"NO"

Since when i was 13 and my lil sis was 3..... I discovered that by saying 'No' rather than; Maybe, Perhaps, Sure, I'll think about it.... etc etc.... made life much easier.....

"Pam, can u play with me?"

"maybe later"

"Pam, can we play now"

"eeer, i dont really want to yet"

"but u said you would play!"

"i said 'maybe'!"

"(whine whine whine)"

"..."

The easier option would be:

"Pam can you play with me?"

"No"

end of story!

tho, as u grow up - and hang yourself on the line of grown-ups world, u cant really say it so often... which sux.....

So like, if some wanker ask you out:

"So, would u like to hang out sometime?"

"Sure" (trying to be polite)

"How about tomorrow?"

"hmm i'm seeing my friends tomorrow" (utter lie)

"I'll give u a call then?"

"ok"

(Phone calls the next day)

"So when should we meet?"

"urm....maybe tomorrow?" (trying to be nice, again)

"Ok, maybe after work"

"eeer, not sure what time im gonna finish work, might be quite late u know...."

"its ok, I'll give u a call around 7 then?"

"ok"

(7pm, phone calls)

"Are u done with work?"

"yeah"

"Should we meet somewhere"

"u know I'm kinda tired...."

Easier version should be:

"So, should we go out sometime?"

"no" (!)

.......... i should have said that word 2 times today..... one time yesterday... And then i wouldnt have to DO the things i dont wanna do... Just ONE WORD!! D~A~M~N~!

Honesty is the best policy.

lol

: ) .... sometimes its very difficult to turn down ppl as we are living in this world with them....

P' Riya

I disagree... Easier with "maybe" "perhaps" or whatelse and dont have a phone I know, I cannot say no! lol! My japanese roomate got very upset when I said something then didnt keep it, but "I'm sorry, that's italy"...Once I arrived in time and she was sooo surprised and happy (easy to make somebody happy lol)...

yeah i know, luca... thats what i thought... its easy to tag along just to make some people happy.... i HAD to date the ugliest geekiest guys just cus i felt that if i turned em down it would make them feel bad about 'emselves..... Then the whole dinner were struggles (for me) to pretend to smile and acted like it was good! (most times i just wanted to say 'I'm gonna go to the loo' and run off, but couldnt!) ........ then i realized the easier way out is to turn them down rather than giving them hopes!

KAyle, its truly NOT popularity....... Some PPL are Just DESPERATE for companion! I'm just like some fuking 'convenient store'! *tired*

popular.. haha like that hmm... that (she thinks she's)famous girl ...

duh~! When is the journal page gonna stop *** up???

yeah atleast thisold journal pop up in journal page.. guess u have to post another blank journal and then the one u want it to appear in journal page maybe appear.. try si

testing your self-limit...see how long you can go without saying no lol

Pam .............. ........ yes:P