. I have no problem with her telling people about it. That's her right. Nor do I mind if i get flamed as a result of this post. U make choices u have to learn to accept consequence. I learned this long ago. Nor do I have any intention whatsoever of getting into a ***-for-tat on who did what, said what and so on. That would be unfair to the other person. What I will say is this. There are always 2 sides to every story. Be careful about commenting on a situation where u do not know all the facts. It is very easy to do I know but often events get misinterpreted. The facts laid out are not even close to the full truth. When I say not close I mean like the distance from the earth to the sun. All that said, I accept responsibility for this episode and I have apologized to the individual concerned. I doubt she will accept the apology but there is not much more I can do. I also accept that I am very good at manipulating situations to my advantage. It's something I learned in business and I sometimes innappropriately carry it over to my non-business life. If people choose to continue writing/flaming, so be it. I don't have any more to say on the subject because to do so would be hurtful for others. But I do object to the people who work for me being hassled over this. It's not their issue and they neither want nor should eb involved in it. So I would appreciate it if people could limit any flaming to me only. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted June 29, 2006 Report Share Posted June 29, 2006 i personally feel "washing your dirty laundry in public" is never a good idea. ppl get judged (and maybe misjudged) and i've never yet seen any good come from it !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smartass Posted June 29, 2006 Report Share Posted June 29, 2006 i personally feel "washing your dirty laundry in public" is never a good idea. ppl get judged (and maybe misjudged) and i've never yet seen any good come from it !! :shock: this seems to be the first time (that i recall) you gave such a wise comment! *hurry to vote ciaran* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anenglishman Posted June 29, 2006 Report Share Posted June 29, 2006 What I will say is this. There are always 2 sides to every story. Be careful about commenting on a situation where u do not know all the facts. It is very easy to do I know but often events get misinterpreted. The facts laid out are not even close to the full truth. When I say not close I mean like the distance from the earth to the sun. Usually 3, Her Side, His Side and the truth somewhere in the middle Good point...one reason I decliine to elaborate on the "facts". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kungnoi Posted June 29, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 29, 2006 What I will say is this. There are always 2 sides to every story. Be careful about commenting on a situation where u do not know all the facts. It is very easy to do I know but often events get misinterpreted. The facts laid out are not even close to the full truth. When I say not close I mean like the distance from the earth to the sun. Usually 3, Her Side, His Side and the truth somewhere in the middle Good point...one reason I decliine to elaborate on the "facts". I gotta hold my hands up also. Usually i never hurt ppl. So, this time is very bad side of me. The truth is somewhere inside we both. and I realize this should closed by we both as well. NO MORE WAR. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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