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One ( of many) thing I like in this site is Private Message (PM). Every member can send to people they like ( or falling for ;-) ) free of charge !First day I joined the site I have got 5-6 PMs which made me nervous, didnt know how to deal with it, felt so glad that had someone interested in me and I replied to all. I told a friend who introduced me to the site that I was a popular people here sent me messages, he asked to see messages i have got then said they are copied and paste messages, fool ! :-( ( After that, i handle all incoming PMs smarter ..lolz )Recently, it must because of my defaulted pic has been too well-photoshopped by bCool, i got PM more than i used to and they became the difficulty to me to handle.lolz. As usual, i asked advice from a friend!He advised me that i SHOULD reply to all PMs I have got, he said, he suggested me from his own feeling that when he sent PM to someone, he expected reply and he would feel down and disappointed if he didnt have replying PM and possibly not to write to that one again. I understood and did as his advice. The consequence of what I did came out that I have to keep replying PMs from strangers over and over , back & forth. i got back to my friend again telling him that there are more silly messages keep coming to my mailbox and I fed up to keep being friendly with them, he advised me (again) reply to only 'constructive' one. (Thanks to him jing jing)It might sounds unfriendly me. I have nothing to excuse, i value all friendship i have got high, i prefer living my life off-line, therefore, couple PM exchange its too light for me to consider that is already friend. Have a nice weekend na ja.. everyone.
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One ( of many) thing I like in this site is Private Message (PM). Every member can send to people they like ( or falling for ;-) ) free of charge !First day I joined the site I have got 5-6 PMs which made me nervous, didnt know how to deal with it, felt so glad that had someone interested in me and I replied to all. I told a friend who introduced me to the site that I was a popular people here sent me messages, he asked to see messages i have got then said they are copied and paste messages, fool ! :-( ( After that, i handle all incoming PMs smarter ..lolz )Recently, it must because of my defaulted pic has been too well-photoshopped by bCool, i got PM more than i used to and they became the difficulty to me to handle.lolz. As usual, i asked advice from a friend!He advised me that i SHOULD reply to all PMs I have got, he said, he suggested me from his own feeling that when he sent PM to someone, he expected reply and he would feel down and disappointed if he didnt have replying PM and possibly not to write to that one again. I understood and did as his advice. The consequence of what I did came out that I have to keep replying PMs from strangers over and over , back & forth. i got back to my friend again telling him that there are more silly messages keep coming to my mailbox and I fed up to keep being friendly with them, he advised me (again) reply to only 'constructive' one. (Thanks to him jing jing)It might sounds unfriendly me. I have nothing to excuse, i value all friendship i have got high, i prefer living my life off-line, therefore, couple PM exchange its too light for me to consider that is already friend. Have a nice weekend na ja.. everyone.
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Mazzy

Well, you're a smart girl Kuss + a veteran on the site. I'm sure someone with your experience must be an expert at spotting phony PM's... Just make sure you don't ignore me next time that I write you. Really, I'm not weird or dangerous, I promise... :lol:

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OutOfOrder

what i like to do sometimes is : when i get an obvious whoring 'testimonials', I'd click on to the sender's profile... Click on his/her testimonials... Click open the profiles who sent him/ her a 'thank you for your testimonial' message.... Click on to THEIR testimonials ... Then i will see the identical copy/paste whoring testimonials from the original sender that the sender post for every other random strangers........ Then i wonder why some of these senders actually bother to *****... Then wonder why i actually bother to find that out.... Since it was obvious since the first place.........

are you confused? cos i kind of am....

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pinkcandygirl

There are some guys who send only one type of message to many girls hoping to get reply from some of them..

but when someone is really writing to me ..then i reply ..otherwise instantly i delete it. ;)

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bigcatbus

: it must because of my defaulted pic has been too well-photoshopped by bCool

Hmm, I think you do not need to be photoshopped :)

I don't have many PM's, but I will answer to friends. of course.

p.s. eieiei, When I see this journal entry, I think you love Prime Minister LOL

bCool, will you photoshop my pic too? :)

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