Something Ms. Babybarbiebangkok said in her comment on my last journal entry got me thinking (gee Ms. BB-BBK, bet ya didn?t know ya had that power?to make ME think). Her words were, ?Well, and I just like ppl to fall for me?. It sounds like a simply enough statement, but is it really?

We all want to be liked by other people. And most of us want to be loved by some of those people. Further still, there are those of us (myself included) who want specific others to be enamored with us?captivated by us?to ?fall? for us.

Even if we have someone (boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife or lover), we still feel this desire to have other?s find us desirable. My whole life I?ve always sought the attention of attractive women. I guess that?s partly why I?m here on this website?to know that attractive women (like babybarbiebangkok, Kitty, tham, blurry_p, Candy_june, happygetty, athaigirl?the list could go on and on?and no they aren?t in any particular order) are chatting with me, sending me messages, hopefully finding me attractive too?in general, just paying attention to me. Is this selfish? Perhaps it is something we all want?

If the attention turns into something more?a relationship?friendship or more?that?s good, but it doesn?t always have to. Even if I know the women are unavailable (they're already in a relationship, they live too far away, etc.), I still want their attention. And even if I was already in relationship (not that I would ever cheat), I would still want that attention from these attractive women. Does anybody know why?

And perhaps next time I'll talk about how wonderful it feels to find out that these beautiful women actually have a brain...intelligence and beauty...who could ask for more? well, it would be nice if they were sweet, considerate, down-to-earth, fun loving...am I getting too demanding?

If you desire to chat to beautiful women as you've mentioned, by all means go for it! Always worth a try. This website is to meet new people, whether you're looking for a relationship or not

I've been chatting/messaging to members in here.. they've all made me feel welcome in this community

uh oh, is that an earthquake i feel? is that lightining striking? can this be? i actually received a response from athaigirl. i can't believe it. wait a minute...have i died? is this heaven? it must be.