Hello, your guys.

I am sad now....

Yesterday i went to the airport for sent my best farang friend back to Belgium. He got sick , too sick and need to go back meet his doctor there.

If you know me or if you met me before. your guys will know i never wear sexy clothes or short skit...

While i walked for buy drink for my firend. Many farang looked at me with very naughty eyes.

and while i sat beside my friend waiting for admit time. One farang guy he walked pass us but still keep looked at me...Very not polite!!

So, I AM NOT....FOR SALE...., I AM NOT FOR TEASING, I AM NOT....LIKE THAT...

i got this pressure everywhere i go with him. I wonder....Why? Can't farang has thai lady for only friend???

You know? i don't care ...But just curious....why!!

well... It happens a lot wite me when I walk with farang normally..

Once in Krabi, we were walking at the night market.. I saw very nice "Tokyo sweet" so I approached old man and bought 30 bath, my american friend asked me a lot about this kind of sweet and I explained everything in english language.. The old man who sale Tokyo seems to be friendly...he talked to me a bit too..

We both Tokyo from him 3 nights continued...

day 4... I ordered 30 bath Tokyo as usual and then I excused my friend and the Tokyo guy to buy some beer in the shop opposite side.. Then i came back... But my friend looked so strange and upset.. " Is everything ok?" I asked.. " No it's not.. Do you still want this sweet??"... " Yeah why not? He overchrage you??"... He didnt answer.. Just gasped plastic bag and walked away..

He said that he shouldnt tell me about all this.. But if I really wanted to know.. Here we go ..

Saleman : That girl is cute , isnt she?

JJ : yeah she is very cute that's right..

Saleman : Are you her husband?

JJ: No I am not..

Saleman : So she is your gf?

JJ : No we are good friends.

Saleman : How much did you pay for her?

JJ : WHAT?

Saleman : How much do you pay her for day?

JJ : !$#$!$#@$!##$@@%#$@%!

The Tokyo guy just loose one more customer...

I called my best friend and started to cry... My best friend said.. " Hey ! Get.. You must accept this huh? I cant help you since you are this dark and walk around with caucasian .."

That was bad day...

Don't be so sensitive! Yes, I know what people think and it's none of theor fooking business! So you have to learn to ignore them and enjoy your relationship without guilt!

It's very common and we can do very least to change this. My best friend wanted to fly to Australia to see her bf and she took a nice pan with her last time too for his mom. When a guy at the customs [Donmueng Airport] saw her and he knew she got a pan with her, he looked at her from head to toes then mumbled with himself 'You're going to cook khao neaw [sticky rice] and eat there, aren't you?' My friend was so angry because that was considered an insult for her but reserved as she is she didn't say anything back to that thoughtless man. Yukky! Even he's Thai!

happygetty : that was same experience .... Thank you for sharing.. We have to accept..i know..but...........

Komma : ah ha....I see...this is what human do, right? ....i will take it easy...thank you ja...

Bernie555 : ah...um.....yes..

oh I forgot to tell you KungNoi.. What you can do about it next time is...

My friend half walk and run to that sweet shop..

And started to shout and raise his voice with that guy...

He said why Thai people are like this? How to assume thai girls to be prostitutes !

Brainless #@%#%@$@$$ and a lot more..

Many customers started to walk away from the shop..

The guy and his wife gave him an apology... And also gave me too... With a very sad face..

Dont accept it next time ! face with it and tell you who you are !!

komma is right..if ur not pretty they wouldnt give u that nasty look so just keep that in mind and be confident..ya dont need to care what they think..they dont know you anyway

Khun_lung : I am not sensitive...and I am not sad about this...I am sad about my friend...thank you...I am ok with this....and i don't mind...

Pretty Exotic. : Oh.....Bad guy...!!!... thanks for sharing story ka.

tell them who you are !!

As I told you it happened to me... sometimes when I had to meet crazy people..

I had to dress very polite in Pattaya when I go there for swim and travel !!

One guy approached me and said : oh wanna go with me tonite?

I said : Do I look like a prostitute for you when I dress very polite like this? Why dont you go f... your mother?

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Do not surrender na !!

happygetty : hahaha....but I am too quiet. My friend too. He is too sick more , can't protect me. like your friend did. but your suggestion intereted...thanks.

Kiddo : wow.!!...thank you for your nice word ka...

happygetty :...lol.... ja....Pattaya is place that i don't want to go with my farang friend..hahaha or go alone..

FOXIE : cool.....but but....that guy is very handsome lol...hahaha..

FOXIE : yeb....you help me much....

Just to add one more point:

When people see a Thai lady with a farang in Thailand, certain assumptions are made. First, that the girl is a hooker and second, that the guy rented a hooker! So it goes both ways. It reflects on what people think about you...and ME too!

I've had a Thai gf and I learned how to deal with it. IN my case I speak Thai so if people look at me like I'm a sex tourist, I just speak in Thai loudly enough in Thai so that they'll know I'm not. Or else a well-educated sex tourist. hahahaha

I'm just saying there are ways to deal with it. You don't know them, so who cares what they think? Life's too short to care about strangers!

I seem never face this kind of problem... or it is just I dont care at all?!? I get use to with running around my uncle for years.... I think I just dont give a **** with their smally sight.. Yeah I just dont care.. Good to have shotness eyes huh? hehe~

Khun_lung : ja ja...

babyoiy: don't care

yah I am BEAUTIFUL, kiddo