Is there a way to get "butterfly" boys to care for you? When a guy says he just wanna have fun or doesn't wanna have a gf, does he mean that or it's just that he doesn't like the girl enough? Even if you're not ready for a relationship for whatever reason, does it really matter if you run into a girl you really really like? I always believe a girl have the power to change a guys mind if the right button is pushed??