Twice a year pressure.
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Once again, the Father's day comes.
In August, I had an disagreement with my old fashion mother who is so into tradition (not a fashion) of the Mother's day because I wanted to make a point that I am not up for that day.
The tradition of the Mother's and the Father's day is pretty much the same. We bring a Thai jasmin bouqet to them. Get down on our knees then show our gratitude to our belove parents. They will bless us (also complain about this and that if there are something to complain- of course there are! 
). We will also ask for their forgiveness.
This is the tradition of these occasions.
"The fashion" of these 2 occasions which I really really don't like and total against is, taking them to do something "special" such as special dinner/lunch, taking them to places, go to somewhere they celebrate for these days. etc...
SIGN...
The point is, these things you suppose to be able to do it anytime. When ever you are free just don't be so busy partying with booze. Go look after your parents!
No need to wait for these 2 days for the whole year.
Anyway, back to the August..which my mother was really mad at me. About a month later, after everything cooled down, I asked her, "Mummy, do you know which day I love you the most?" She smiled and said, "No dear, when????"
I said, "I love you the most everyday!!!"
I also asked the same question to my daddy....He gave me a strong hug..a bear hug! Only me and him understand this action. It's the thing between me and my daddy. ( I am the daddy's girl)
As they know I don't say something I don't mean and I don't pretend to be sweet.
It was a happy lovely late afternoon.
Now they know that I don't like to show my love because of the sake of special occasions. Out of the blue, I just give them hugs, kisses..that's me.
Oh heck...but...
hm... my parents are a bit sensitive, though they got my point, but they might forgot.
They just want it to be tradition, a family gathering, lunch and...errrr a bit of lecture, perhapes..
I better move my ass...
Daddy is waiting.
I don't want my mummy starts complaining as well..
-..-"
I am a good daughter..in my own way. Only them understand a daughter like me. O_O
We are an odd family...I will try to against my nature to get there before my brother. He worked all night and still napping !! LOL
Happy Father's day! If you shy to say you love him, then take advantage of today to say it so you could say and show your love to him and you mother EVERYDAY
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