so,,i was ready for the next big step..leaving belgium..to start new life here in thailand...just arrived at the airport my gf told me I WANT TO GO BACK HOME...can u imagine that??just arrived we both stopped working in belgium and left everything behind,,i asked her when....?she said right now..so we checked at the company and no seat for the same day ,,have some the next day,,so she has to spent a last night with me,,,i let u guess how was my first day here,,i tried to understand wha t s happening,,,the next day ,,morning time,,she told me i want to go shopping,,i told her ,,not really in the mood for shopping ..so she left the room leaving me alone,,she was supposed to come bcak quickly but after 3 hours still not back,,her flight was for teh afternoon..was waiting like lion in a cage,,in a room i mean,,,nothing to do,,she forgot her mobile in the room i got mine from belgium but didnt bring my sim card and bought a thai sim card..so i decide to copy the numbers of our common friends,,believe it or not i made mistake bcz never had mobile before and she used another brand..so i saw teh sms instead of the phone book..and the had 4 sms from stephane wich is one of my friend...so i just open it(if it was another name i ll never check it) bcz he s my friend not her friend,,,in fact i gave her number because last day in belgium he was at airport also so it s the last friend i saw before departure adn bcz my belgian sim card satyed home i gave the number of my gf...so i tought he sent message to me,,,but it was another guy with teh same name not my friend,,and sms said,,i waiting u in our bed of love my darliing i cna t wait to....balblabla,,try to imagine again,,a girl who was my gf 6 years ,,she broke my heart 6 times,,i trusted her so much and she did this to me,,,how?why??she came back from shopping i was very calm,,,for few min and asked her who s gonna picke her up at the airport and she said her sister...i said ..only her??no maybe a friend also>>u dont know him....i asked if his name was stephane,,she said how do u know??then i was less calm,,and she just smiled all the time and told me things like this can happen,,this guy flirted me since a while and i had sex with him 2 weeks ago,,no sorry ..no excuse,,,i was so shocked...and sad ..and the she just wait for the taxi saying it was just for sex,,,leaving me alone in a hotel,,,but good thing is that i discovered it by myself(if another person told me this story will never believe even my mom bcz trusted her so much)and dont feel like selfish just imagine i never knew,,i can feel like i should follow her if i love her,,or worst i decide to follow her and discover the truth back belgium....to be continued

so she wanted to go back to belgium to hook up with her other bf?

Dude, she broke your heart 6 times in 6 years? I don't wanna be brutal, but sounds like you have a serious case of "I can't smell the coffee." But sorry about the hugely bad events that have happened to you. At the very least, she could have told you this before stepping on the plane.

well, terrible sorry to read this story wich happen on u. and since it has happened, wish u will get over soon even its so difficult.

Gilgamish : Women------> lol, dont think all women r the same, at lease not fair to me, hehe

know now or never.....

be strong... tomorrow is another day

and the moral of the story? never be a puppy-dog in love again?

if this is real thing that happend to you, then congratulations you are free of your ex :-)

Cheer up for u !