I couldn’t make to have Thai massage last night as planed because I got back home late. 

A girl colleague came down to my desk and asked for a hug from me.  I gave her hug and asked what was wrong (as we just had greeting hug in the morning).  She said she is in tough situation! 

She told me, she fell in love with a colleague whom has been in a serious relationship with someone already and now his girlfriend getting intruded on her.  She got confused and has got many things to worry about, people gossiping, spreading of the rumors and could even worse if her manager comes down get involved.  

I told her I never heard anything about her ( but I always be a last person who hear about that kind of issues while be the first one who hear about works / company issues ) 

We talked for an hour, I advised her that I cant tell her what to do but if she doesn’t sure what she going to do is right or wrong just don’t do. 

I also told her that having an affair in work place is great harmful to our professional image, be more concern. 

Wish everything around her running fine.

more Thai Classical Literature.

hug to you kus!!!

P' Ghee .. keep that question to ask your friends, k ? There has plenty of decent thai girls who still have their dignity to live with.

Ghee 0 - Big Kus 1

Would of thought bad to tell story here!

BJ.. Its would never been bad to tell story here ( i told almost 300 stories already ), but the bad is in some people thoughts not a the story telling :-)

Pi kha !!!

I'm glad that you were there for her.... and ...BJ might be true...sometimes its not that wise telling a story here not because of who you are or how the story is but because of who 'they' are and how narrow minded they are !!!

Ignore the bad comments ...and if there is not good ones..don't seek for it since its your journal just for yourself.

But here is my thought...when there's a rumor going on in my workplace..I deny it ! I refuse to listen to what other ppl say and if my relationship between the two ¤Ùè¡Ã³ê are still good..though they might not be good to one another and the company has splitted into two..i still stand by BOTH of them.

So I'm glad to know that you have never heard such anything bad about her..or it could be true that you're always the last to know..but seek not to know it ! not to be the most justice but to not gain any headache and become one of them (¤¹¢Õé¹Ô¹·Ò)

No matter what...no matter if you friend is wrong or right..she needs a friend..and if you have been there for her..then dont stop.

Sometimes my best friend slapped me because I had been so bad and I needed someone to do that to me. Someone who loves me so dear and dare to tell me if i have gone wrong.

all the best

me

oh that is not a good sign for your friend na P' Too....

Nobody perfect she can't change anything in the past but in the future she can manager her life. I think but I don't wanna advise but I think she should forget him and back to concentrate with her life and her work more. I feel bad for your friend but she's not choice for the guys but all girls can make choices.

" I advised her that I cant tell her what to do but if she doesn?t sure what she going to do is right or wrong just don?t do."

I think it'similar with the best advice I got from my aunt.

ooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

where's the ruler...whats the standard

and who are you, ghee ????????

btw im surprised you can spell 'dignity'

or judge by your very own moral ?

does it work ?????????????????????

Humm.... back to the journal topic please.

Affairs with work colleague are almost always a bad thing. Dating (or trying to) someone who is already involved is a bad idea as well. Two wrong doesn't make one right... Then again, people think with their brain and love with their heart. She'll either understand that she's on the wrong track or follow her heart and go for broke.

In the meantime, all that you can do is be nice and watch things develop. A hug is always a good idea, can I get one please...?

At office, my desk is like a 'help desk' people (colleague ) from all level of working positions like to come sit and talk. I think its because two reasons 1. my own personality 2. my working position ( The President of company's coffee cup washing )

Nong Kha..Thanks for 'constructive' comment ka.. as said in PM :-)

Oiy.. I always upseted my nieces when giving them advices.. but I also tell them that if ask me advices do not expect anything you want to hear because im not your friends but aunt.

Ayummy..she is a good girl, i wish she does the right thing for her life and her family.

Mazz.. I told her that when i was at her age ( newly graduated, newly in working life ) i was also like her, ( appreciated someone at work whom has outstanding performance etc.. but i have my moral principle and i have my aim to reach ( then i have been busy with it lolz ) so, affair in workplace was not worked out. Hug here provided for people who deserve.. you have to prove if you want one.. hehe

Cate.. yeah.. do you want one, or two ?? hehe

heretic.. you mean you also want a hug.. ??