when you  argue with your Lover.

 You Fight?

 you slap him? or he kick you?

i dont understand why (some)man like to fight or  hurt their gf or wife?

is that The Human call MAN??

he could be a *****

I  would glad to give him one of MY SKIRT

Get a Life or GO To HeLL. I cursing YOU.Bad GUY.

"The Loser" will hurt you on purpose. If he or she hits you, twists your arm, pulls your hair, kicks you, shoves you, or breaks your personal property EVEN ONCE, drop them. Male losers often begin with behaviors that move you physically or hit the wall. Female losers often slap, kick and even punch their male partners when upset.

I hated when i saw men hit women... sometime men kill women, i heard few news lately..

we , women have to be wise and a little bit choosy or picky ... to safe our lifetime.

I only f. him

Do you just wonder or Did someone hurt you?

SweetieBabie-----------------yes.. The Loser...let the Emotion control the feeling... Bad bad bad,... so bad,

Puriku -------------------------... i just wonder, when they love each other they love so much. but when they fight. why they have to hurt each other.... thats not good.

Dr_Sassy-----------------------only F...... F? Fight? or F**K.....lol.....

JayaVII-----------------------Yes. i agree with you, as i said i wish you were there with me. I will let you kick that bad bustard and protect my gal next door. ...she so so sad now.not talk much not eat much...

Some women will just look for confrontation or test how far they can get in abusing and browbeating the guy to try to train him to get whatever they want out of him.

And some guys cannot defend themselves with words or explain why they are feeling so bad when they are verbally abused or pushed around....

So... if the guy doesn't abandon the woman, he has to either admit that she is the master, or he needs to re-establish himself as the master... Hence the striking of a woman.

You started your journal pretty good, considering that aggresions can come from each part of the couple, but then you end up accusing and judging only men.

I slapped my ex once, sure I did... but she was totally out of control and threatening me with a knife, so it was the only way I could imagine to make her stop... For someone like me who never get a fight in his live was an extreme and hard decision to take.

And now blame me.... I don't feel that guilty... at that time maybe I felt sad but surely not guilty

It's terrible to be eyewitness in such situation.. or even just hearing it is already worse...

I hate that.. when my cousin fight with his wife,, most of the time they hit each other.. the girl got lots of energy to fight... so scary... She would beat me up easily... I didnt feel really bad as the girl can protect herself well and if they fight, no one can stop really(we learned that after awhile) however I never like to hear them fight.

I also hate human hurt animal... my another cousin hit his dogs badly and many times I have to hear/see that but I normally walk away, I used to fight with him once coz of this, he's a bad bad-tempered.. It's like someone stab my heart when I hear the dogs make noise saying they are hurt... It's not healthy and make me sad..

In this case I agree with condotown. Emotional abuse of men is widely underestimated. Even more, it's almost a taboo to mention, cause women don't want to lose control by disclosing the secret and men don't want to admit (or don't know) how they are being controlled.

Apart from that there are - of course - also male a*holes that suppress their wifes and are to stupid to handle their aggressions.

I'm sorry to hear about this Unny. I'm against violence in general, whether it be done by men or women, especially within a relationship. Love and violence have nothing to do together... Usually violent men (or women) were victims of violence themselves in their childhood. Instead of getting themselves "mentally fixed", they perpetuate the circle of violence.

Don't stay in an abusive relationship. It's poison!

tell me, tell me, who's do that u you? i gonna give him my sexy dress...

Well some guys are just assholes, plain and simple.

doesnt matter whether it is from man to woman or woman to man; domestic abuse of any kind, be it physical, emotional or sexual is goddamn wrong. Men are the worst perpetrators; it's all to do with power and control. But if they do it once, they can do it again, no matter the apologies or regrets. I'll team up with Dave if you want and sort him out in a Kentucky/Glasgow hybrid styleee..

Fighting of any kind is just wrong. You wanna play? get on the ring! More than the half of these bastards wouldnt have the guts to do so!

A man should never put his hands on a woman....HOWEVER Condo and riga have both said it right and it's as my mother said it to me when I was young.

If someone is big enough to hit you then there are big enough to be hit by you! Equal equality means women have grown more violent in the last few decades and cases have shown men growing more so in responses to it. So the next time you or your gf is thinking about some smart ass comment in response to a guy ...maybe a simple "no thank you" really would suffice. The world in general needs to be more kind over simple things there are not serious people out to cause harm without stupid things rasising anger in people and driving them to violence for no reason and abuse.

Still there is no excuse especially in asian countries where it's often not talked about and therapy reluctantly found and even harder to find for a guy unfortunately.